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Dominatrix To Teach College Students About BDSM at Northwestern University

Students will finally get good sex education, at Northwestern University’s annual “sex week.” College students will learn about important topics such as polyamory and masturbation on campus, and a dominatrix will teach the kinky class on “healthy BDSM practices.” Organizers said the class aimed to remove some of the stigma associated with BDSM by the 50 Shades of Grey book and movie series.

“What better way can you learn about the basics of BDSM than from a professional domme in Chicago?” the Facebook event read. The dominatrix, who runs Chicago Dungeon Rentals and is an established sex educator, added: “My firm hand reveals skill earned by meticulous training and dedicated practice. You are before a true student turned teacher of the art of kink and domination.” Other events include “Sex Jeopardy!” and “Sex is Good!: The Benefits of Masturbation,” and a talk by the New York Museum of Sex curator.

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Check out more about “sex week” at Northwestern: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5549033/Dominatrix-teach-Northwestern-students-BDSM-sex-week.html

The Torture Ship Is The World’s Largest Bondage and Fetish Orgy On A Boat

Hundreds of fetish fans from all around the world gathered in Germany to embark on the Torture Ship. The fetish and BDSM party takes place on a cruise ship and is considered the world’s largest orgy on a boat. The annual event sees some 500 people take part in a one-night boat trip, with attendees decked out in their wildest fetish gear.

For 65 euros a ticket, people party it up with other hardcore kinksters, sporting head-to-toe latex, painfully tight corsets, gimp masks, and huge horse heads complete with bridle and reins. BDSM fans let their freak flags fly, despite a slight regulations set-back in 2014, which banned the traditional “dark room” for sexual encounters and the beds on board. These kinky seafarers will just have to find creative ways to express their love for BDSM on the Torture Ship.

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Check out more about the Torture Ship: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5882241/Torture-Ship-worlds-largest-bondage-fetish-boat-party.html

Bondage Mask Also Plays Music

If you love music and fetish gear, we’ve got good news for you: there’s now BDSM-inspired headphones. “Arca, the Venezuelan producer and songwriter who’s collaborated with Kanye West and Björk, conceived a line of ‘Tormenta’ fetishwear alongside erotic fashion brand Fleet Ilya for the Montreal-based style platform SSENSE,” reports NY Post. The headphones look like a cage that wraps around the wearer’s head like a mask, fully immersing the person in a kinky sound bath.

The fetish headphones sell for a cool $6,450—but there’s actually no guarantee they work as headphones. The Canadian luxury e-tailer states on its site, “the product . . . is being sold to you exclusively as an art object and is provided as is without any . . . warranty.” Arca added on Instagram, “hey i designed some headphones it’s casual they’re really cheap pick up a pair or don’t or whatever either way i’m locking you into the sound.”

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Check out more about the bondage mask that plays music: https://nypost.com/2018/05/15/this-terrifying-bondage-mask-also-plays-music/

Goop’s Sex Issue Tackles BDSM, Porn and Threesomes

Goop Magazine’s no stranger to publishing risque sex issues, and the latest is no exception—it covers everything from tantric sex, sex toys, BDSM, threesomes, watching porn with your partner, and so much more. Goop has sexperts weigh in on readers’ sex questions, explaining that “Whether tantra or BDSM or threesomes or vanilla are your thing will never be the point — knowing yourself, all your options, and how to ask for and pursue what feels good to you, is,” the magazine reads.

Discussing tantric sex, the magazine shares this tip from a sexpert: “One of the simplest relational practices is to spend a designated amount of time connecting with each other.” Independent feminist porn producer Erika Lust answers questions about couples watching porn together, saying “Watching can increase confidence in the bedroom for men and women, as well as electrify the atmosphere and introduce ideas for different role plays or sexual practices. The possibilities are endless.” As for sex toys, while the much-discussed 14-karat gold dildo didn’t make the list again this year, Goop editors recommend trying out BDSM tools, such as cuffs, cords, blindfolds, whips, floggers and feathers.

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Check out more about Goop’s latest sex issue: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5657311/Gwyneth-Paltrow-tackles-BDSM-porn-THREESOMES-new-Goop-issue.html

BDSM Community Furious At Schneiderman’s ‘Role-Playing’ Defense

Anybody who has kinky sex knows the importance of giving consent before engaging in role-playing and rough sex. That’s why members of the kink community are outraged that Eric Schneiderman, in resigning as New York’s attorney general because of alleged violence toward several women, depicted the abuse as “role-playing and other consensual sexual activity.” Since Ronan Farrow co-authored the New Yorker story that first revealed the allegations against Schneiderman, various online communities on social media and blogs devoted to BDSM have explained that any non-negotiated encounter is “ABUSE. End of story.”

Ronan Farrow also spoke to CNN, adding “that this was not role-playing, that this was not ‘Fifty Shades of Grey.’ It wasn’t in a gray area at all.” EJ Dickson, an editor of MensHealth.com wrote “It is one of the very basic tenets of BDSM. Often, sex acts will be negotiated beforehand in the form of contracts, and either way, anyone practicing BDSM responsibly will implement a ‘safe word’ to make it clear if they are uncomfortable with anything happening.” Hey, Schneiderman, don’t drag kinksters down in the mud with you!

