The Museum of Sex’s 150-Year-Old Porn Exhibit

lifeofpeiWhile we may think that the popularity of porn is a recent phenomenon (thanks to the internet), the Museum of Sex’s exhibit, “Hardcore: A Century and a Half of Obscene Imagery,” proves hardcore sexual images have been around for a long, long time. The exhibit shows that erotic literature, dating back to the 1500s, was just as—if not more—hardcore as anything we have today. The 16th century writer Pietro Aretino, who is known as the “father of pornography,” wrote about gay sex, orgies, masturbation, and all in plain talk. In fact, such pornographic books sparked our country’s first obscenity trial.

The museum has vintage brothel catalogues that were sold on street corners to advertise a sex den, and a sheep intestine condom as thick as a bicycle tire! There are also Victorian era graphic images of cum shots and of women using homemade sex toys—on themselves and on other women—that they would fashion out of things from around the house (broomsticks, candlesticks, and bottles). And in perhaps the first documented image of BDSM, a naked woman holds a bullwhip while standing with her spike heel on a naked man’s face. There’s also the first porn on film depicting both gay and straight sex, which was viewed in large public venues by groups of men. The exhibit goes to show that people have always found ways to express their erotic desires!

Want to celebrate the freedom to be as sexual as we want to be? Three cheers to porn!

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The Raciest Lines From the New Fifty Shades of Grey Book

 Screen Shot 2015-07-08 at 2.59.14 PMThe new E.L. James book, Grey, is just as hot and naughty as readers would expect it to be. The book, which re-tells Fifty Shades from Christian Grey’s perspective, has already sold 1.1 million copies—just 4 days after it was released! Readers just can’t seem to get enough of the Fifty Shades, BDSM phenomenon, which is why news outlets like Entertainment Weekly are already compiling lists of the best, raciest lines. Here are some of the jewels:

  1. “Her sharp intake of breath is music to my dick.”
  2. “Vanilla sex? Can I do this?”
  3. “Genital clamps—you have got to be kidding me.”
  4. “I drag my hand through my hair, and in as even a tone as I can manage I ask, ‘Are you hungry?’/ ‘Not for food,’ she teases. / Whoa. She might as well be addressing my groin.”
  5. “Oh, this is going to be fun. You’d be amazed what I can do with a few cable ties, baby.”
  6. “’How would you like your eggs?’” / “ ‘Thoroughly whisked and beaten,’ I reply.”
  7. “Oh, this ass is mine, so mine. And it’s going to get warmer.”

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Check out more racy lines in Grey here!

The World’s Oldest Dominatrix Maintains There’s Nothing Unusual About BDSM

Screen Shot 2015-07-08 at 2.32.52 PMThe oldest and most famous dominatrix in France, Madame Robbe-Grillet, did an exclusive interview with Vanity Fair recently to discuss how there is “nothing unusual at all” about the BDSM lifestyle. She’s 84, a lesbian, and explains that her lifestyle as a dominatrix involves “devoting herself to pleasure.” She lives with her long-time submissive girlfriend and devotee to BDSM, Beverly Charpentier, in a 17th century chateau filled with weapons, whips and chains, where they regularly indulge in erotic “ceremonies.” These bondage sessions can be so brutal that the dominatrix is often referred to as a female Marquis de Sade!

Madame Robbe-Grillet is a fierce dominatrix at just 4ft 11in, and is known for her punishing style: she’s pierced and cut, chained submissives to walls, and even crowned them with thorns. And her girlfriend signed an oath of allegiance guaranteeing full obedience to her mistress. Madame Robbe-Grillet says now that she’s in her eighties, her sex life is better than ever: “Age should be no barrier to anything in life, least of all sex – I am as happy and fulfilled in my eighties as I was at any time in my life.”

Want to start devoting yourself to pleasure with us? We can also make you hurt so good!

Read more about the world’s oldest dominatrix here.

