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15 Erotic Photos of a 60-Year-Old Dominatrix

Sandra LaMorgese understands that being a dominatrix is more than just wearing black leather and having a ferocious attitude. The 60-year-old dominatrix understands that her job is about the pleasure and intense transfer of sexual energy that comes from dominating her clients. To demonstrate what it’s all about, she allowed Huffington Post to photograph one of her sessions with a sexy, tight-assed 28-year-old (check out the erotic photos below).

In the dungeon, the red walls are lined with various torture instruments, and there’s a bondage table, a metal cage, and other BDSM devices in the room. She whips, paddles, and spanks the naked man’s ass until it’s bright red, then lies him on a massage table and teases him with a fiery blaise stick along his ass, back, chest, and feet. Later, she restrains his wrists behind his back with handcuffs, and has him kneel before her submissively, head bent obediently at her leather-bound breasts. She even ties him up and flogs him, his feet barely touching the floor. “The practice of BDSM involves trust, compassion, love, acceptance, erotica, and surrendering control …That, along with a few necessary beatings,” Mistress Sandra says.

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Check out 15 photos of the 60-year-old dominatrix at work here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/15-unbelievable-photos-of-a-60-year-old-dominatrix-with-her-client-nsfw_us_578fc7cde4b0fc06ec5b4f55

Chastity Belt Makes Kinkster’s Arrest That Much More Difficult

As one kinkster in Tennessee can confirm, getting arrested for a DUI while wearing a chastity belt is a definite buzz kill! The 35-year-old was wearing “some kind of red mesh see-through hose” with a ribbon tied in his goatee and “some kind of little skirt,” an investigator told the local paper. Oh yeah, and he was also wearing a chastity belt!

It wasn’t until local authorities took him into custody that they noticed the kinky device around his genitals. And things only got better (worse?) from there, as the chastity belt was locked and the man’s drunken passenger still had the key around his neck (he wasn’t arrested). Eventually, much to the polices’ delight, they were able to obtain the key. We can only hope for the man this doesn’t mean the BDSM pleasure will have to end now—there should be a law against that!

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Check out more about the man who got arrested while wearing a chastity belt here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/drunk-driver-chastity-belt_us_575b237ae4b0e39a28ada62a

‘Fifty Shades’ Gets a Whole Lot Sexier in New Show ‘Submission’

Many people found the sex in the Fifty Shades of Grey movie to be a bit, um, tame. Especially considering that the erotic trilogy turned so many onto BDSM. But if Fifty Shades was meant for the “mom” demographic, then Showtime’s new mini-series Submission is for the more adventurous viewer.

Acclaimed adult film director Jacky St. James is the brains behind the six half-hour episodes that dive deep into the world of BDSM. The series follows a young woman who becomes involved with a mysterious erotic novelist. After reading his book, Slave, the more adventurous doppelgänger of Anastasia Steele gets turned on to the complex world of whips, chains, swings and other kinky stuff. She quickly falls into a dangerous love triangle and must discover her own sexual boundaries while being passionately thrust into the endless possibilities of BDSM. Enter at your own risk on May 12!

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Check out more about Submission here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/submission-trailer-showtime_us_5723d441e4b0b49df6ab6641

This is How Couples Reacted to Reading the Latest ’50 Shades’

The latest installment of the BDSM classic Fifty Shades of Grey was released to eager fans last summer. Since then, Buzzfeed wanted to find out how couples would react to reading Grey to each other for the first time. Some couples imagined they’d be turned on, while others were already giggling at the sure to be over the top sex scenes. Here are some highlights of couples reacting to Grey (check out the hilarious video below).

“Her sharp intake of breath is music to my dick,” reads one extremely amused girlfriend. It didn’t take long to notice that there seems to be three people in the relationship—“Grey, her, and his cock!” At a different point a gay guy astutely asks, “does it seem like this book was written by a fifth grader?” Then they read one of the racier—and for some, bewildering—parts in the book: “An image of her shackled to my bed, peeled ginger root inserted in her ass so she can clutch her buttocks…” And then there was this amazing observation about the heroine’s “cock-tightening grin”: “What an adjective!” a girlfriend exclaims. Last but not least, we’ll just leave you with this gem that had every couple lose it: “I’m going to make you cum like a freight train, baby!”