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Check out more about Schneiderman’s offensive BDSM defense when accused of abuse: https://nypost.com/2018/05/08/bdsm-community-angry-at-schneidermans-role-playing-depiction/

Bondage Blacksmith Forges Kinky Fetish Gear

A blacksmith in the UK turned his business around by creating sex metal bondage gear to BDSM enthusiasts. He specializes in normal-looking household items with secret kinky attachments. One of his masterpieces is a £15,000 hang-forged bondage bed with a leather headboard, a hidden mirrored ceiling and a drop-down cabinet for sex toys.

Though he now earns thousands with his own line of bondage equipment called Hidden. In Plain Site, he started out by chance when a friend of a friend asked him to make a metal bondage chair for a couple who are into BDSM. Along with producing high-end products, much of his business is centered on making metal cuffs and collars, which are very popular with the BDSM community. He even makes “permanent cuffs,” which a customer must sign a waiver for before having them put on because once fitted, they cannot be removed before they’re cut off, and usually cost between £300 and £600.

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Check out more about the bondage blacksmith: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5637717/Struggling-blacksmith-creates-sexy-metal-bondage-gear.html

Meet Erika Lust, An Indie Feminist Porn Producer

Erika Lust is best known for making porn with high production value and a focus on women’s subjectivity, desire, and pleasure. She makes X-rated content in response to what she calls “mass-produced porn,” or the porn she says “fuckographers” churn out like McDonald’s hamburgers. She’s interested in depicting real female pleasure—which she doesn’t consider exclusively “porn for women”—while upholding “ethical” working conditions for adult entertainers.

Lust is best-known for her series XConfessions, which takes viewer-submitted fantasies—about everything from noisy next door neighbors to period sex with a vampire—and brings them to life in highly stylized cinematic shorts. The porn she makes includes girl-on-guy, lesbian, gay, group sex, kink and fetish play, BDSM, and nonbinary performers. The XConfessions website currently has 10,000 subscribers and a net monthly revenue of more than $120,000—not bad for an independent, feminist porn producer!

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Check out more about Erika Lust’s independent porn: https://jezebel.com/erika-lust-says-she-has-an-ethical-alternative-to-mass-1824090251

This Dominatrix Gets Off On Putting Men’s Dicks Under Lock and Key

Penis cages are all the rage in the BDSM community, according to bondage professional Elise Graves. She really gets off on using various devices for restricting a man’s junk—from medieval-inspired chastity belts to modern penis cages that can only be opened with a lock and key. “For me…I typically like the idea of controlling a man’s kind of most prized possession,” she says.

“There is a cock cage, and there’s something called a ‘keyholder.’ A person cannot get out of their cage unless I choose to allow that,” she explains. Some of them are designed that even if a person could get a boner, there’s no way to relieve that. Graves explains that fetishists like the feeling of being owned, or the humiliation or punishment involved. For BDSM enthusiasts, as Grave says, “it’s a pretty versatile form of play.”

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Check out more about BDSM penis cages: https://nypost.com/video/this-babe-gets-off-putting-the-family-jewels-under-lock-and-key/

There’s Now A ‘Girls’ Porn Parody

If you’re a fan of the hit HBO comedy Girls, it might be hard to believe an X-rated porn parody could be racier than the actual show. But the good people at Hustlerdecided to take on the ambitious task. They’ve made “This Ain’t Girls XXX,” starring Richie Calhoun as Adam, and Alex Chance as Hannah.

The plot has Hannah first trying out lesbianism, only to return to Adam for hot BDSM fuck fests: “In addition to dirty talk and rough sex, Adam uses a candy ballgag attached to a stretchy cord to direct Hannah’s face towards him,” says Hustler. According to Calhoun, due to the show’s frequent sexual themes, “they didn’t have to do much” but roll with the original script and extend the sex scenes. “I tried to make it as weird as possible,” Calhoun told XBIZ, the porn industry business news magazine. “I tried to say really weird things and do really weird positions.” Fans of the show understand what this means completely.

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Check out more about “This Ain’t Girls XXX”: https://www.buzzfeed.com/avclub/theres-a-girls-porn-parody-now-because-of-co-oi7

Christian Dominatrix Will Have You Praying For More

A devout Christian dominatrix is putting the fear of God into her subs. Submissives pay $80 an hour to worship at the leather-clad mistress’ feet. She loves her religion and the kinky world of BDSM, saying she considers herself submissive to her faith.

“I would describe my relationship with Jesus as one would describe a relationship with a bratty sub with a dominant,” she says. The dominatrix works at a dungeon, owned by a woman named Venus Cuffs, that’s equipped with punishment tools as well as an X-shaped St. Andrew’s cross. Dommes securely strap their submissive to the device by their wrists and ankles, before whipping and flogging them. The devout domme explains she derives just as much pleasure from the act as her submissive, saying it’s almost like a drug—or, maybe, rapture.

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Check out more about the Christian dominatrix: https://nypost.com/2017/07/13/a-christian-womans-secret-life-as-a-dominatrix/