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9 Orgasms You’ve Probably Had If You Have a Pussy

Just like a woman’s pussy, an orgasm comes in all shapes and sizes. From a really intense twitchy one to one that makes you wonder if you just squirted, you’ve probably experienced a range of orgasms if you have a pussy. Here are some of the most familiar ones (check out the complete list from BuzzFeed below).

The “WTF Just Happened” Orgasm
Maybe the friction from a bike or a train caused it. Maybe you didn’t see it coming and then all of a sudden there you are, cumming. Whatever it is, IT CAME AND IT FELT AWESOME.
The “Almost… Almost… Almost… Almost…” Orgasm
This is the orgasm that fakes you out over and over and over again…before finally showing up! Good things happen to those who wait!
The “Thrasher” Orgasm
As BuzzFeed explains, “This orgasm is a switch for any convulsion your body is capable of — so be careful, because you might accidentally kick someone in the face or nearly suffocate them between your thighs like a vise. But…worth it.”
The “Too Late To Skip This Part Of The Porn” Orgasm
We’ve all been there: you’re about to cum and suddenly the porn switches to something you really don’t like—or worse, the video starts buffering—but you just. Can’t. Stop. It.
The “Sorry But There’s No Way I Can Look Cute Right Now” Orgasm
This is the orgasm that hijacks your face and does not let you control how it looks. Picture something like a scrunchy-faced beast!
The Clit Orgasm
Sometimes, you have a clitoral orgasm so good, you just have to say, “The clit is it.”
The “World Record” Orgasm
This results from testing out the highest setting on your vibrator—and cumming in two seconds.
The “Wake The Neighbors” Orgasm
This orgasm rattles the walls, the headboard, the box spring, and the windows!
The “Was That Pee or Did I Squirt?” Orgasm
You came and there was definitely a lot of bodily fluid…but what was it?

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Check out more about the various orgasms you’ve probably had if you have a pussy: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/slowly-and-then-all-at-once

7 Moments Everyone With a Pussy Has Experienced While Masturbating

There are some experiences in life that are universal—and masturbation is one of them! Sometimes you’re bored, have to be stealthy, or are in the shower…so you might as well have an orgasm! If you have a pussy, we guarantee you will recognize some—or all—of these scenarios (check out the full list below).

When you can be really loud
Sometimes, you have to be stealthy and put pillows and blankets on top of yourself to mute the sound of your vibrator. But then there’s those rare and sacred times when no one’s around and you can crank up the volume on your porn and really let loose!
When you wind up thinking about someone you’d rather not think about
As BuzzFeed says, “No matter what fantasy you start out with, every once in a while someone completely random pops up and hijacks your fantasy.” Whoops!
When the battery fails on your vibrator right as you’re about to cum
This is just about the. Worst. Thing. Ever!
When you have nothing better to do than rack up multiple orgasms
Sometimes, with a can-do attitude, you find out exactly how many consecutive orgasms you can have in one session!
When you’re in the shower and want to test out your shower head
Everyone’s heard that the shower head on your clit is the holy grail of orgasms, so why not give it a go while sudsing up!
When you make your clit go numb from using the highest setting on your vibrator
This is not for the faint of heart, but sometimes, you want to see if you can cum in three seconds flat!
When you need to put yourself to sleep
Everyone knows cumming before bed is the best way to ensure a good night’s sleep.

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Check out more experiences everyone with a pussy has had while masturbating: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/masturbation-is-always-the-answer

7 Things Your Pussy Wants You To Know About Masturbation

BuzzFeed wants to know: “Have you appreciated your clitoris lately?” The reason they ask is because masturbation is amazing, and so good for your mind and body! Here are 7 ways to do right by your pussy.

Masturbation should never be treated as a “stand-in for sex”
Masturbation is its own unique and important sexual outlet—as one sex therapist explains, it should be “regarded as first class” and not “relegated to a second-class citizenship.” She adds that it’s “a lifelong relationship you have with your body and with your own sexuality.”
It ain’t all about the Big O
The ultimate goal of masturbation shouldn’t be about having an orgasm—in fact, it could be giving you performance anxiety. She advises women to “just focus on pleasuring yourself without worrying about whether or not you get off.”
Use your digits before graduating to toys
Figuring out how to get yourself off first without a toy sets a good foundation before experimenting with different kinds of orgasms. “Learn your baseline, and then you can go wild,” she says.
Use the clit!
This is the main reason women have trouble orgasming. Get a vibrator and go get off!
Plenty of people require simultaneous stimulation of various erogenous zones for the best orgasm, too
If clitoral stimulation isn’t working for you, play around with penetrating yourself, or exploring other erogenous zones!
Besides being super fun and feeling great, there are health benefits to masturbation
“It relieves stress, it helps you feel more relaxed, and it boosts endorphins and testosterone levels, which can improve your mood,” according to the sexpert.
Masturbating can help you enjoy sex with other people more
As the sexperts explain, if you don’t know what feels good to you, how will you be able to guide a partner? Your pleasure starts with knowing your body, exploring your body, and embracing your sexual health.

