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Dominatrix Says Brain Injury is Behind Her Intense Sex Drive

Vancouver dominatrix Sasha Mizaree says a brain injury resulting from a car accident is the reason for her overactive sex drive and chosen profession in the BDSM community. And recently, mistress Mizaree was awarded $1.5 million in a lawsuit for her brain injury. Allegedly, her impulse to have sex after the accident became so severe that she no longer felt she had control over it. She explains that because of her brain injury, she couldn’t stop thinking about sex, all day every day.

Her intense sexual desire led her to become a stripper, and eventually a dominatrix. She even built a dungeon in her basement. Mistress Mizaree says that before the accident, she had an average libido, so she’s now taking measures to get a handle on her voracious appetite for sex. We bet that becoming a dominatrix has also helped her to feel more in control and empowered sexually!

Have a strong desire for something naughty? No need to exercise control with us!

Check out more about dominatrix Mizaree on 20/20’s “My Strange Affliction”: https://abcnews.go.com/Health/women-dominatrix-brain-trauma-gave-intense-sexual-desires/story?id=29595458

NEWS: Five BDSM Movies Better Than Fifty Shades of Grey

If you’re into BDSM (or if you’re a human who hasn’t been living under a rock recently), you’ve probably heard about/read/seen Fifty Shades of Grey. The movie grossed a record $94.4 million at the box office in its opening weekend, and there are 2 more sequels in the works. But despite the franchise’s massive success, for many BDSM enthusiasts, Fifty Shadesis really BDSM-lite. Here are 5 movies with way hotter, better BDSM:

Secretary

It stars Maggie Gyllenhaal as James Spader’s kinky secretary. Their relationship quickly escalates from her boss spanking her as punishment for typos, to an all-out BDSM dom-sub affair!
Belle Du Jour

This one features the luscious Catherine Deneuve, who decides to secretly work at a brothel to satiate her intense BDSM fantasies. “Do as you wish with me,” says naughty Belle De Jour.
A Dangerous Method

Here, Keira Knightly’s character gets off to getting spanked and tied up by her famous therapist, Carl Jung. Her BDSM fetish is definitely Freudian!
Maitresse

This hot, French BDSM film was so racy it was banned for 6 years in the UK because“the actual scenes of fetishism are miles in excess of anything we have ever passed in this field.” We’ll just say that the hot dominatrix has a torture chamber in her basement, and gets off on making her subs suffer.
9 ½ Weeks

This 80’s classic has some of the most erotic BDSM sex of any movie. Who can forget the blindfolded food sex-scene, their out-in-public fuck fests, or when Kim Basinger is forced to masturbate at work by her sexy dominant boyfriend, Mickey Rourke?

All those movies really got us in the mood for some kinky fun! Lights, camera, action!

NiteFlirt March Badness BDSM Champion for 2015!

Strap-On
NiteFlirt March Badness BDSM Champion for 2015!

You spoke loud and clear and we “counted” all of your voices over the last two weeks. We had literally thousands of votes cast amongst a worthy cast of sexy fetishes, but in the end there can be only one champion, and that champion is the Strap-On fetish!

Strap-On dominated the championship match just as it dominated the rest of the competition. Here’s a breakdown of it’s victim’s over the last two weeks of our event:

Ballbusting/CBT
Physical Domination
Spanking
Tease & Denial
Goddess Worship

These are all outrageously incredible BDSM fetishes in their own right, but the lovers of Strap-On proved too loud and powerful to overcome. You sexy beasts love the ferocity of your Strap-On fetish and you wouldn’t take anything less than a championship trophy to prove it. Congratulations!

We can’t thank all of you enough for participating in our tournament all month long. You made it a sexy and thrilling ride for all of us, coming out so strongly for all of your respective fetishes. We are impressed and more than a little sexually aroused by the last month. We hope you had half as much fun as we did with our little competition and learned a little more about what turns you on. We know that we did.

If you ever want to practice one, or all, of these sexy fetishes come visit NiteFlirt and Speak to Your Desire™!

We’ll be here waiting.

