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Portland’s Kinky Coffee Shop Is Spearheading Alternative Sexual Lifestyle

If there’s two things Portland loves, it’s coffee and sex. And now the city which proudly boasts the most strip clubs per capita is combining its two loves—with a kinky new coffee shop! The MoonFrye Cafe is the nation’s second-ever sex-positive coffee shop where customers can meet, drink coffee, learn about sex, and get kinky. The dedicated spot for coffee enthusiasts who are also members of the kink and BDSM communities is spearheading the alternative sexual lifestyle.

While you can’t bring food or beverages into the dungeon, you can sit with a latte and watch an ex-military sergeant called “Puppy” bark like a dog in a Polyamory workshop. As Willamette Week says, “You can go to classes covering everything from ‘electrical play’ to the master/slave relationship to high protocol service to a monthly Fetish Night.” It also features handcrafted sex toys, leather items and paddles from local vendors, a play room to cater to blood and scalpel play and an after care room where you can heal. Kink University called Portland the “Kinkiest City in America,” and it sure seems to be living up to its reputation.

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Check out more about Portland’s kinky new coffee shop here: https://www.wweek.com/culture/2017/02/07/at-long-last-portland-has-the-kinky-coffee-shop-its-needed/

Kinky Pictures Explore the Gritty Underworld of BDSM

New York photographer Samir Abady’s new photo series, Kink, dives deep into the sultry world of BDSM. He tells BuzzFeed, “Kink examines the experiences of dominatrixes, their personal lives, their professional personae, and the blurry world in between.” From images of tools of the trade in dungeons to erotic moments between submissives and dominatrixes, these pictures explore the many kinky facets of BDSM.

In one photo, a dominatrix named Mistress Blunt completely mummifies her client in duct tape and binds his hands with rope so that he is able to fully enter “a world of fantasy.” In another, submissive Tiffany Minx rubs Madam Cureux’s assistant’s feet in an exercise in discipline, before being led around the basement on a leash. The last photo is of Mistress Bumpy tying up her ‘vanilla’ friends who want to experiment with BDSM. According to Abady, the many subjects he follows in the series represent “different aspects of the community,” which he hopes to showcase in a very kinky book.

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Check out more about the photo series which explores the BDSM lifestyle: https://www.buzzfeed.com/gabrielsanchez/21-kinky-pictures-from-the-gritty-underworld-of-bdsm

American Airlines Declares Itself the Unofficial Airline of Kink

American Airlines knows how to celebrate Valentine’s Day—the kinky way! This past Monday, the company took to Twitter to declare itself the unofficial airline of BDSM. Gizmodo explains, “As evidenced by the tweet—a magnificent black and white photo of a glistening American Airlines jet—this plane fucks.”

“We found our fifty shades,” wrote the naughty, naughty airline, referring to the kinky series Fifty Shades of Grey. Not only does the tweet invite all types of “mile-high club” mischief, but it specifically suggests hardcore, kinky stuff. You know, not like those other, “vanilla” airlines. So, there you have it: AA gets very dirty up in the air. Captain, prepare for take off!

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Check out more about American Airlines kinky tweet: https://gizmodo.com/this-plane-fucks-1792321267

Asexuals Have Sexual Fantasies About Fetishes and BDSM, Study Finds

169249078_475b70b357_o New research reveals that the vast majority of asexual people have had sexual fantasies and even engage in self-pleasure. Published in Archives of Sexual Behavior, the study found that out of 351 asexual participants (292 women, 59 men), more than three-quarters of asexual men and half of asexual women have sexual fantasies and even masturbate. The study also discovered that asexual people were just as likely to fantasize about fetishes and BDSM as sexual participants.