The Most Hilarious Sexual Phrases in Romance Novels

cosmic_banditaWhile writers are known for their creativity, romance writers in particular are known for their ridiculouscreativity when it comes to describing sex (ahem, Fifty Shades of Grey, anyone?). So blogger John Ferri decided to compile lists of the most absurd, hilarious sexual descriptions he found in his wife’s romance novels. Here are some of the gems:

Romance Novel Epithets for the Cock
  1. Rigid source of heat
  2. Engorged flesh
  3. Iron-hard tumescence
  4. Love’s sweet arrow
  5. Plenipotentiary instrument
  6. Molten member
  7. Torrid extension
Romance Novel Epithets for the Pussy
  1. Damp, most needy place
  2. Fiery furnace
  3. Most treasured pearl of passion
  4. Glistening portals of her womanhood
  5. Molten need
Romance Novel Descriptions of Sex
  1. Impaling her on his straining shaft
  2. Plunging hotness penetrated
  3. Possess the lily
  4. Embalming injection
  5. Love’s sweet lava flowed
  6. Staccato spasms
  7. Burned to a cinder

Wow. Some of those descriptions sound dangerous! We don’t know about “writhing with burning caresses” but we would definitely be up for some “lightning bolts of fulfillment!”

Check out more hilarious sexual phrases from romance novels here!

Top 10 Favorite Fetishes

Psychologist Kris Saknussemm has been studying sexual fetishes for 20 years, which he says “is itself a kind of fetish.” Now, he’s listed out his ten all-time favorites for Nerve, and these kinky fetishes aren’t your usual ones with whips and high heels. Here are some highlights:

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  1. Mirror fetish
    This isn’t about hanging a mirror above the bed to watch yourself have sex (which is just hot!). These fetishists get off to “a psychic double or doppelganger.”
  2. Held-up at gun-point fetish
    The excitement and thrill of getting held-up or robbed is what gets their kinky motor running.
  3. Mannequin fetish
    As it turns out, that cheesy 80’s movie about a dude who falls in love with a mannequin isn’t so far-fetched! These fetishists are also aroused by statues and dolls.
  4. Amputee fetish
    They are attracted to amputees and to the fascination of becoming an amputee. There’s a David Lynch movie in here somewhere…
  5. Ant fetish
    Yes, there is even a fetish for very tiny insects.

This list goes to show there really is a fetish for everything! Want to explore your kinky side with us? We have a fetish for your fetish on www.NiteFlirt.com

 

Kink Is Out and Proud at Legendary Queer Street Parade

ff-posterA new documentary called “Folsom Forever” chronicles the history of San Francisco’s legendary gay pride parade that celebrates the right of queers and kinksters everywhere to explore their sexuality out in the open. Even though it now seems like the leather-bound parade was always just about the kink, the film shows that the event was much more than just a scene for exhibitionists. The documentary focuses on the historically gay-friendly neighborhood the Castro in the 1970s, when “Folsom Street was the West Coast’s mecca for anyone on their leather journey in life.”

During the time when the fair originated, the queers in the Castro were being pushed out of their neighborhoods by developers who wanted to “bulldoze buildings and sex businesses — like the bathhouses — being closed by the city in misguided AIDS hysteria.” This is why the parade has always been “an expression of human rights, be it the right to low-cost housing or to willingly be flogged without fear of arrest.” San Francisco in the ’70s was a time when queer people were able to fully explore and celebrate their sexuality. That’s why today, members of the LGBT community and kinksters alike flock to the Folsom Street Parade with whips, chains, leather, and more to really celebrate sexual expression and freedom.

Right on! Want to celebrate all things kinky and leather-bound with us? Three cheers for sexual freedom and expression!

Check out HuffPo‘s article on the documentary to watch the trailer for “Folsom Forever!”

Why BDSM Kinksters Have a Smoking Fetish

Smoking is sexy. The allure of a woman seductively inhaling and exhaling smoke is undeniable. So a smoking fetish is when someone takes the naughtiness and hotness of smoking one step further. Most men with a smoking fetish get off to a woman smoking while giving a blowjob, or smoking while fucking. But why is that some people who are into BDSM have a smoking fetish? best_phone_sex_niteflirt_smoking_fetish

For those who have a smoking fetish and are into BDSM, bringing smoking into their kinky repertoire is just another way to exercise dominance and submission. One way dom’s like to bring BDSM into their smoking fetish is by using their partner as an ashtray. Some even kinkier people like to flick the ash of their cigarette onto their partner’s face. And of course, for more extreme BDSM/smoking fetishists, there’s also burning—hurts so good!

