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6 Things Every Woman Should Know Before Trying Butt Sex

It seems butt sex is all the rage these days. Anal is great, but there’s still some things you should know that will make the experience so much more enjoyable. Here are some tips for ladies who are new to the pleasures of backdoor sex.

Start on your own
According to sexperts, the key to enjoying anal is being comfortable with your body and what feels good for you. Try incorporating anal play into masturbation and see what types of sensations you like before trying anything with a partner.
Choose a sex toy that vibrates
For women, a vibrating sex toy can be a familiar sensation. According to a sexpert, adding that sensation can “help to relax the pubococcygeus muscles which wrap in a figure eight around the vaginal opening and around the anus.”
Be prepared
Anal requires some prep-time: condoms, dildos or strap-ons, and of course, a ton of lube. And if you’re doing it in the shower, make sure you use a silicone-based lube not water-based.
Don’t use enemas
A lot of women think an enema is a good thing, but it’s actually not. “Many women believe that they’re pushing fecal elements out of the way, but in actuality there’s very little fecal elements in that part of the rectum, it tends to come from higher up,” Van Kirk said. Pushing things farther back is unnecessary and can lead to problems later on.
Some positions are better than others
Spooning is a great position for beginners because you can control how fast and deep your partner goes. Reverse cowgirl is also great for this.
You can have an orgasm from butt sex!
As it turns out, you can have a G-spot orgasm from butt sex because the bottom of the rectum corresponds with the top of the pussy where your G-spot is! The best positions to find the G-spot are reverse cowgirl or standing and facing away from your partner.

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Check out more butt sex tips for women: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/13-things-every-woman-should-know-before-trying-butt-sex_us_595d09c8e4b0da2c7326849c

Goop’s Guide To Anal Sex

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In the latest issue of Goop’s newsletter, The Sex Issue, Gwyneth Paltrow dishes on swinger’s parties, sex toys, BDSM, porn, and even anal sex. “If anal turns you on, you are definitely not alone,” Paltrow begins, citing a CDC report stating that 30 to 40 per cent of heterosexual men and women have tried it. Her article is meant to inform curious straight people about the joys and realities of butt-sex.

She says that while porn makes it look easy, you definitely need to be prepared before taking it in the butt. The sexpert she consults adds that lube is necessary, as are condoms to protect against STD’s. To make the experience enjoyable, it’s also important to warm up the area first with some ass-play and to find the right angle so that the dick doesn’t hit the rectal wall. The sexpert also warns against being inebriated or using numbing lube, so that you can be fully aware of every sensation and respond accordingly. The guide also includes a round-up of Goop’s favorite ass-play sex toys!

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Check out more about Goop’s guide to anal: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4343520/Gwyneth-Paltrow-s-Goop-publishes-anal-sex-guide.html

Tom Ford Thinks All Men Should Get Fucked To Understand Women Better

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In a recent interview with GQ, famously outspoken fashion designer Tom Ford got real personal about sex. In Ford’s opinion, every man should be “penetrated” at least once in order to understand women better. So how exactly would getting a dick in the ass enable them to do that?

“It’s such a vulnerable position to be in, and it’s such a passive position to be in. And there’s such an invasion, in a way, that even if it’s consensual, it’s just very personal,” he said. It turns out that his remarks are pretty similar to an older interview with GQ, in which Ford proclaimed, “Every man should be fucked at some point in his life.” Some believed Ford said this as a way to proposition the straight, male interviewer. “You shouldn’t force yourself to do it. But it’s really not that different than having a massage,” he said at the time. “It doesn’t feel that much different. It’s skin. You should do it with someone you like. Do it with a friend who you think is great. It’s very easy. It’s normal.” So, there you have it, men: go get fucked.

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Check out more about Tom Ford saying all men should get fucked to better understand women:https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tom-ford-penetration_us_5845c021e4b055b313989a35

Dinosaur Butt Sex Book Is Finalist For a Prestigious Award

Chuck Tingle is the erotic fiction writer behind such beloved works as Pounded In the Butt By My Own Butt. Fans love him for his raunchy sense of humor and hot sci-fi sex. But would anyone call his latest smutty short story “Space Raptor Butt Invasion” a literary masterpiece? Apparently, the answer is yes, according to the folks who judge the esteemed Hugo Award.