It seems asexual people are less likely to fantasize about group sex, public sex, or engaging in an affair. They’re also much more likely to have sexual fantasies that involve fictional people and not themselves. “I do have sexual fantasies but most of the time they do not involve me or any real person,” said a 19-year-old asexual woman. “I sexually fantasize about fictional male couples and my sexual fantasies can involve many and varying sexual preferences and fetishes.” This study proves that sexuality is certainly on a spectrum.

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Check out more about asexuals having sexual fantasies on TheGailyGrind

The Reason You’re Into Bondage Could Be Because Of Your Cat

Owning a cat can lead to some serious friskiness, according to research in the journal Evolutionary Psychology. Apparently, cat owners could get into BDSM from a brain parasite they’ve picked up from their pet, toxoplasmosis. Even though it sounds far-fetched, toxoplasmosis has been linked to sadomasochistic behavior in humans.

“Toxoplasmosis Gondii infects billions of people (about a third of the world’s population) and is often transmitted from pet cats—spread through contact with faeces,” reports UK News Yahoo. Using a questionnaire, researchers collected data from 36,564 people in Slovakia and the Czech Republic—741 of whom were infected—and found that people with toxoplasmosis “expressed higher attraction to bondage, violence, zoophilia, fetishism, and, in men, also to masochism, and raping and being raped.” The study’s lead author said that the parasite “succeeds in using the fact that sex-related stimuli and fear-related stimuli affect very similar circuits in the brain. Even without Toxoplasma, there will be some relationship between fear and sex.” So, if you suddenly have an itch to get kinky, your feisty kitty could have something to do with it!

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Check out more about how owning a cat can make you get into BDSM here: https://uk.news.yahoo.com/owning-a-cat-could-make-you-get-into-bondage-experts-warn-095645031.html

Joe Jonas Wrote a Song About His Love Of S&M

The sexiest Jonas brother has been getting candid in his songs recently about how much he loves sex. And now he’s opened up about what he’s into in the bedroom—and it’s pretty kinky. In an interview with PrideSource, Joe confessed to his love of S&M, which isn’t surprising if you’ve heard his racy new song, “Be Mean.”

“Everyone should try a little bit of something new in the bedroom. It’s definitely fun when you bring some whips and leather and whatever you may be into—a little bit of S&M—into the bedroom,” said Jonas. He went on to explain the inspiration for the song, which he hopes will inspire others to have sex that’s wild and fun: “I wrote it about me and someone I was getting wild with, and maybe (we) busted some outfits out—you know, you get a little crazy. It’s a fun song, and I hope people can have fun with it and learn from it.” So, bust out those whips and chains, Jonas fans, and go get crazy!

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Check out more about Joe Jonas’s song about S&M here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/christianzamora/joe-jona-s-and-m

Sex Game’s Safe For Work Mode Dresses Characters In X-Mas Sweaters

Ladykiller in a Bind is a fun, erotic game that lets folks explore BDSM and consent. It’s full of naughty, dirty sex. And now, the game’s new update lets players keep things PG-13. And very merry.

Version 1.1.0 adds a few handy options for eager players who might want to play the game in a public setting. The first is to skip forward over any of the game’s racy sex scenes. But the best change is the “Safe For Work” option, which covers up all the nudity by giving the cast colorful Christmas sweaters. So, you know, if your boss sees you playing a game with a gagged and restrained character who’s tied to a chair, at least the character will be wearing a festive sweater!

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Check out more about the sex game’s new SFW option: https://kotaku.com/sex-game-s-safe-for-work-mode-dresses-characters-in-chr-1789489454

8 Of the Kinkiest Things People Have Ever Done During Sex

body-1095226_640 What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done during sex? Well, if you’re into BDSM and fetish play, it’s probably involved some pretty kinky stuff! Here, Buzzfeed readers share their kinkiest sexual experiences (check out more kinky confessions below).

