Tag: Anal Sex

Anal Sex Taboos Put Generation Of Women At Risk, Doctors Say

Straight women are leaning in to anal sex–or should we say bending over? The most recent statistics provided by the Centers for Disease Control and the National Center for Health Statistics showed that more than a third—35%—of women aged 15 to 49 have tried anal sex with a male partner. A similar survey of 880 “sexually active adults” showed that 70% of women have tried anal sex at least once.

In the spirit of a new age of sexual exploration and health awareness, doctors published an editorial urging more clinicians to talk to women about engaging in anal sex. “Clinicians may shy away from these discussions, influenced by society’s taboos,” wrote the doctors with the UK’s National Health System, adding “By avoiding these discussions, we may be failing a generation of young women, who are unaware of the risks.” Physicians and healthcare workers, especially those in primary care and family medicine, “have a duty to acknowledge changes in society around anal sex in young women, and to meet these changes with open neutral and non-judgemental conversations to ensure that all women have the information they need to make informed choices about sex,” they wrote.

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Check out more about doctors calling for more health care workers to talk to women about anal sex: https://nypost.com/2022/08/12/why-anal-sex-taboos-put-generation-of-women-at-risk-doctors/

Survey Reveals What’s At The Top Of Men And Women’s ‘Sex Bucket List’

Image Source: Flickr - 434picsA survey of 2,000 sexually active American adults found that 64 percent have a sex bucket list, consisting of different sex acts and kinks they’d like to try. At the top of Americans’ sexual bucket lists are having sex in a car (30 percent), sex in a body of water (27 percent) and using a sex toy (25 percent). Rounding out the top five items are trying anal sex (21 percent) and having a one-night stand (19 percent).

Men’s fantasies included having a one night stand and making a sex tape, while women’s top 10 included having a sexy photoshoot, roleplay and experimenting with restraints, blindfolds and/or handcuffs. In addition to their sexual bucket lists, 24 percent of respondents have experimented with a new kink this year and 32 percent have already tried a new sexual position. “Creating a sexual bucket list is a great way for couples to share and explore fantasies in the bedroom (or outside the bedroom!),” researchers said.

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Check out more about a survey revealing men and women’s sex bucket lists: https://nypost.com/2019/03/08/survey-reveals-whats-at-the-top-of-men-and-womens-sex-bucket-list/

A Handy Brief Guide For Having Casual Sex In India

IMG_7259A smart, sex-positive 24-year-old on Twitter started a thread to help Indian people learn the rules for having casual sex. She learned that many people in India–especially women–have no idea about many important rules for safe, casual sex. Her goal is to educate those who want to have some no strings attached fun, because as she says, “the rules for fucking people casually are very different from dating.” Here’s her handy guide for having casual sex in India, but is useful for anyone who wants to keep it casual (check out the complete thread below).

  1. Always use condoms
    Her message is simple: “It doesn’t matter if you know the person or not. If you’re fucking them make sure the guy is wearing a condom.”
  2. Use condoms for oral sex, too
    STD’s can be spread by giving head, so always make sure to stay protected when having oral sex as well as PIV sex.
  3. Have safe words when getting kinky
    If you’re looking to get into some kinkier stuff like BDSM, both parties should make sure they articulate what they want so everyone’s on the same page.
  4. If you’re heading for the backdoor, make sure you get cleaned up before having vaginal sex
    Gotta protect the pussy from infection, people!
  5. Talk it out!
    You want to make sure you’re comfortable, communicating, and that everything is fully consensual. This is the best way to have great, casual sex!

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Check out more about the rules for having casual sex in India (and the rest of the world) on Buzzfeed! 

Goop’s Guide To Anal Sex

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In the latest issue of Goop’s newsletter, The Sex Issue, Gwyneth Paltrow dishes on swinger’s parties, sex toys, BDSM, porn, and even anal sex. “If anal turns you on, you are definitely not alone,” Paltrow begins, citing a CDC report stating that 30 to 40 per cent of heterosexual men and women have tried it. Her article is meant to inform curious straight people about the joys and realities of butt-sex.

She says that while porn makes it look easy, you definitely need to be prepared before taking it in the butt. The sexpert she consults adds that lube is necessary, as are condoms to protect against STD’s. To make the experience enjoyable, it’s also important to warm up the area first with some ass-play and to find the right angle so that the dick doesn’t hit the rectal wall. The sexpert also warns against being inebriated or using numbing lube, so that you can be fully aware of every sensation and respond accordingly. The guide also includes a round-up of Goop’s favorite ass-play sex toys!

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Check out more about Goop’s guide to anal: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4343520/Gwyneth-Paltrow-s-Goop-publishes-anal-sex-guide.html

21-Year-Old With Giant Footlong Dick Answered Questions On Reddit

measurement-1476913_640A 21-year-old generously answered dozens of questions about his giant 12-inch cock on Reddit! He claims to be 8 inches soft and 12 inches hard and, if you don’t believe the hype, he shared proof of his massive endowment (check out images on the Gaily Grind linked below). Here’s his most interesting responses to all your burning questions.

