Essential BDSM Toys For Beginners

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_heartbleedBDSM toys and equipment aren’t just for kinksters. Gear that’s used to restrain, bind, or sexually tease can be enjoyed by everyone. And if you’re new to the exciting world of BDSM, here’s the 4 must-have equipment and sex toys for your kinky treasure chest.

  1. Blindfold
    The blindfold is perhaps the most popular kinky item, and for good reason. The sensory deprivation it provides heightens erotic sensations. Blindfolds are also exciting because they add to the kinky power play between subs and doms—you literally don’t know what’s coming.
  2. Hitachi’s Magic Wand
    Not only is the Magic Wand one of the best vibrators around, it’s also great in bondage dom/sub play sessions. Wands can be tied and bound to a sub’s genitals, or used for edging and orgasm control, to name a few options.
  3. Bondage Tape
    Kink fans love bondage tape, and it’s especially good for beginners. It’s used to wrap together different parts of the body, but unlike duct tape, bondage tape only sticks to itself. It’s hard to break without scissors and it’s safe to use on the skin.
  4. Dildos
    A dildo is one of the most versatile sex toys, so it’s perfect for kinky play. Whether you use it for pegging or with a harness, the kinky options are literally endless!

Looking to add some excitement to your sex life? The erotic possibilities are endless at NiteFlirt!

Check out more of the must-have BDSM toys for beginners: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/bdsm-toys/

Whiplr Dating App Helps Connect BDSM Fans To Kinky Play Partners

body-1095226_640Have you been craving a kinkier version of Tinder to fulfill your bondage-needs in the dating world? Look no further than Whiplr, the Fifty Shades of Grey inspired messaging app that allows users to discreetly connect with people who share similar interests in BDSM or other fetishes. “The inspiration comes directly from the kink community where people are looking for ways to find and meet other like-minded people,” said Whiplr Chief Commercial Officer Daniel Sevitt.

According to the app’s description, it’s “the world’s first and only location-based messaging app to help you connect with potential play partners online or in person.” The login is anonymous and private, and users will have the ability to delete shared content from both their device and the Whiplr user’s device where they sent the content to. The broad preference categories include every kink and every level of experience and, best of all, there’s a free version you can download right now to search for your very own Christian Grey!

Looking to satisfy your bondage needs? Come find like-minded kinksters right here!

Check out more about Whiplr, the kinky dating app: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2971069/Whiplr-new-Fifty-Shades-inspired-dating-app-helps-BDSM-fans-connect-kinky-play-partners.html

The Reason You’re Into Bondage Could Be Because Of Your Cat

Depositphotos_dominatrix_smallOwning a cat can lead to some serious friskiness, according to research in the journal Evolutionary Psychology. Apparently, cat owners could get into BDSM from a brain parasite they’ve picked up from their pet, toxoplasmosis. Even though it sounds far-fetched, toxoplasmosis has been linked to sadomasochistic behavior in humans.

Toxoplasmosis Gondii infects billions of people (about a third of the world’s population) and is often transmitted from pet cats—spread through contact with faeces,” reports UK News Yahoo. Using a questionnaire, researchers collected data from 36,564 people in Slovakia and the Czech Republic—741 of whom were infected—and found that people with toxoplasmosis “expressed higher attraction to bondage, violence, zoophilia, fetishism, and, in men, also to masochism, and raping and being raped.” The study’s lead author said that the parasite “succeeds in using the fact that sex-related stimuli and fear-related stimuli affect very similar circuits in the brain. Even without Toxoplasma, there will be some relationship between fear and sex.” So, if you suddenly have an itch to get kinky, your feisty kitty could have something to do with it!

Looking to scratch a naughty itch? You don’t need a cat to get wild at NiteFlirt!

Check out more about how owning a cat can make you get into BDSM here: https://uk.news.yahoo.com/owning-a-cat-could-make-you-get-into-bondage-experts-warn-095645031.html

Couples Try Bondage For the First Time and Dish About It

feet-1095408_1280Vanilla sex is great—but so is spicing things up with something a bit kinkier. In a new BuzzFeed video, real couples decided to give bondage a whirl (or is it a slap?) for the very first time. They were all very excited—and slightly nervous—to explore a different side of their sex life (watch the video below).