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Check out the video of couples reading Grey on Buzzfeed or watch below:

BDSM Done Right in The Addams Family

Well before Fifty Shades of Grey introduced viewers to BDSM, there was this PG-13, ’90s classic: The Addams family. That’s right, Morticia and Gomez Addams—who arguably had one of the best fictional relationships of all time—waltzed, terrorized conventional neighbors, and yes, had very hot, very kinky sex! Who can forget the famous first lines of the movie, in which Morticia says to Gomez, “Last night you were unhinged. You were like some desperate howling demon. You frightened me.” The camera zooms closer: “Do it again.”?

The couple represents a normal (albeit spooky), happily married pair—who also really enjoy consensual BDSM. In the impressively progressive 1960’s television version, Morticia refers to the family’s torture room as “the play room.” And in the climax of the film, she delights in being strapped to a rack and tortured. She even encourages Gomez, who’s getting too turned on to untie her, with “Later, my dearest.” And Morticia isn’t the only one who likes to be dominated: “Don’t torture yourself, Gomez,” Morticia says. “That’s my job.” The couple’s kinky sex life makes Morticia’s pet name for Gomez all the more perfect: “mon sauvage” or “my wild.”

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Check out more about BDSM in The Addams Family here: https://offbeathome.com/2015/09/addams-family-bdsm

Wrestling Porn Takes BDSM to the Next Level

Ultimate Surrender is Kink.com’s newest porn for BDSM enthusiasts. The videos include strong, sexually empowered women wrestling while incorporating sexual maneuvers into the fights. The winner gets to sexually dominate the loser in the fourth match, which is why wrestling porn is being dubbed “UFC porn.” Its appeal comes from combining BDSM with the inherent sexuality and excitement of contact sports—not so different from the ancient Romans kinky, naked wrestling matches that were as much about sexual voyeurism as about the game itself.

The fights include “nipple torture, spanking, and exposed flesh, plus headlocks, bulging muscles, knee braces, and a bell for the victor,” reports Slate. “The quickest way to win,” the Ultimate Surrender site advises, “is to make your opponent have a screaming orgasm totally against her will.” Wrestling porn is also a nice departure from traditional BDSM porn in the way that there isn’t a clear sub or dom. “The sight of two highly athletic individuals using considerable strength to struggle for “top” billing is both erotic and an impressive physical spectacle—like football, or women’s rugby,” Slate says. In other words, wrestling porn is not pretend fighting; this isn’t two girls struggling on a mat for entertainment. These are athletes, subjected to strict training regimens, rules, and score charts. Let the (sexy) games begin!

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Check out more about wresting porn here: https://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2015/12/23/why_wrestling_porn_fills_an_important_sexual_niche_in_our_lives.html

The Health Benefits of BDSM

Not that long ago—as in before the DSM of Mental Disorders in 2013—kinky sex, BDSM, and fetishism were considered a mental disorder among health professionals. But now, thanks in part to the popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey, kinky sex has become more accepted and more mainstream. A study showed that 36% of adults have used bondage, which is a good thing because, as it turns out, BDSM has a host of health benefits. Here are some:

Improved Mental Health
A 2013 study looked at the psychological characteristics of kinksters to determine whether they were psychologically damaged in some way. The study found not only were they fine psychologically, but were actually more well adjusted than their vanilla counterparts! “Overall, the BDSM sample felt more secure in their relationships and had an increased sense of well-being. They were more conscientious toward others, more extraverted, more open to trying new experiences, had decreased anxiety, and were less sensitive to others perception.”
Less Stress
Research shows that practitioners of BDSM enter an altered state of consciousness similar to meditation, yoga, or “runner’s high.” These types of activities lessen the stress hormone cortisol, which protects against high blood pressure, suppressed immunity, and insulin resistance.
Better Cognitive Function
Pain reduces function in the limbic and prefrontal areas of the brain, which affects working memory and executive control. Researchers found that during BDSM sessions, blood flow to these areas were reduced, resulting in an altered state of consciousness. Those in the BDSM community call this “subspace” for submissives, and “topspace” or “flow” for dominants. Kinksters consider it both an enjoyable experience, and a spiritual one.
Improved Relationships
Researchers looking into couple bonding in BDSM found that participating in successful sadomasochistic scenes increases the feelings of connectedness and intimacy for partners. It also releases dopamine, which is the feel good hormone you experience when first falling in love. This because of the novelty and excitement BDSM can bring to a relationship, which is similar to having a thrilling adventure together!