Want to play Puff Puff Blow? You bring the smokes, we’ll bring everything else!

 

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Animal Rescuer By Day, Dominatrix By Night

Depositphotos_dominatrix_smallLorraine White, aka Princess Lucina, gets to incorporate dog collars into both of her lines of work: animal rescuer and dominatrix. By day, she works with animals, and by night she gets paid $300 an hour to whip her clients into submission in her dungeon. So what’s it like for her to carry on a (kinky) double life? White has only recently opened up about her alter ego as Princess Lucina when she needed to apply for permission from the city to keep her dungeon up and running.

And now that she’s gone public as a dominatrix, she’s enjoying the excitement of keeping up two very different roles: “As a dominatrix, I’m very stern. I wear rubber dresses and brandish various instruments of torture…But when I help with the dogs, I’m…giving them plenty of hugs.” In her dungeon, she has all types of torture instruments, but says that most people like “middle of the road stuff like boot worship, tied and teased, little bit of pain, a little bit of nipple torture, spanking, smoking fetishes, a bit of cross-dressing, hoods, gags, losing control, bondage.” She likes balancing the roughness and power of being a dominatrix with taking care of and nurturing animals: “It mixes my passion for animal rescue with the sensual and sadistic side of BDSM.”

Interested in trying out a kinky double life yourself? Just bring your safe word and we’ll do the rest!

Check out more about Princess Lucina here: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/dominatrix-second-job-animal-rescue-5552272

Whipped and Bound For a Living: Life as a Professional Submissive

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Subby Katie recently sat down with Vice to discuss what her day to day life is like getting tied up and flogged by strangers for a living as a professional submissive. Interestingly, even though more than three quarters of women who are into BDSM enjoy submission, there aren’t nearly as many professional submissives as there are dominatrixes. She says the key to success as a pro sub is to love what you’re doing.

Her sessions usually entail caning, bare-handed spanking, role-play (the classic secretary or school girl scenario), controlled orgasms (not allowing the sub to cum without the dom’s permission), and forced orgasms (she says this involves making her cum over and over, which becomes very intense—it was the only time she ever used her safe word!). Her clients are usually CEO types, but she’s encountered all types of kinksters, including one dude who wanted to put clothespins on her body and count the number of pins he could clamp on her skin! As a pro sub, she wants people to understand that women who are into submission are not weak or victims: they simply enjoy the submission side of BDSM, which in no way promotes violence against women.

Want to have a little BDSM fun with us? We also love what we do!

Check out more about Subby Katie on Vice.

6 Terrifying Sex Toys

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_zombieBuzzFeed recently went to the trouble of listing out some of the weirdest, freakiest, and most downright terrifying sex toys out there. They range from the adventurous to the extreme with everything in between. Here are some of the most disturbing sex toys on the market that really are the stuff of nightmares (check out the pictures).

  1. King Dong Just as the name implies, this “Super-sized novelty dildo” is 15 inches long and over 2 inches wide! Just wow.
  2. Baby Jesus Butt Plug For when you want to merge the spiritual with the carnal.
  3. The Cannon This you really need to see to believe. It looks like a literal cannon. That you insert inside you. Dangerous!
  4. Death by Orgasm 10 Speed Scorpion Bullet Vibrator This hard-core vibrator is not for beginners. If the black scorpion exterior wasn’t enough to scare you off, it comes in a friggin’ coffin for Christ’s sake!
  5. Area 51 Love Doll Remember the hoax with the woman with three boobs? This sex doll looks like her. It also comes with “3 out of this world love holes” or the “free alien lube.” Sold!
  6. The Nut Crusher This is an advanced toy, even for a BDSM enthusiast. Enter at your own risk?

Well, there you have it. 6 terrifying sex toys that will either give you “death by orgasm” or, at the very least, give you some crazy-ass nightmares.

Want to have some freaky fun with us? Let’s get adventurous and weird!