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The Best BDSM Sex Toys For Beginners

Have you been wanting to add some kink into your sex life? Maybe you’re curious about dipping your toe into the (wild) water that is BDSM? Well, we have just the thing for you! Here are the perfect BDSM sex toys to start your kinky journey off to a mind-blowing start:

Classic Handcuffs: If you’re nervous about bringing BDSM into your bedroom, this is the perfect item to add something new, unexpected, and naughty to your sex life.
Handblown Glass Whip: What’s key here is getting one that has soft leather tresses for beginner BDSM play but is still sturdy enough to deliver a firm whack. Not to mention that the glass handle doubles as a dildo!
Pinwheel: This BDSM toy can be sharp, but if used correctly can deliver the perfect amount of pain.
Feather Crop: This is great for tickle-torture BDSM play and a good smack!
Blindfold: A blindfold’s essential to heightening the senses during BDSM. All the sensations and surprises will be that much more intense with this classic item.
Nipple Clamps: What BDSM enthusiast could live without nipple clamps? Be sure to get a good pair that’s adjustable and comfortable to wear.
Bondage Ropes: The sensual nature of rope against the skin adds a new level to the amazing sensory experiences of BDSM.
Bar Spreader: Both ankles and wrists can fit into the movement-reducing straps.
Ball Mouth Gag: This iconic BDSM toy is essential for any beginner. Be sure to get one with holes for easy breathing.

Come discover the kinky world of BDSM with us! We promise to be gentle (but only if you say your safe word!).

Check out more BDSM sex toys for beginners here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/laurenzaser/bondage-gifts-for-beginners

March Badness; Championship

It’s time to crown NiteFlirt’s 2015 March Badness BDSM & Fetish Champion!

Then there were two left standing!

Only two fetishes remain in our entire bracket as we are now down to the championship match. Both took different paths to get here and it seems there is a clear favorite, but we still need to count your votes to determine the most popular fetish of 2015!

Strap-On vs. Goddess Worship
Strap-On again dominated the competition taking almost 75% of the total vote in it’s battle with Tease & Denial. Clearly Strap-On has to be our favorite moving on into the championship match. They’ve dominated the entire tournament and it’s pretty tough to pick against them now.
Goddess Worship just barely eked out a win against Ass Worship in their own Frisky Four matchup, winning only 52%-48%. It was incredible that Goddess Worship was able to pull off the victory by just the slimmest of margins. We predicted a walk-through for it, but that’s not how it played out. Perhaps the Goddess Worship lovers aren’t quite up to the task as we thought they were?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. We see no reason that the domination won’t continue in this, our final, matchup of the tournament. Strap-On has roared through this competition with ferocity and power and we just don’t see it ending now.

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This is it! Get those votes in so we can crown a champion for 2015! You can vote until this Wednesday. We’ll crown the champion that day!

Vote early and vote often!

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March Badness; Frisky Four

As the NCAA basketball tournament gets underway today we are getting closer and closer to the climax of our March Badness event. With that said, there are only four fetishes left standing…

We have finally reached our Frisky Final Four and we are here to tell you they are about as frisky as you can get!

Each fetish has defeated a few favorites along the way and connected with their audience in a big way! You’ve come out in massive numbers for your fetishes and we expect that to continue through the championship round. We will count your votes for our last four BDSM fetishes until next Monday, March 23rd. Get your votes in early and get them in often. You can vote once an hour for your favorites.

Let’s get to the matchups!

FRISKY FINAL FOUR
TOP DIVISION

Strap-On vs. Tease & Denial

In a battle of incredible power and control, respectively, these two extremely different fetishes square off in our Frisky Four this year. It’s a difficult matchup to pick because each fetish is from a different section of the BDSM universe. Do you like your power or do you want your control? This is a personal taste decision all the way.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. Raw sexual power begets more raw sexual power. Strap-On keeps rolling here.

