Tag: Beginners

5 BDSM Tumblrs To Satisfy All Your Kinks

5624757405_1eebcbdd8c_zWe’ve got good news for all you kinksters: Tumblr is a haven for free BDSM porn. The site’s platform lets users share popular content, making it easy for porn fans to find and reblog a variety of BDSM possibilities. From women whipped and tied to men serving as submissives, here’s the best Tumblr blogs for all your BDSM pleasures.

  1. Kawaii BDSM
    In pastel colors and pink rope, this blog focuses on submissive women in a variety of kinky and domineering positions. “Everything from women in hidden bondage to littles grinding against their teddies appears here, with plenty of room for lingerie, rope binding, and leashes,” says Daily Dot.
  2. Sweetly Submissive
    This blog shows off the power fantasies of the dom getting off on a sub flinching, moaning, and squirming from being dominated. It focuses on women being used by dominant men, including women being “forced” to give a blow job, rough sex, pacifiers, daddy dom, and so much more.
  3. Erotic Beauty and BDSM
    If you’re looking for the artistic side of BDSM, look no further. From roleplay to bodies being held in bondage gear, this blog focuses on photos of women restrained for their dominants in beautiful black and white shots.
  4. Beginner BDSM
    This one features dominant women in hot and sexy scenes. One shows a domme wearing a latex glove fingering her sub’s mouth; another post has a domme on top of her sub while he wears a cock cage. Naughty!
  5. Taste This Kitty
    Just as the name implies, oral sex is the star of the show at this blog. As Daily Dot says, “There are loads of images that depict partners getting down, sometimes with the help of a friend or two.”

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6 Anal Sex Tips For Beginners

Have you been wanting to try some back-door action but don’t know where to start? If so, you’re in luck—with these ass-play tips, you will never fear the rear again! Here’s a beginner’s guide to anal sex that will help ensure everything goes smoothly.

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  1. Try Anal Solo First
    Before exploring ass-play with somebody else, try it with yourself first. “Finger insertion is a great way to get your bottoms used to being penetrated,” says a sex expert. You can also use a butt-plug during masturbation to see what it feels like. “The more you gently play around the area, the more it will relax.” So exploration and foreplay is key here, people!
  2. Be aware of what you’re eating
    A lot of people are worried that they might have an, um, accident during anal sex. But if you pay attention to what you eat before having someone knock at your backdoor, you should be golden. “Tucking into gas-inducing foods like onions, chickpeas, broccoli, or cauliflower is not going to add to the experience,” says the sex expert.
  3. Make sure you’re clean down there
    If you know you’re going to have a dick in your butt, you need to make sure you’re clean down there. “There should only be poo in the anal canal when you actually need to go to the toilet,” so if you clean yourself with warm water or wet wipes after a bowel movement, you should be good to go.
  4. Lube, glorious lube
    This is the most important element of successful anal sex. The ass, unlike the pussy, doesn’t self-lubricate, so if you’re going to have a wet n’ wild experience, you gotta reach for the lube. “Apply [the lube] liberally before you have anal intercourse (to the anus and penis),” and remember to use water-based lube with condoms (oil-based will cause the latex in a condom to break).
  5. Don’t go in dick-first
    The ass is naturally tight, so you want to ease on in nice and slow. “The more time you take over foreplay, the easier it will be.” Start with your hands, making sure they’re clean and the nails trimmed. Using lube, you should “start by gently circling the opening with the pads of your fingers.” When the ass has been prepped for insertion, start with a finger, remembering to slowly and steadily insert just a little bit at a time. You should “wait for them to get used to the sensation and for the sphincter muscles to relax” before going in a bit more. This is also a good time to incorporate some rimming (with soft and wet gentle licks at first), as well as head, a hand-job, or clit-action.
  6. Dick, meet butt
    After some good foreplay, use the same technique as before for penetration. Slowly push in a bit at a time, pausing to allow the receiver to get used to it before pushing in further. Some good beginner positions to try: receiver on top so they have complete control, missionary, doggy style, and spooning. The sex expert adds, “positions where your knees are bent up to your chest generally feel more comfortable as this straightens out the anal canal.”

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The Best BDSM Sex Toys For Beginners

Have you been wanting to add some kink into your sex life? Maybe you’re curious about dipping your toe into the (wild) water that is BDSM? Well, we have just the thing for you! Here are the perfect BDSM sex toys to start your kinky journey off to a mind-blowing start:

  1. Classic Handcuffs: If you’re nervous about bringing BDSM into your bedroom, this is the perfect item to add something new, unexpected, and naughty to your sex life.
  2. Handblown Glass Whip: What’s key here is getting one that has soft leather tresses for beginner BDSM play but is still sturdy enough to deliver a firm whack. Not to mention that the glass handle doubles as a dildo!
  3. Pinwheel: This BDSM toy can be sharp, but if used correctly can deliver the perfect amount of pain.
  4. Feather Crop: This is great for tickle-torture BDSM play and a good smack!
  5. Blindfold: A blindfold’s essential to heightening the senses during BDSM. All the sensations and surprises will be that much more intense with this classic item.
  6. Nipple Clamps: What BDSM enthusiast could live without nipple clamps? Be sure to get a good pair that’s adjustable and comfortable to wear.
  7. Bondage Ropes: The sensual nature of rope against the skin adds a new level to the amazing sensory experiences of BDSM.
  8. Bar Spreader: Both ankles and wrists can fit into the movement-reducing straps.
  9. Ball Mouth Gag: This iconic BDSM toy is essential for any beginner. Be sure to get one with holes for easy breathing.

Come discover the kinky world of BDSM with us! We promise to be gentle (but only if you say your safe word!).

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