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This Is How Long It Takes The Average Woman To Orgasm During Sex

In a groundbreaking study, scientists measured women’s “orgasmic latency,” or the amount of time it takes them to cum between arousal and climax. A total of 645 straight women from 21 countries took part, and the average time to reach orgasm was 13 minutes and 25 seconds. Researchers asked women to start a stopwatch when they became sexually aroused, and stop it again when they climaxed.

They defined the moment of becoming aroused as “an intense desire for sex in the presence of erotic stimuli, which were provided by the partner, audiovisual methods or both.” Around one in six of those who took part said they never climaxed during intercourse; for the rest, the time it took ranged from 5 minutes 42 seconds to just over 21 minutes. Almost nine in ten of those who took part in the research reported longer-lasting sensations when they were positioned on top.

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Check out more about a study showing how long it takes women to cum: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7094769/Does-woman-orgasm-13-minutes-25-seconds-Yes-yes-yes.html

7 Non-Phallic Sex Toys

With these unique sex toys, you’ll find lots of alternative routes to the ultimate big O. They prove you don’t need the D to get off. Here are 7 non-phallic sex toys to fulfill all your hottest needs.

A 10-speed waterproof vibe with super-smooth silicone proves that powerful orgasms cum in small packages!
Lelo Sona vibrator stimulates the entire clit (instead of just the tip) without even touching it, so you can get that mind-blowing, full-body big O every time!
An oral sex toy with ten speeds can take you from “mild” to “intense orgasmic” with its velvety, silicone tongue.
A clit-sucking sex toy is just the thing to make your toes curl!
A dual vibe set stimulates all your naughty spots at the same time, and is great to use with a partner — it’s as discreet as a bullet vibe but a little bit bigger, and softer!
An osculating toothbrush vibrator is capable of moving side to side as opposed to up and down, promising just the right kind of friction for your sex life.
A chicken emoji themed sex toy features eight vibration settings and eight suction settings to stimulate and pulsate your way to climax. This one proves you don’t need the cock for your doodle-doo!

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Check out more non-phallic sex toys: https://www.buzzfeed.com/harperhendrickson/non-phallic-sex-toys-anyone-thirst-after

A Japanese TV Show Challenged A Gay Man To See If He Could Make A Straight Man Cum

Japan knows what people really want to watch on television. A Japanese gameshow put a straight man in a box to see if he could not cum while receiving oral sex from a gay man. In the X-rated parody of Hoko X Tate (sword vs shield), which pits opposite types of people against each other in ironic challenges, adult film actor Sawai Ryo battles it out with Takuya, aka “Tokyo’s infamous gay bar owner.” Who will win this epic battle?

Sawai claims he has so much “climax control” that no one can make him come if he doesn’t want to. Takuya however claims he has never not been able to make another man come. But, inevitably, the “stiff competition” comes to a finish as “Takuya grabs for some tissues.” The parody is called Poko X Tate, which is part of a racy late night talk show, kind of like a Japanese Howard Stern.

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Check out more about the X-rated parody of Hoko X Tate: https://www.buzzfeed.com/ryanhatesthis/a-japanese-tv-show-challenged-gay-man-to-see-if-he-could-mak

7 Moments Everyone With a Pussy Has Experienced While Masturbating

There are some experiences in life that are universal—and masturbation is one of them! Sometimes you’re bored, have to be stealthy, or are in the shower…so you might as well have an orgasm! If you have a pussy, we guarantee you will recognize some—or all—of these scenarios (check out the full list below).

When you can be really loud
Sometimes, you have to be stealthy and put pillows and blankets on top of yourself to mute the sound of your vibrator. But then there’s those rare and sacred times when no one’s around and you can crank up the volume on your porn and really let loose!
When you wind up thinking about someone you’d rather not think about
As BuzzFeed says, “No matter what fantasy you start out with, every once in a while someone completely random pops up and hijacks your fantasy.” Whoops!
When the battery fails on your vibrator right as you’re about to cum
This is just about the. Worst. Thing. Ever!
When you have nothing better to do than rack up multiple orgasms
Sometimes, with a can-do attitude, you find out exactly how many consecutive orgasms you can have in one session!
When you’re in the shower and want to test out your shower head
Everyone’s heard that the shower head on your clit is the holy grail of orgasms, so why not give it a go while sudsing up!
When you make your clit go numb from using the highest setting on your vibrator
This is not for the faint of heart, but sometimes, you want to see if you can cum in three seconds flat!
When you need to put yourself to sleep
Everyone knows cumming before bed is the best way to ensure a good night’s sleep.