“I’m not putting these on my nipples,” one woman told her boyfriend while holding up nipple clamps. “It’s not happening…maybe?” “We might need to Google some of these,” another woman said, looking at the feathers, whips, and ball-gags. So what’d they think of the “intense” experience? One guy who said that he and his boyfriend have vanilla sex was surprised that he enjoyed it more than he thought he would. A few other couples observed how it was both sexy and playful, even sometimes “humorous”: “you ever try to laugh and climax at the same time?” one guy asked. And, not surprisingly, “the nipple clamps were great.”

Want to experiment yourself? Come explore your naughty side right here!

Check out the video of couples trying bondage for the first time: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/couples-used-to-vanilla-sex-try-bondage-for-the-first-time_us_583f5cd4e4b0c68e047ecebf

8 Of the Kinkiest Things People Have Ever Done During Sex 

body-1095226_640What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done during sex? Well, if you’re into BDSM and fetish play, it’s probably involved some pretty kinky stuff! Here, Buzzfeed readers share their kinkiest sexual experiences (check out more kinky confessions below).

  1. The cone of shame
    This “slave” enjoys piss play and humiliation, and his “fondest memory” is when 22+ men pissed on him while he wore a cone a shame. He says, “After being peed on, my Master forced me to sit in the pee for a long time before being allowed to shower off. It was definitely one of the hottest things I’ve ever done.” You naughty, naughty boy!
  2. The Daddy/dom fetish
    This dom has his girl call him Daddy or Sir, otherwise strict punishment is enforced. “There’s something amazing about having a person put their total trust in you and let you completely control and use their body,” says Daddy. We promise to be good, Daddy!
  3. The secret party
    “Me and my ex had a party and in the middle of it we stealthily made our way to the back room and while we were having sex I tied her up. When we were done I left her like that and then after an hour I came back and we did it again.” Sounds like a great party to us!
  4. The cuckold
    “My girlfriend and I are into cuckolding. We met a guy and I watched him fuck her in the ass while I sucked her toes. After he came in her ass, I licked it out and we kissed. Five minutes later, she started giving him a blowjob again. He came in her mouth, she kissed me, and then spat it into my mouth.” Wow. That’s kinky.
  5. Confessions of a cam girl 
    One cam girl confesses that her boyfriend peeks on her doing private shows. Then, after she’s done for the night, they have mind-blowing sex. Watching her flirt and talk dirty really turns him on.
  6. The welcome home party
    “My girlfriend’s parents were giving me a lift back home from the airport one afternoon. My girlfriend and I were in the backseat, one thing led to another, and I was getting a blowjob. It was the quietest orgasm I’ve ever had.” Now that’s a good welcome home!
  7. The overtime at work 
    “I fucked my boss in the ass using a strap on while we were in his office during the middle of a work day.” Something tells us this person will be up for a promotion soon!
  8. The in-car entertainment
    “I once drove 30 minutes to a guy’s house with a butt plug in the whole time. The vibrations from the car made me orgasm twice.” Butt-plug: the only way to travel.

Looking for something kinky yourself? Come get wild with us right here!

Check out more of the kinkiest things people have ever done during sex: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/watch-out-for-the-armadillo

15 Erotic Photos of a 60-Year-Old Dominatrix

womandominatingmanSandra LaMorgese understands that being a dominatrix is more than just wearing black leather and having a ferocious attitude. The 60-year-old dominatrix understands that her job is about the pleasure and intense transfer of sexual energy that comes from dominating her clients. To demonstrate what it’s all about, she allowed Huffington Post to photograph one of her sessions with a sexy, tight-assed 28-year-old (check out the erotic photos below).

In the dungeon, the red walls are lined with various torture instruments, and there’s a bondage table, a metal cage, and other BDSM devices in the room. She whips, paddles, and spanks the naked man’s ass until it’s bright red, then lies him on a massage table and teases him with a fiery blaise stick along his ass, back, chest, and feet. Later, she restrains his wrists behind his back with handcuffs, and has him kneel before her submissively, head bent obediently at her leather-bound breasts. She even ties him up and flogs him, his feet barely touching the floor. “The practice of BDSM involves trust, compassion, love, acceptance, erotica, and surrendering control …That, along with a few necessary beatings,” Mistress Sandra says.

In the mood for a “sexual energy transfer” yourself? Step into NiteFlirt’s erotic pleasure chamber!