The Hugo Award, given annually to the best works in science fiction and fantasy, is widely considered one of the most prestigious science fiction awards. So, you may be wondering—have they lost their damn minds nominating “Space Raptor Butt Invasion”? The short answer is, sort of: according to the Guardian, a right-wing campaign of conservatives is seeking to “combat the Hugo tendency to reward works deemed ‘niche, academic, overtly to the left in ideology and flavour, and ultimately lacking what might best be called visceral, gut-level, swashbuckling fun.’” Given this criteria, yes, it does seem “Space Raptor Butt Invasion” would indeed give readers “gut-level, swashbuckling fun.” Perhaps these judges might also find something of high literary merit over at Pornhub—there’s plenty of butt invasion going on there!

Dinosaurs may be extinct, but sex with them (or any other animal) is not allowed on NiteFlirt. If you’re interested in some raunchy fun that is allowed, we’re confident we could win any award in the x-rated category!

Check out more about the dinosaur butt sex book up for a prestigious award here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/jarrylee/space-raptor-butt-invasion?utm_term=.anyW9oMBYl#.sgjQEAl6KL

6 Reasons To Appreciate Those Bravely Taking a Dick in the Ass

It’s hard out there for a bottom. From needing to watch what you eat to all the prep involved, taking a dick in the ass is definitely no walk in the park. Here are 6 reasons to appreciate those brave backdoor souls.

Taking a dick in the ass is a lot of effort
In other words, porn stars who make it look so damn easy are liars.
You have to plan and watch what you eat
If you want to have hot, clean sex, just say no to that burrito!
You have to prep, i.e, douche
Yup. And it’s not that fun to stick something that isn’t a dick up your ass!
Wine and lube are your best friends when you’re a bottom
More is more!
You gotta have those towels at the ready!
Unless you want funky lube-stained sheets…
It’s not as easy to have spontaneous sex
While spontaneous sex is hot, sometimes you can’t help but think to yourself, “but wait, am I gonna shit myself?” But then you really start to enjoy yourself and stop worrying!

To all the brave bottoms out there, we salute you! Now let’s have some hot, hard experiences!

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12 Things People Wish They Knew About Anal Sex

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For many people who’ve experimented with anal sex, they wish they knew then what they know now. You know, like not to pull out those anal beads like you’re starting a lawnmower! Here are 12 things people wish they knew about anal sex before trying it for the first time.

Don’t go from 0 to 100
“You need to work up to it. Do NOT go straight to the penis.” Foreplay is all, people!
Slow and steady wins the race
No need to rush! Ease it on in nice and slow.
It might raise your sexpecations
“I wish I had known that anal sex would increase my expectations for sexual pleasure. I had a partner who made it really enjoyable for both if us.”
Don’t pull anything out too fast
“Best advice related to toys: Don’t remove anal beads as if you’re starting a lawnmower.”
You can never use too much lube
Nuff said.
Cleanliness is next to godliness
Don’t forget those wipes!
Just say no to the burrito
Maybe stay away from burritos the day you’re having anal sex…
Those tingly, warming lubes could burn your butt
“I do NOT recommend tingly lube! That stuff feels like a fire demon.”
Might be wise to switch out your white sheets beforehand
Or use towels!
Bottoms can still run the show
“The receiver or bottom should know that they are always in control and most definitely have the ability to shut down like Fort Knox.”
Don’t put whatever was in the ass back in the pussy
You could get an infection!
Pegging can be fun!
“I wish I knew that giving (for me, pegging) is just as fun as receiving. People are too quick to judge something before trying it!”

Looking to have an enjoyable, fun experience? We can definitely raise all your sexpectations!

Check out more things people wish they knew about anal sex here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/carolinekee/never-eat-chipotle-the-day-before#.qvMbwedpjz

6 Anal Sex Tips For Beginners

Have you been wanting to try some back-door action but don’t know where to start? If so, you’re in luck—with these ass-play tips, you will never fear the rear again! Here’s a beginner’s guide to anal sex that will help ensure everything goes smoothly.