When asked if he’s ever tried to suck his own dick, which he’s nicknamed “Thor,” he responded that he has, but surprisingly, it was “not as great as it seems!” He said that he does have to masturbate with two hands, but generally tries not to because “I have enough sex and save it for that!” Believe it or not, he says girls are willing to have anal sex with him, and, “yes they survived.” Interestingly, women stare at his dick “all day every day in public.” His response: “my eyes are up here.”

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Check out more about the man with a giant footlong dick and see his pics by visiting Gaily Grind

12 Things People Wish They Knew About Anal Sex

Image Source: Flickr.com | User: ipalatin
Image Source: Flickr.com | User: ipalatin

For many people who’ve experimented with anal sex, they wish they knew then what they know now. You know, like not to pull out those anal beads like you’re starting a lawnmower! Here are 12 things people wish they knew about anal sex before trying it for the first time.

  1. Don’t go from 0 to 100 
    “You need to work up to it. Do NOT go straight to the penis.” Foreplay is all, people!
  2. Slow and steady wins the race
    No need to rush! Ease it on in nice and slow.
  3. It might raise your sexpecations
    “I wish I had known that anal sex would increase my expectations for sexual pleasure. I had a partner who made it really enjoyable for both if us.”
  4. Don’t pull anything out too fast
    “Best advice related to toys: Don’t remove anal beads as if you’re starting a lawnmower.”
  5. You can never use too much lube
    Nuff said.
  6. Cleanliness is next to godliness
    Don’t forget those wipes!
  7. Just say no to the burrito
    Maybe stay away from burritos the day you’re having anal sex…
  8. Those tingly, warming lubes could burn your butt
    “I do NOT recommend tingly lube! That stuff feels like a fire demon.”
  9. Might be wise to switch out your white sheets beforehand
    Or use towels!
  10. Bottoms can still run the show
    “The receiver or bottom should know that they are always in control and most definitely have the ability to shut down like Fort Knox.”
  11. Don’t put whatever was in the ass back in the pussy
    You could get an infection!
  12. Pegging can be fun!
    “I wish I knew that giving (for me, pegging) is just as fun as receiving. People are too quick to judge something before trying it!”

Looking to have an enjoyable, fun experience? We can definitely raise all your sexpectations!

Check out more things people wish they knew about anal sex here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/carolinekee/never-eat-chipotle-the-day-before#.qvMbwedpjz

6 Anal Sex Tips For Beginners

Have you been wanting to try some back-door action but don’t know where to start? If so, you’re in luck—with these ass-play tips, you will never fear the rear again! Here’s a beginner’s guide to anal sex that will help ensure everything goes smoothly.

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  1. Try Anal Solo First
    Before exploring ass-play with somebody else, try it with yourself first. “Finger insertion is a great way to get your bottoms used to being penetrated,” says a sex expert. You can also use a butt-plug during masturbation to see what it feels like. “The more you gently play around the area, the more it will relax.” So exploration and foreplay is key here, people!
  2. Be aware of what you’re eating
    A lot of people are worried that they might have an, um, accident during anal sex. But if you pay attention to what you eat before having someone knock at your backdoor, you should be golden. “Tucking into gas-inducing foods like onions, chickpeas, broccoli, or cauliflower is not going to add to the experience,” says the sex expert.
  3. Make sure you’re clean down there
    If you know you’re going to have a dick in your butt, you need to make sure you’re clean down there. “There should only be poo in the anal canal when you actually need to go to the toilet,” so if you clean yourself with warm water or wet wipes after a bowel movement, you should be good to go.
  4. Lube, glorious lube
    This is the most important element of successful anal sex. The ass, unlike the pussy, doesn’t self-lubricate, so if you’re going to have a wet n’ wild experience, you gotta reach for the lube. “Apply [the lube] liberally before you have anal intercourse (to the anus and penis),” and remember to use water-based lube with condoms (oil-based will cause the latex in a condom to break).
  5. Don’t go in dick-first
    The ass is naturally tight, so you want to ease on in nice and slow. “The more time you take over foreplay, the easier it will be.” Start with your hands, making sure they’re clean and the nails trimmed. Using lube, you should “start by gently circling the opening with the pads of your fingers.” When the ass has been prepped for insertion, start with a finger, remembering to slowly and steadily insert just a little bit at a time. You should “wait for them to get used to the sensation and for the sphincter muscles to relax” before going in a bit more. This is also a good time to incorporate some rimming (with soft and wet gentle licks at first), as well as head, a hand-job, or clit-action.
  6. Dick, meet butt
    After some good foreplay, use the same technique as before for penetration. Slowly push in a bit at a time, pausing to allow the receiver to get used to it before pushing in further. Some good beginner positions to try: receiver on top so they have complete control, missionary, doggy style, and spooning. The sex expert adds, “positions where your knees are bent up to your chest generally feel more comfortable as this straightens out the anal canal.”

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Check out more tips about anal sex for beginners here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/no-more-rear-fear#.ihBPpLxzo2