Check out 15 photos of the 60-year-old dominatrix at work here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/15-unbelievable-photos-of-a-60-year-old-dominatrix-with-her-client-nsfw_us_578fc7cde4b0fc06ec5b4f55

‘Gigolos’ TV Star Insures His Cock For $1 Million

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_dollarsignsWhy would someone insure their cock? Well, if their cock is their livelihood, like one of the stars of Showtime’s reality series Gigolos, it might be worth over a million dollars! Nick Hawk, sex symbol with his own sex toy line and TV show, recently talked to Cosmopolitan about his decision to take out insurance on his “money-maker” for a million bucks, explaining he needed the extra protection because his clients have become too rough with him, perhaps inspired by the film Fifty Shades of Grey.

“Fifty Shades screwed me,” he said. “Most people are inexperienced [in bondage] and just getting into it, so they’re a little too rough. Everybody wants to beat each other up now, and not everybody knows how to do it effectively. It also doesn’t help that I took on this ‘bad boy’ image, so I decided to get the insurance.” He said that since sex is so rough these days “with hair-pulling and scratching and all that,” it made sense for him to “cover his assets,” so to speak. His cock is now fully insured—including theft!—so he can relax when things get really wild.

Want to make a worthwhile investment in yourself? Come get wild with us!

Check out more about the Gigolos star insuring his cock for $1 million: https://www.thegailygrind.com/2016/05/02/gigolos-tv-star-explains-why-he-insured-his-penis-for-1-million/

The Most Outrageous Sex Toys

Image Source: Blewit.comWhile Valentine’s Day might be over, there’s no reason you still can’t get your belated kink on! Any time is a good time for sex toys, whether you’re looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom or something a bit more edgy. Here are some of the most outrageous sex toys to put your next fuck-fest truly over the top.

  1. TAZapper
    This sex toy gives off a 9-volt jolt depending on which body part it touches. It’s sure to make your sex life that much more electrifying!
  2. X2 Orgasmatron
    “The manufacturer claims the vibrator uses basic physics to ensure the buzzing not only hits the tip of the clitoris but also nerve endings inside the body,” reports the Huffington Post.
  3. Sasha Grey Deep Throat Pocket Pal 
    This is probably the closest you’ll come to getting head from porn star Sasha Grey. The sex toy creates a natural suction effect and is “molded directly from her pouty lips and tongue.”
  4. My Diletto
    This is basically a rowing machine with a dildo attached, so you can work out while getting off!
  5. Fetish Fantasy Web Restraint
    Who wouldn’t want to turn their bed into a “fantasy bondage sex web of seduction”? With this, you can be like a captive insect caught in a spider’s web, with your hands and feet completely restrained.
  6. The Face Fuck
    For those advanced kinksters who want to add something new to their BDSM sessions, this is a mouth gag AND a dildo!
  7. G-Spot Touch Finger Vibe
    This sex toy turns your middle finger into a vibrator, and its enlarged size makes it easy to hit that oh so magical G-Spot.
  8. Auto Banger
    Picture a nailgun with a dildo attached—it’s perfect for getting screwed!
  9. SlapHappy
    This amazing device bills itself as the “Swiss Army Knife of Sex Toys,” and for good reason: it can contort into several different shapes to get you off in various sexual positions.

Looking to add some spice to your life? We can electricity you in the most outrageous ways here!

Check out more about the most outrageous sex toys by clicking here

The World’s Oldest Dominatrix Maintains There’s Nothing Unusual About BDSM

Screen Shot 2015-07-08 at 2.32.52 PMThe oldest and most famous dominatrix in France, Madame Robbe-Grillet, did an exclusive interview with Vanity Fair recently to discuss how there is “nothing unusual at all” about the BDSM lifestyle. She’s 84, a lesbian, and explains that her lifestyle as a dominatrix involves “devoting herself to pleasure.” She lives with her long-time submissive girlfriend and devotee to BDSM, Beverly Charpentier, in a 17th century chateau filled with weapons, whips and chains, where they regularly indulge in erotic “ceremonies.” These bondage sessions can be so brutal that the dominatrix is often referred to as a female Marquis de Sade!