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Check out more about the health benefits of BDSM.

The Best Sex Toys to Give as Holiday Gifts

Giving a sex toy to your partner or a close friend is a fun and cheeky way to add new meaning to the usual holiday “stocking stuffer” gift. Sex toys are also the gifts that keep on giving, literally—who wouldn’t want a shiny new toy that will give endless amounts of pleasure? Here are some tips for what to get the tech nerd in your life (wifi controlled vibrator, anyone?) or the newbie to kink (Fifty Shades of Grey themed sex toys!).

OhMyBod Vibrator
This sex toy is perfect for the person who’s always in search of the newest and best technology—and, of course, orgasm! It can be controlled by a phone, sexily connecting partners via wifi.
Chocolate Edible Honey Dusting Powder
If you have a partner who’s a genius in the kitchen, why not bring those talents into the bedroom with this tasty treat? There’s always room for dessert!
Seduction in a Box
Spice up your sex life with this nifty stocking stuffer. It includes a blindfold, massage candle, sexy dice and arousal balm. Thanks, Santa!
Vesper Vibrator Necklace
Do you have a friend who is a sucker for jewelry and getting off? If so, what could be better than a chic necklace that doubles as a vibrator?
Greygasms Devoted BDSM Set
Give the BDSM newbie in your life this awesome gift: it includes furry handcuffs, nipple clamps, and an unassuming-looking gag.
Jimmyjane Afterglow Candle
This scented candle not only sets the mood, but also has function—you can use the wax for an erotic massage!
Wave Rider Cock Rings
Perfect stocking stuffer!
Date Night Card Game
This game will give you both a sexy way to talk about what turns you on. And don’t forget the action cards!

Do you want to be added to the Naughty List this year? Hitch a ride on our magical sleigh and you’re sure to get endless amounts of pleasure!

Check out more great sex toys to give as holiday gifts here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/best-sex-toys-gift-guide_56463eace4b08cda3488b293

Fetish Porn Studio To Open First Erotic Haunted House

Kink.com decided to open its dungeon to all the naughty adults who are more into Halloween tricks than they are treats. Since Kink.com is the largest producer of BDSM and fetish porn, the company figured they would combine titillation with terror by opening the first ever erotic haunted house. It’s taking place in the San Francisco Armory where they shoot their porn films—which, as it so happens, is actually haunted in real life!

Kink.com says, “The two emotions, fear and sex, are inextricably linked. We wanted to play off that and offer people a truly old school scare in an unexpected setting.” The haunted house has eight sets with various characters and scenarios, including a deranged doctor (you can probably expect some light torture), a bad, bad dominatrix, a voodoo queen, and even a naked vampiress who, if you’re lucky, will lick your face. And, of course, there will be blindfolding, tight spaces, strangers touching you, and lots of other kinky surprises!

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Check out more about Kink.com’s erotic haunted house!

The Pleasures of Dry Humping

Ah, yes. Dry humping. Perhaps you haven’t thought about this little bit of foreplay since you were a teenager furiously making out on your parent’s sofa. But adding some hot, dry humping into the mix before getting into the wet, real humping can definitely help you to spice things up in the bedroom. Here are some reasons to start grinding tonight.

The best reason to dry hump is simply because it feels really really good, especially for women. Many women get off when masturbating by rubbing against things, adding firm pressure, and grinding. Dry humping can also be a fun, sexy tease that will build up the anticipation in your foreplay until you’re both begging for the real thing. Some people even prefer the taunting pressure without allowing themselves the release afterward (mainly those who are into BDSM). You can dry hump in jeans for less direct contact (but for heaven’s sake, no belt buckles!), in your underwear, or even naked for more intense clitoral stimulation. Then just “do the humpty hump” to your heart’s content!

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Here’s more about the pleasures of dry humping.