Tag: Best Sex

New Book Reveals How To Have Your Best Sex After 60

People in their 60s are enjoying the best sex of their lives. The author of a new book about how to have the best sex ever after 60 says, “Now that so many of us are living longer and outliving our partners or our marriages, the idea (and practice) of good sex for the old is very much centre stage.” She talks about the importance of “speaking up,” saying “Tell each other what you can and can’t do, what feels good and what doesn’t, what you need in order to feel sexy.”

She suggests guiding a partner’s hand and using words (quicker, slower, stay right there, etc.) to achieve sexual satisfaction. She talks about being open to sexual experimentation and to “discovering over-the-top sensations you didn’t know existed.” She says, “After your decades of growth, you’re likely to be more confident, more comfortable revealing yourself and being bravely close. This capacity for honesty and intimacy can intensify sex.”

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Check out more about a new book revealing how to have your best sex after 60: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9895987/New-book-reveals-best-sex-60.html

11 Ways to Nail Sex With Any Man

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexhoursDoes the above headline sound familiar? Does it remind you of every Cosmopolitan cover you’ve ever seen in the checkout line of the grocery store? More importantly, does it make you roll your eyes every time you see it? If so, you’re going to love Buzzfeed’s parody video “11 Ways to Nail Sex With Any Man” (check it out below). Here’s what you need to know to make him wag his tongue for more (hint: burritos are key).

  1. Lightly scratch his back.
    Mm, that sounds nice. Off to a great start here!
  2. Gently bite his ear
    Ok, things are starting to heat up!
  3. Leave a lipstick heart on his mirror
    Sexy. Flirty.
  4. Hide under the bed when he goes to the bathroom, then grab his feet when he comes back to bed.
    Um, sort of like a feisty cat?
  5. Right when he’s about to orgasm, whisper “burrito” in his ear.
    Maybe he really loves Mexican food? Like, a lot?
  6. Wear red lipstick and leave a trail of kisses to his toaster.
    Ok….now you’ve lost us.
  7. Wrap just your bottom in sheets and pretend to be a mermaid.
    Then have him unfasten your sea-shell bra?
  8. Or even better, wrap yourself in the blanket and pretend to be a burrito.
    Getting hungry, daddy?
  9. Put peanut butter in your bra for a sticky surprise when he goes to touch your breasts.
    Like a Reeses cup—soft on the outside, warm and salty on the inside!
  10. Hide a toy car in your vagina for him to find.
    That’s one way to rev his engine!
  11. Have his family hide in the closet with takeout and jump out and yell “surprise” after you’re finished making love.
    Worst. Surprise. Party. Ever.

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Check out Buzzfeed’s “11 Ways to Nail Sex With Any Man” here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/michellekhare/11-ways-to-nail-sex-with-any-man#.ntopJwrbOk

How Long Sex Lasts Versus How Long (We Think) We Want it to Last

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_havingsexIn pop culture, getting it on “all night long” and “till the break of dawn” seems to be the gold standard that makes sex great. So it makes sense that there’s a disconnect between how long sex lasts and how long people think they’d like it to last. But does longer sex mean better sex? Maureen O’Connor reported in New York that 75 percent of men prematurely ejaculated within only two minutes in 1948, whereas men now usually last on average between 5.7 and 7.5 minutes. Even though sex lasts much longer now, 80 percent of participants in a survey said they wanted sex to last 30 minutes or longer—at least twice as long!

O’Connor reports that “According to…sex therapists, sex is ‘too short’ when it lasts one to two minutes. ‘Adequate’ is three to seven minutes, and ‘desirable’ is seven to 13. The range for ‘too long’ went up to 30 minutes.” So why is that most people say that they want sex to be double what it is when “too long” can often be, well, too long? Despite porn’s and pop culture’s influence on what we think of as good sex, duration is not the most important factor. Good sex is really more about all the things that make it good—how hot it is, a partner’s responsiveness, how good you cum, etc.

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