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Keke Palmer Shared The Best Sex Advice She Ever Got From Whoopi Goldberg

Keke Palmer has Whoopi Goldberg to thank for revolutionizing her sex life. On a recent episode of her podcast, Keke recalled, “I’ll never forget, I was on The View one time, and they were having a conversation about sex, a really great conversation, and Whoopi Goldberg said, ‘Please just—start with pleasing yourself.’ And I was like, ‘That rings true.'” The star said that pleasing her partners had always been her main priority in the bedroom.

“My identity with sex—it was always based upon, ‘Oh, I just gotta do this service,'” she said. “And my enjoyment, any enjoyment that I had at that era, in that point, in that time, came from, ‘I’m glad they’re happy.'” Keke also revealed that porn-style sex just doesn’t do it for her: “There was one time in my life where I thought porn simulation sex—because that’s what it sounds like to me, porn: simulated-esque sex—was something that could be interesting or fun,” she said, adding, “But I never actually had a happy ending from it, if I’m being, you know, lightly frank.”

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Check out more about the life-changing sex advice Keke Palmer got from Whoopi Goldberg: https://www.buzzfeed.com/morgansloss1/keke-palmer-sex-advice-whoopi-goldberg

NiteFlirt’s Own “Shadow Priest” Offers Their Advice

Here at NiteFlirt, we’re fully aware of how powerful the voice can be. And one Flirt, Shadow Priest, spoke to Men’s Health with their experience to help others with their own dirty talk.

The very first tip offered? “Listening,” he said. “What do they think about when they fantasize? What words do they use? Paying attention to your partner is the most basic and most important skill.” After that, Shadow Priest opened up about everything: consent, fetishes, even how to get around any awkward moments in the conversation. It’s definitely worth reading, or having someone read it to you… let that voice guide you wherever you’re hoping to go!

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Ron Jeremy Gives Quarantine Sex Advice

Ron Jeremy is doing a public service for people bored sexually in quarantine. The 67-year-old porn star is doling out advice to spice up sex lives while in lockdown. He suggests using sex dolls, which feel “very lifelike”: he adds, “You add that to virtual reality, and then you’re actually having sex with what feels like a real woman.”

More importantly, Jeremy advises, people can “prepare” for “the real whopper” that will occur when they reunite in person and have sex. “Do a little dialogue … a little phone sex,” he suggests. “FaceTime where you can look at each other … while you’re actually having sex with yourself.” He suggests masturbating and using music as foreplay — specifically Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9, because “Even Beethoven had sex, too,” Jeremy says.

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Check out more of Ron Jeremy’s quarantine sex advice:
https://pagesix.com/2020/05/18/here-are-ron-jeremys-tips-for-your-sex-life-while-in-quarantine/

Dr. Ruth Has Some Good Cyber Sex Advice

Dr. Ruth has good sex advice for singles wanting company during the coronavirus lockdown. “Make sure you do something that is pleasurable and if you are alone, make sure that you decide when this is over you are going to find a partner,” the iconic sex therapist says. She suggests when it comes to using the internet to get off, it’s best to turn to “fantasy” privately instead of having online cyber sex with video. But, “if you do feel sexual, by all means bring yourself to sexual satisfaction,” Dr. Ruth wisely says.

She also says “bravo!” to the NY Department of Health who released guidelines last week, “for being so forthcoming and explicit that even I was surprised that they are talking not only about kissing but about some very explicit sexual provisions.” She says she was pleasantly surprised to read about “rimming” in the guidelines: “It shows us that things have progressed, that we are willing to speak about these things.” The NY DOH also suggested limiting the number of sexual partners and washing hands and sex toys for at least 20 seconds after sex.

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Check out more about Dr. Ruth’s advice for having safe cyber sex: https://pagesix.com/2020/03/26/dr-ruth-warns-quarantined-singles-should-be-careful-with-cyber-sex/?_ga=2.41554338.1439512273.1585968977-654912625.1556249361

Sex Therapist Dr. Ruth Tells Millennials To Get It On

Infamous sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer has some sage advice for young people: make time for sex. Westheimer, who is well-known for her frank discussions of sex, is the subject of a new documentary charting her life journey. When discussing how things have changed since her inaugural radio show “Sexually Speaking” aired in 1981, she says that the number of questions about women’s sexual satisfaction have decreased.

“Women have learned they are responsible for their own orgasms,” she said. “Millennials say they don’t have time for sex,” Westheimer added, before advising them to simply “make time” for it. She explained that in the “olden days” immigrants in the garment industry worked much harder and “still had sex.” She also warned that smart phones are a passion killer: “You can’t have a couple not talking to each other for 24 hours then expect to have good sex. It doesn’t work. Part of a good relationship is a good conversation.”

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Check out more about Dr. Ruth still talking about sex in her new documentary: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6998701/Millennials-need-make-time-sex-says-Dr-Ruth.html

Sex Makeup Tutorials Are The Latest Beauty Vlogging Trend

If you’ve ever wondered which beauty products are the best for a vigorous fuck-fest, some YouTube vloggers have the answers. The latest viral beauty trend is “penis appointment” makeup tutorials: quick, breezy looks for your everyday 2 a.m. hookup. As Mashable reports, sassy product gurus are sharing their tips and tricks for staying perfectly pretty mid-tumble.

Vlogger Lezzy’s “D-c k appointment — Valentine’s Day pt 1” — has over 55,000 views. She says, “There’s no eyeliner for this look, just because you want him to make you cry,” she says. She also has some sage advice about wearing lipstick: “If you’re the side chick, you definitely have to wear a liquid lipstick that will not come off,” she says. “Because if you get that guy in trouble, no more for you!”