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Check out more experiences everyone with a pussy has had while masturbating: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/masturbation-is-always-the-answer

Why You Sometimes Blurt Out ‘I Love You’ During Sex

It often seems “I love yous” tossed out during sex are as meaningless as the empty promise afterward to call the next day. So what is it about getting laid that brings on the seemingly compulsive urge to tell someone we love them just because we happen to be currently fucking them? Science and culture might have the answer.

As a society, we’re conditioned to believe you should only have sex with someone you love, so the pressure to feel an emotional bond with the person you’re fucking is definitely cultural. But it’s also chemical, taking place ten seconds after climax in the human brain. The elation you feel during fucking is the same as the euphoric effects of a drug—a supreme moment of bliss—and just like the high from a drug, you might feel things that aren’t real. Psychologists have also shown that sex is hotter when you say “I love you,” because it increases sexual desire on both sides. Oh, the sexy lies we tell when cresting on a splendid, orgasmic wave!

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Check out more about why you blurt out “I love you” while fucking: https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/why-you-sometimes-blurt-out-i-love-you-during-sex

Who Has Better Orgasms: Men or Women?

Have you ever imagined what it would be like to cum as the opposite sex? Specifically, to find out who has better, more intense orgasms? If so, AsapSCIENCE has the answer with a helpful video that breaks down the various factors that contribute to each awesome orgasm. Here are the highlights.

Women have longer orgasms, around 20 seconds vs. three to ten seconds for men—but men have orgasms more frequently, 95% of the time. Straight women only climax 69% of the time during heterosexual intercourse. Interestingly, sexual orientation plays a large part in the intensity of an orgasm. While gay men and straight men experience a similar rate of orgasm, lesbians experience about 12% more orgasms than straight women—25% said they climaxed during every sexual encounter, half stated that they experienced orgasm more than 75% of the time. So the question really comes down to whether climaxing feels different for men and women. The answer: not really. The same parts of the brain are stimulated for both genders, so the biggest differences really come down to the individual.

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Check out more about who has better orgasms, men or women, here: https://gayety.co/health/love/whos-climax-is-more-intense-men-or-women

This is What it Looks Like to Have an Orgasm—as Demonstrated With Clay

In Buzzfeed’s new video, people twist, pull, tug, and generally explode clay to demonstrate what it looks like to have an orgasm. And as you can imagine, the experience (or should we say ‘clay-perience’?) really is different for each person. Here is what it looks like to have an orgasm, as interpreted through clay (check out the video below).

First, many of the people start by molding and “working” the clay: “Get everything, like, warmed up. Foreplay is underrated,” explains one guy. Then a woman starts shaping her clay into a mountain because “you know, you’re sweatin’. But you’re really enjoying the view!” A different guy twists his clay into a big, wound-up mass: “So, you get like wound up a little bit. It’s a lot of contracting and releasing.” And, of course, they all end their orgasm demonstrations with explosions of clay everywhere: “You get to the top of the mountain…and you’re like ‘Oh my god, I made the fireworks show! It’s amazing!’” Let’s get climbin’!

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Check out Buzzfeed’s video that shows people explaining what it’s like to orgasm by using clay: https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliapugachevsky/people-show-what-orgasms-look-like-using-clay#.blgJBxWLYA

NEWS: Clitorises, Climaxing, Connecting…OH MY!

We’ve all read that we need to stop and smell the roses, eat clean, practice yoga, love ourselves, mediate, but what about “Orgasmic Mediation?” As a 30 year old female I can honestly say that climaxing is not always something that I can conquer myself, let alone with a partner (apologizes to my lovely ex’s). I can’t speak for all women but I am sure there are plenty of orgasm deficient ladies out there, including myself.

I recently came across a TEDx lecture that held my undivided attention for an entire fifteen minutes; moreover I was enchanted the whole time (which is a feat) The title of the lecture is “Orgasm. The Cure for the Western Woman” by Nicole Daedone. Daedone is the Founder of OneTaste, a San Francisco based company that is devoted to educating people on topics that I truly believe are vital, that is if you enjoy feeling amazing and experiencing true ecstasy. OneTaste offers training and education on orgasms, communication, and man-woman relationships. This practice is something that Daedone calls OM, Orgasmic Mediation. I think this is a mediation I can handle, ooommmmmmmm.

OneTaste describes OM: “It’s a practice that is a gateway to more vitality, connection, and Turn On. It’s deliberate and structured will repeatable results. It’s mediation, equally powerful for both partners- only the object of focus is the clitoris. OM is a source of power – a well from which to draw energy. It’s profound, yet simple and you can have it whether you are single or couple.” I don’t know about you but they had me at “object of focus is the clitoris”, I was sold!

OneTaste offers training through social media, conferences, and in-person private coaching. I suggest during your long holiday weekend you do yourself a favor and set aside fifteen minutes to watch Daedone’s TEDx lecture, who knows you might find your legs “butterflied open” and in a euphoric state, you’ll understand after you watch!