Try Anal Solo First
Before exploring ass-play with somebody else, try it with yourself first. “Finger insertion is a great way to get your bottoms used to being penetrated,” says a sex expert. You can also use a butt-plug during masturbation to see what it feels like. “The more you gently play around the area, the more it will relax.” So exploration and foreplay is key here, people!
Be aware of what you’re eating
A lot of people are worried that they might have an, um, accident during anal sex. But if you pay attention to what you eat before having someone knock at your backdoor, you should be golden. “Tucking into gas-inducing foods like onions, chickpeas, broccoli, or cauliflower is not going to add to the experience,” says the sex expert.
Make sure you’re clean down there
If you know you’re going to have a dick in your butt, you need to make sure you’re clean down there. “There should only be poo in the anal canal when you actually need to go to the toilet,” so if you clean yourself with warm water or wet wipes after a bowel movement, you should be good to go.
Lube, glorious lube
This is the most important element of successful anal sex. The ass, unlike the pussy, doesn’t self-lubricate, so if you’re going to have a wet n’ wild experience, you gotta reach for the lube. “Apply [the lube] liberally before you have anal intercourse (to the anus and penis),” and remember to use water-based lube with condoms (oil-based will cause the latex in a condom to break).
Don’t go in dick-first
The ass is naturally tight, so you want to ease on in nice and slow. “The more time you take over foreplay, the easier it will be.” Start with your hands, making sure they’re clean and the nails trimmed. Using lube, you should “start by gently circling the opening with the pads of your fingers.” When the ass has been prepped for insertion, start with a finger, remembering to slowly and steadily insert just a little bit at a time. You should “wait for them to get used to the sensation and for the sphincter muscles to relax” before going in a bit more. This is also a good time to incorporate some rimming (with soft and wet gentle licks at first), as well as head, a hand-job, or clit-action.
Dick, meet butt
After some good foreplay, use the same technique as before for penetration. Slowly push in a bit at a time, pausing to allow the receiver to get used to it before pushing in further. Some good beginner positions to try: receiver on top so they have complete control, missionary, doggy style, and spooning. The sex expert adds, “positions where your knees are bent up to your chest generally feel more comfortable as this straightens out the anal canal.”

Want to have new and fun experiences? We are always down for getting wet n’ wild!

Check out more tips about anal sex for beginners here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/no-more-rear-fear#.ihBPpLxzo2

12 Foods That Totally Don’t Look Like Anything Else

Even though you might feel a bit immature snickering at a peach that looks like an ass or a squash that looks like a giant dick, we’ve all done it. And while you probably think you have a dirty mind for giggling at a banana that looks just like a boner, we’re here to assure you that your laughter is warranted. And Distractify does, too—they made a hilarious list of foods that don’t remotely look like anything else (check it out below). Here are some highlights.

That Banana Sundae is Sure Happy to See You
Some prankster stood the banana erect and made balls out of two scoops of vanilla ice cream. This makes us crave dessert!
Hot Dogs and Bun
“Nothing to see here. Just some hot dogs being inserted into a bun.”
T-Bone Pussy Steak
Mmm, nothing better than steak and pussy!
Double-Breasted Ice Cream Cone
Titty-fucking, anyone?
Chicken Wing Cock
The chicken wing takes after its father (who must have been very well endowed). Finger lickin’ good!
Grapefruit Vagina
Auntie Angel (of the famous grapefruit blowjob) would approve.
Jelly Filled Vajonuts
Oops, we meant donuts! So creamy…
Masculine Carrot
The lady carrots love him!
Two Scoops of Ice Cream with Two Cherries on Top, Please
Those are some perky scoops there! Makes us want to lick the cherries right off.
Pink Glazed Donut
Sugary butt sex.
Cock Melons
No, seriously. These look exactly like cocks! It’s uncanny.
Cock Sausage
Mmm, spicy!

Have a hankering for something sweet or savory? We have everything you crave right here!

Check out Distractify’s list “18 Foods That Don’t Remotely Look Like Anything Else.”