Madame Robbe-Grillet is a fierce dominatrix at just 4ft 11in, and is known for her punishing style: she’s pierced and cut, chained submissives to walls, and even crowned them with thorns. And her girlfriend signed an oath of allegiance guaranteeing full obedience to her mistress. Madame Robbe-Grillet says now that she’s in her eighties, her sex life is better than ever: “Age should be no barrier to anything in life, least of all sex – I am as happy and fulfilled in my eighties as I was at any time in my life.”

Want to start devoting yourself to pleasure with us? We can also make you hurt so good!

Read more about the world’s oldest dominatrix here.

March Badness; “Scintillating Sixteen” Second Round

Our first round is over and it got pretty racy in a few of these battles! There were some results we didn’t see coming, some results we called with our predictions perfectly, and some that were just so close it was ridiculous. On to the second round and the Scintillating Sixteen!

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_march_badness_fetish_2015_second_round

Your response in our March Badness competition has been incredible so far so let’s keep it going!

SECOND ROUND, THE SCINTILLATING SIXTEEN
TOP DIVISION

Spanking vs. Verbal Humiliation

We were shocked with Spanking’s close victory over Masturbation Instruction in the first round. Maybe that was just the test it needed though to really get you spanking lovers to wake up and come out in force! It’s a matchup of classic strength vs. classic strength in this second round battle. Make your voices heard!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Spanking. We’re sticking with this classic fetish in the second round.

[polldaddy poll=8727402]

Physical Domination vs. Strap-On

Physical Domination eked out a win over Forced Bi in their first round matchup while Strap-On was forceful and dominant in it’s face-off with Ballbusting. The latter wasn’t much of a fight as Strap-On took over 80% of the vote. What do you expect from Strap-On? To ask for a victory nicely and walk away? Come on, now.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. Huge upset by Physical Domination in the first round. We don’t think it can continue.

[polldaddy poll=8727403]

Orgasm Control/Ruination vs. Face Sitting

We couldn’t have been more wrong with our first round prediction of Orgasm Control going down early. It thoroughly dominated in it’s first round vote and now finds itself up against a much more formidable foe in Face Sitting, who scored a surprise upset over Financial Domination with a late push in the first round. We underestimated just how wicked so many of you are.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Face Sitting. We expect this Cinderella to keep things going in this second round bout.

[polldaddy poll=8727406]

Tease & Denial vs. Cuckolding

Keeping with the theme of people not being allowed to cum, Tease & Denial did quite well in their first round matchup despite our prediction. Looks like we’ll never get a chance to see that Princess gang after all. Cuckolding seems like a real favorite though so we sense we might be in for a real close vote in this second round matchup.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Cuckolding. Just can’t see this one being all that close.

[polldaddy poll=8727408]

BOTTOM DIVISION

Bondage vs. Feminization/Sissy

What a battle of heavyweights! So early in the bracket! Both completely dominated their competition in their respective first rounds. It’ll be interesting to see which fetish is more beloved here as they truly differ in their tactics. We just wish it could have come a little later in the tournament. Make your picks!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Bondage. Frankly we just like being tied up more than we like wearing a dress.

[polldaddy poll=8727409]

Goddess Worship vs. Oral Servitude

We were hoping for a little more fight out of Electric Play against Goddess Worship, as it’s one of our favorites, but it just wasn’t meant to be. Both of these fetishes are public favorites and both crushed in the first round. Which do you prefer? A strong Goddess or a strong tongue?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Goddess Worship. We expect another strong victory for this classic fetish.

[polldaddy poll=8727410]

Chastity vs. Ass Worship

Chastity is always a tough one for us here at NiteFlirt because, let’s face it, we like to have sex! With that said though, you all spoke and it came through the first round with flying colors! Now it’s up against Ass Worship and we’re having a tough time calling this one. This ‘not having sex’ thing has us so confused.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Chastity. You all seem to really enjoy your discipline!

[polldaddy poll=8727411]

Foot Worship vs. Spitting

Both Foot Worship and Spitting had two of the closest victories (mid 50%) of the first round which quite frankly we just didn’t expect. We are expecting it here though and think it’ll be a real dogfight between these two niches.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Foot Worship. Another surprise victor in the first round, we really just think we underestimated Foot Worship from the beginning.

[polldaddy poll=8727413]

Get your votes in now! This round only last for two days and will be over on March 17th!

Next stop: the Exotic Eight!

As always, come Speak to Your Desire™ at NiteFlirt if these fetishes are getting you as hot as they are us!

 

www.niteflirt.com