Looking for ways to appreciate your body? Come love yourself—with us!

Check out more female masturbation tips here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/the-clit-is-it?utm_term=.xlxyb7R9G5#.lcd5MYZAzb

The World’s First 3-D Printed Clitoris

The first 3D printed clitoris is premiering in France in hopes of educating the masses about this important and oft ignored part of female anatomy. The model is currently being exhibited at Fab Lab at the Cité des Sciences et de l’Industrie in Paris, but the creator wants it to be distributed around schools in France to improve sex ed. Because, as the creator says, it’s time to switch from male-centered sex ed (trying to put a condom on a banana, anyone?) to education about female pleasure.

“The representations of sexuality are mostly centered on the male sexual organs,” she told Vice. “Practices that do not include an erect penis are not seen as ‘real’ sex… Whether a woman is excited or not or whether she has an orgasm or not plays no role in fertilization—which apparently means it can be royally ignored.” And this tendency to focus on the male’s pleasure is what has led to the sad, unjust phenomenon known as the orgasm gap. The creator hopes this 3D printed clit will teach men and women that there’s nothing mysterious about a clit that works pretty similarly to a dick—which should never be ignored! Cheers to a far less disappointing sexual future for women!

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Check out the world’s first 3D printed clitoris: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/3d-printed-clitoris/

Oh Joy Sex Toy’s Illustrated, X-Rated Review of the Eva Vibe

You might remember the Eva Vibe. It’s the first ever vibrator that fits snugly between your labia for hands-free solo or couple’s sex. It is adorable, looks like a little pussy beetle, and now, for the first time, has been reviewed! Oh Joy Sex Toy gives you the ins and outs of the Eva in a helpful, graphic comic (check it out below).

While the Eva looks like a cute little lapel pin for your labia, it doesn’t seem like it’d be all that comfortable. The illustrator/reviewer found upon trying out the Eva that it was surprisingly comfortable—which turned out to be not such a great thing. While it’s unobtrusive, “it’s so inconspicuous as to be ineffective on my bits,” she said. Unfortunately, all those good vibrations hit directly above the clit, so you need to push it down with your finger to get the good stuff, thus defeating the purpose of it being “hands-free.” She also had issues with it staying in place. If you’re getting pounded, there’s a good chance for most women that Eva will fly out of your pussy: “This little whirligig kept leaping for freedom any time I moved,” she said. The verdict: Eva’s got loads of potential, but for now, it just doesn’t hit the right spots.

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Check out the x-rated webcomic for Eva the hands-free vibrator here: https://bitchmedia.org/article/oh-joy-sex-toy-eva-vibe

Virtual Vaginas Are Teaching the Masterful Art of the Female Orgasm

The makers of the website OMGYes are leading the way to a whole new era of female pleasure, one virtual vagina at a time. They decided that an instructional, interactive website could help close the orgasm gap and get women off just as often as men during sex. The instructional website is basically a huge encyclopedia of clitoral touching based on interviews their research team conducted with over 2,000 women.

Now they are offering their findings on female pleasure to the internet. For a small fee, you can learn techniques like “edging,” “hinting,” “staging,” and “accenting,” each with their own descriptions and videos. OMGYes also has “touchable technology,” which helps members to learn about the female orgasm through interactive images of pussies that can be touched, rubbed, flicked, etc. And as you interact with virtual pussies, a sexy narrator leads you through the techniques, describing in explicit, breathy detail how she likes to be touched. The simulations, based on the interviews and the anatomies of real women, are extremely realistic, if not entirely pornographic. “We’re hoping that it gives people a toolkit of things to discover and explore, and new ways to talk about it all,” said a researcher.