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BOTTOM DIVISION

Goddess Worship vs. Ass Worship

We were speechless when our tournament favorite, Bondage, was defeated handily by Goddess Worship. We thought our pick had what it took to go all the way but obviously you Goddess Worship lovers had different plans. Well done. Ass Worship put a sound defeat on Foot Worship as well, but we see the end of their BDSM road here.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Goddess Worship. We see a crushing and total victory here for Goddess lovers.

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All that’s left is to crown our championship matchup in the final round. As we said, get those votes in now! The competition is going to be stiff, ahem, so ensure your fetish has the best chance to win.

We’ll announce the final battle on Monday!

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Americans Are Way Kinkier Than the Rest of the World

You

might think that the mega success of Fifty Shades of Grey is mostly to thank for America’s recent love affair with kinky sex, namely BDSM. According to a 2005 survey by Durex, 36 percent of Americans reported using masks, blindfolds, and other BDSM tools during sex. And in the rest of the world, only 20 percent of people said that they engage in BDSM play. But surprisingly, Americans kinky preference for BDSM is nothing new—as in, way before Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey began flogging vanilla sex into submission.

A study from 1953 found that 55 percent of women and 50 percent of men liked to be bitten during sex. And a different study in 1999 found that 65 percent of university students liked to be tied up. These studies show that well before BDSM became the new flavor of the month, it’s been a (hot) thing in many an American bedroom. That’s because practicing BDSM is actually pretty common, especially for us kinky Americans!

These findings make us proud to be an American! Come show your national pride by getting kinky with us!

March Badness; Exotic Eight

Just like that we are down to only eight, the Exotic Eight, left in our March Badness bracket. We’re getting dangerously close to our Frisky Final Four. All that’s left is for all of you to pick who will compete!

At this point in the tournament every fetish is a favorite and has it’s share of wicked fans to back it up. It will boil down to who comes out harder for their beloved fetish.

Who will win? Which fetish is the most beloved? Let’s get to it!

EXOTIC EIGHT
TOP DIVISION

Spanking vs. Strap-On

The second round matchups went exactly as we expected them to for these two heavyweights: walk away victories. How does someone pick a winner between them now though? It’s almost impossible to find an edge between these two! We are expecting a real nail-biter as the lover’s of both come out in full force.
NiteFlirt Prediction: Strap-On. This one is almost too close to call. We just flipped a dildo for it. It landed ‘heads’.

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Orgasm Control/Ruination vs. Tease & Denial

We keep picking against these two fetishes and we keep losing. It seems only fitting that they meet here in the Exotic Eight, as they are different sides of very similar tastes. Which you prefer depends on which side of the power you are on? Let’s find out!
NiteFlirt Prediction: Tease & Denial. We just think it’s more fun to tease than it is to ruin!

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BOTTOM DIVISION

Bondage vs. Goddess Worship

Now we are talking about some real fun! At this point in the tournament it usually is a heavyweight against a heavyweight and we have some major players here. Both of these fetishes are so different from each other, we honestly have no clue how this one is going to play out. Both so sexy in their own way!
NiteFlirt Prediction: Bondage. We started with picking Bondage and we’re going to ride it right to the end.

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Ass Worship vs. Foot Worship

We know one thing: there’s a whole lot of worshipping going on in this matchup! We feel that Foot Worship may have run into a little bit of bad luck in this round. How can gorgeous feet compare with a gorgeous ass?! It’s going to be a tough one.
NiteFlirt Prediction: Ass Worship. We just can’t see the feet outrunning the ass in this one!

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There you have it! You’re Exotic Eight ready to be voted on and counted. Make your voice heard and be looking for our Frisky Final Four on the 19th, in just a few days!

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March Badness; “Scintillating Sixteen” Second Round

Our first round is over and it got pretty racy in a few of these battles! There were some results we didn’t see coming, some results we called with our predictions perfectly, and some that were just so close it was ridiculous. On to the second round and the Scintillating Sixteen!

Your response in our March Badness competition has been incredible so far so let’s keep it going!