The cone of shame
This “slave” enjoys piss play and humiliation, and his “fondest memory” is when 22+ men pissed on him while he wore a cone a shame. He says, “After being peed on, my Master forced me to sit in the pee for a long time before being allowed to shower off. It was definitely one of the hottest things I’ve ever done.” You naughty, naughty boy!
The Daddy/dom fetish
This dom has his girl call him Daddy or Sir, otherwise strict punishment is enforced. “There’s something amazing about having a person put their total trust in you and let you completely control and use their body,” says Daddy. We promise to be good, Daddy!
The secret party
“Me and my ex had a party and in the middle of it we stealthily made our way to the back room and while we were having sex I tied her up. When we were done I left her like that and then after an hour I came back and we did it again.” Sounds like a great party to us!
The cuckold
“My girlfriend and I are into cuckolding. We met a guy and I watched him fuck her in the ass while I sucked her toes. After he came in her ass, I licked it out and we kissed. Five minutes later, she started giving him a blowjob again. He came in her mouth, she kissed me, and then spat it into my mouth.” Wow. That’s kinky.
Confessions of a cam girl
One cam girl confesses that her boyfriend peeks on her doing private shows. Then, after she’s done for the night, they have mind-blowing sex. Watching her flirt and talk dirty really turns him on.
The welcome home party
“My girlfriend’s parents were giving me a lift back home from the airport one afternoon. My girlfriend and I were in the backseat, one thing led to another, and I was getting a blowjob. It was the quietest orgasm I’ve ever had.” Now that’s a good welcome home!
The overtime at work
“I fucked my boss in the ass using a strap on while we were in his office during the middle of a work day.” Something tells us this person will be up for a promotion soon!
The in-car entertainment
“I once drove 30 minutes to a guy’s house with a butt plug in the whole time. The vibrations from the car made me orgasm twice.” Butt-plug: the only way to travel.

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Check out more of the kinkiest things people have ever done during sex: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/watch-out-for-the-armadillo

Everyone’s Masturbating To New Fifty Shades Trailer

Within 24 hours of Fifty Shades Darker releasing its official trailer, it had broken viewing records. Variety reports that in just one day the trailer had accumulated 114 million views across YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and other digital platforms. North America alone had 39.4 million views, and in Italy there were six million views—which leads us to the inevitable question: is everyone watching this and jerking off?

Considering how smokin’ hot the trailer is—sexy masks, shower sex, more naughty cat-and-mouse BDSM games—we’d be willing to bet a lot of viewers are. “The numbers have dethroned Star Wars: The Force Awakens, which generated 112 millions views on its first day,” reports Jezebel. “Fifty Shades Darker has awakened a true force, stirring the aroused masses into making history with their constant self-abuse.” Sexier and darker—who doesn’t love a twisted, BDSM love story?

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Check out the new Fifty Shades trailer everyone’s masturbating to below and read more here: https://jezebel.com/everyones-jacking-it-to-this-trailer-1786713714

Introducing The First Feminist Porn Magazine

From the outside, you might think Math Magazine is a sexy looking academic journal. But on the inside, you’ll find an erotic porn magazine hiding in plain sight. It’s the creation of editor-in-chief MacKenzie Peck, who wanted to make a progressive porn publication that was ethical, inclusive, and sexy as hell. “Readers can still have the discovery, the surprise, even that sense of taboo,” Peck said. “But with the knowledge that everything was produced in collaboration with models and using the most ethical practices.”

Another goal of the magazine was to represent a diversity of body types and sex acts, while keeping things nasty: “One of my main focuses is maintaining a high level of quality while continuing to push boundaries in terms of kink and sexuality and unrepresented groups,” said Peck. The second issue of Math embodies these goals perfectly, with a photograph of an elderly couple making out, a fuck fest between three men, and a BDSM sequence involving ropes, harnesses and spankings. At the end of the day, what Peck really wants is for people to get off: “It should inspire you to have an encounter with it, or with someone. Or masturbate.”

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Check out more about the first feminist porn mag: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/math-magazine-feminist-porn_us_57ae25b2e4b069e7e50550d6