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Check out more about how virtual vaginas are teaching the art of the female orgasm here: https://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/12/30/can-kinsey-approved-virtual-vaginas-help-close-the-orgasm-gap.html

How Masturbation Can Help You Orgasm With a Partner

It’s really quite simple: to have better orgasms with someone else, you should start by having them by yourself. That’s because figuring out your own self pleasure can help you instruct others how to get you off. Here’s how:

Train your clit to be more responsive
By masturbating, you’re actually “training” your clitoris to respond to different types of stimulation. The more practice you get exposing your clit to different sensations, the easier it will be to get off with your partner. When masturbating, try switching up the strokes, the amount of speed or pressure, different positions, and the number of fingers you use. Learning new ways to pleasure yourself is key to keeping it fresh and fun with a partner.
Show your partner what you like
Truly, the best way to get what you like from a partner is by showing them yourself. Try masturbating in front of them—it’ll be instructional and fun to watch! After going solo for a bit, have them put their hand over yours so they can see what you like. When they get a feel for what gets you hot, try tag-teaming your clit for a while, switching off hands every few minutes.
During sex, give yourself a hand
Ain’t nothing wrong with giving yourself what you like during sex. Often that involves stimulating your clit with your fingers or with a vibrator during the act. This is especially easy to do in certain positions, like doggy style or woman on top.

In the mood for some self pleasure yourself? We’re always here to lend a helping hand!

Check out more tips about how masturbating can help you orgasm with a partner here.

What Women Want Men To Know About Their Pussies

For a lot of dudes, the pussy is a mystery. Whether it’s an anatomical problem (men let it all hang out while women have theirs neatly tucked away), or a result of the sorry state of affairs that is Sex Ed, one thing is for certain: women want men to know about their lady parts so that men can know what to do with those lady parts. So here are women’s advice on what they want men to know about their pussies:

Pay attention to the clit
The clit is the only organ in the human body that is made solely for pleasure. It has around 8,000 nerve endings and, most importantly, most woman—an estimated 85 percent—can only cum during sex when the clit is stimulated.
Approach the clit with care—it’s sensitive!
While women want attention to the clit, too much of a good thing can be very very bad. Be gentle, especially at first—work up to more intense stimulation.
The clit isn’t the only part of the pussy that wants love
This does not mean harsh rubbing or fingering—it does mean exploring the vajayjay and all its sensitive, erotic pleasure zones. Also, be sure to cut your nails!
Use lube
While pussies get magically wet all on their own, lube is important for comfort, pleasure, and enhancing the experience. Use it!
If you want to know what the pussy likes, just ask!

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Check out more about what women want men to know about pussies here!

Is the G-Spot a Myth?

Some medical researchers have been arguing that the G-spot is about as real as unicorns and angels, which has made women everywhere wonder if they’ve been wasting their time searching for the elusive “vaginal orgasm.” A review published in the Journal of Clinical Anatomy asserts that the existence of the so-called G-spot, or the magical spot located inside the pussy that can make a woman cum, cannot be proven with scientific evidence. This is why the researchers say that women should focus on the “female orgasm” instead of the “vaginal orgasm,” since every woman has the capacity to orgasm if her clit is nice and stimulated.

The researchers explain that the clit is basically the “female penis” since its anatomical structure is so closely related to a male’s cock (see pictures below). While the comparison may seem strange, a clit and a dick are similar in the way that increased blood flow causes their spongy tissues to engorge right before orgasm—the only difference is that the clit is very small and hard to find, which is why it’s important to educate and demystify women about their pussy’s. The study’s aim is to raise awareness about the myths of the “vaginal orgasm” so that women who feel shame at not being able to cum through PIV sex alone can start taking control of their own sexual pleasure.

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The Joys of Finger-Fucking

Looking to switch it up in the bedroom and make your lady very very happy? Look no further than finger-fucking—an underrated and seriously amazing way to get your lady off and leave her sat.is.fied. Here are some reasons why you should throw some healthy fingering into the mix tonight.

While getting fucked is fantastic, fingers can offer a more focused, intense stimulation than any other body part. You can hit every erogenous spot while using your fingers—rubbing her clit with one hand and using the other inside her for an amazing internal/external combination. Fingering’s also more likely to make her cum than PIV (penis in vagina) sex: since 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, you can hit all her spots this way. But best of all, fingering allows you to watch your lady respond to all the pleasure you’re giving her!

This sounds like a great way to spend an evening to us! Want to get some good practice in? We’re always down for some amazing ways to switch it up!

Read more about the joys of finger-fucking here, along with some tips about how to do it right!