SECOND ROUND, THE SCINTILLATING SIXTEEN
TOP DIVISION

Spanking vs. Verbal Humiliation

We were shocked with Spanking’s close victory over Masturbation Instruction in the first round. Maybe that was just the test it needed though to really get you spanking lovers to wake up and come out in force! It’s a matchup of classic strength vs. classic strength in this second round battle. Make your voices heard!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Spanking. We’re sticking with this classic fetish in the second round.

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Physical Domination vs. Strap-On

Physical Domination eked out a win over Forced Bi in their first round matchup while Strap-On was forceful and dominant in it’s face-off with Ballbusting. The latter wasn’t much of a fight as Strap-On took over 80% of the vote. What do you expect from Strap-On? To ask for a victory nicely and walk away? Come on, now.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. Huge upset by Physical Domination in the first round. We don’t think it can continue.

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Orgasm Control/Ruination vs. Face Sitting

We couldn’t have been more wrong with our first round prediction of Orgasm Control going down early. It thoroughly dominated in it’s first round vote and now finds itself up against a much more formidable foe in Face Sitting, who scored a surprise upset over Financial Domination with a late push in the first round. We underestimated just how wicked so many of you are.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Face Sitting. We expect this Cinderella to keep things going in this second round bout.

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Tease & Denial vs. Cuckolding

Keeping with the theme of people not being allowed to cum, Tease & Denial did quite well in their first round matchup despite our prediction. Looks like we’ll never get a chance to see that Princess gang after all. Cuckolding seems like a real favorite though so we sense we might be in for a real close vote in this second round matchup.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Cuckolding. Just can’t see this one being all that close.

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BOTTOM DIVISION

Bondage vs. Feminization/Sissy

What a battle of heavyweights! So early in the bracket! Both completely dominated their competition in their respective first rounds. It’ll be interesting to see which fetish is more beloved here as they truly differ in their tactics. We just wish it could have come a little later in the tournament. Make your picks!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Bondage. Frankly we just like being tied up more than we like wearing a dress.

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Goddess Worship vs. Oral Servitude

We were hoping for a little more fight out of Electric Play against Goddess Worship, as it’s one of our favorites, but it just wasn’t meant to be. Both of these fetishes are public favorites and both crushed in the first round. Which do you prefer? A strong Goddess or a strong tongue?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Goddess Worship. We expect another strong victory for this classic fetish.

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Chastity vs. Ass Worship

Chastity is always a tough one for us here at NiteFlirt because, let’s face it, we like to have sex! With that said though, you all spoke and it came through the first round with flying colors! Now it’s up against Ass Worship and we’re having a tough time calling this one. This ‘not having sex’ thing has us so confused.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Chastity. You all seem to really enjoy your discipline!

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Foot Worship vs. Spitting

Both Foot Worship and Spitting had two of the closest victories (mid 50%) of the first round which quite frankly we just didn’t expect. We are expecting it here though and think it’ll be a real dogfight between these two niches.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Foot Worship. Another surprise victor in the first round, we really just think we underestimated Foot Worship from the beginning.

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Get your votes in now! This round only last for two days and will be over on March 17th!

Next stop: the Exotic Eight!

As always, come Speak to Your Desire™ at NiteFlirt if these fetishes are getting you as hot as they are us!

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BDSM Class at Community Center Shut Down

A BDSM class disguised as a “relationship support” meeting was gagged recently by community center officials when they found out about its kinky intentions. The class was being run by a group called the Cambridge Kink, who wanted to educate locals about the BDSM lifestyle. After several classes, which included such titillating topics as “violence/resistance play” and the “basics of erotic hypnosis,” community officials discovered the true nature of the naughty, BDSM classes, and banned the event for good. Boo!

For around $16, the Cambridge Kink offered BDSM courses in caning, dominance/submission, and general “kink on a budget”—not to mention tea and pastries! The community center, which usually hosts girl scout meetings and bingo, admitted that while BDSM is more socially accepted now than ever before (thanks in part to the wild success of Fifty Shades of Grey), it is still not enough for the center. We guess it’s back to the underground BDSM sex dungeons for these Cambridge Kinksters!

Looking for a top-notch education in BDSM? We can make you whip-smart in no time!