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Check out more about sex makeup tutorials: https://mashable.com/article/dick-appointment-makeup-tutorial-consent-youtube/#g7UX6hl4iPqR

Sex Advice App Shows Women Had Great Sex in 2016

Eve, a popular sex advice app for women, proves that women all over the country had great sex this year. 500,000 women tracked their sex lives, and according to the data, many women said they were very satisfied with sex in 2016. Eighty-nine percent of those who used the app to log sexual activity reported that the sex was either ‘mind blowing’ or ‘pretty good.’ Here’s other interesting findings.

Eve users living in St. Louis had more sex than women in any other city in the US. The next 10 cities where women had the most sex over the last year include Las Vegas; Detroit; Portland, Oregon; Salt Lake City; New York City; Dallas; Orlando, Florida; Wilmington, Delaware; Fort Lauderdale, Florida; and Boston. Eve also found that Aquarius women had the most sex, and that 62% talked to their partners about their sexual histories. Thanks, Eve, for letting women share all the mind blowing sex they had this year!

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Check out more about the sex advice app that peaked into women’s bedrooms in 2016 here: https://www.iflscience.com/technology/a-peek-into-womens-bedrooms-in-2016-according-to-a-popular-sexadvice-app/

Women Try Cosmo Flirting Tips On Real Guys

If you’ve ever read Cosmopolitan, you’ve probably seen their notoriously ridiculous tips on how to bag a dude. From their next-to-impossible acrobatic sexual positions to their over the top tips on flirting, Cosmo is a wild card of feisty sex advice. So what would happen if women actually tried their flirting tips on real guys? Buzzfeed decided to find out.

Tip: Pull your hair loose from a pony holder (or a clip) so he can watch your touchable tresses fall around your face
Result: “Nothing about it was subtle, but it was effective,” said one pleasantly shocked woman. “I won at flirting!”
Tip: “While conversing with a cutie, lean in so you’re about six inches from his face, linger for three counts, then slowly return.”
Result: “It’s like a weird kiss blue balls.”
Tip: “Rub your shoulder like you have a painful crick then gently sigh. Not only will he find this extremely sexy, but you might even score a massage.”
Result: “Do you want some Icy Hot or something? I’m sure there’s a drugstore down the street…”
Tip: “Use your tongue to get that last crumb off your lip while eating dinner with him.”
Result: “As soon as that crumb’s on my lip, game over. It looks like I don’t know how to eat like an adult.”
Tip: “Grab his ass on your way into a restaurant.”
Result: “Now that’s sexual assault.”

Final thoughts: “I don’t think there needs to be many tips,” says a guy the tips were tried on. “We’re kind of easy.”

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Check out the video of women trying Cosmo flirting tips on real guys here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Um23f8GcYSo

The Goopiest Sex Advice From Goop’s First Sex Issue

What exactly is Goop sex? None other than Gwyneth Paltrow’s lifestyle advice column for rich health-freaks—but for sex. And as you can probably guess, the sex advice is about as ridiculous and impractical as you’d expect. Here are some of the Goopiest highlights from Goop’s first-ever sex issue.

Become an erotic theater member—for $50,000
In Los Angeles, you can join an exclusive erotic theater called Snctm for a cool $10,000-$50,000! The theater requires male guests to be a member, be a part of a couple, or reserve dinner. Women can buy tickets and are the only people allowed to touch or initiate contact with another guest.
Only use edible lube
According to Goop, most lube has parabens, which are “endocrine disruptors.” Therefore, it is only 100% safe to use edible lube. Yeah…
Apply Vitamin E oil or olive oil to your labia to “help moisturize and strengthen the vaginal tissue.”
Uh huh…. Maybe don’t do that unless you want to sting or infect your pussy?
Condoms have dairy in them
Vegans, take note!
“Ideally, you want to find a vegan, paraben-free, glycerin-free, Nonoxynal-9-free, and benzocaine- and lidocaine-free condom.”
Ok, can I get that at the drug store?
Goop’s favorite sex toys include a $395 vibrating necklace, a $535 Agent Provocateur cat whip, and a $15,000 gold dildo.
First class all the way with Goop sex toys! Now where’s that diamond studded cock ring?
“Kegels are important at all stages of life.”
Now that’s good advice, Goop!

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Check out more about Goop’s first-ever sex issue here: https://jezebel.com/the-goopiest-advice-from-goops-first-ever-sex-issue-1775614748

5 Guys Share the Worst Sex Advice They’ll Never Take Again

We’ve all heard guys dish out sex advice they swear is the key to getting ladies off. But what most of us don’t consider before heeding such seemingly helpful advice is the fact that what gives mind-blowing pleasure to one woman will often not be satisfying to another woman. Here are 5 confessions from guys who got some bad sex advice they’ll definitely never take again.

“If my dick was numb I’d last longer.”
This guy was told that if he numbed his dick, he’d be able to keep it up without any problems. It actually worked (he used a salve used to numb mouth pain), but his numb boner accidentally also numbed his girlfriend’s pussy, so they couldn’t even feel anything!
“Eye contact will make it more intense.”
He was told by an “emotional kind of guy” that maintaining eye contact during sex is sure to enhance the experience. But when he stared intently into a woman’s eyes as he fucked her, things got kinda awkward, and the lady he was with was mostly concentrating on avoiding his intense gaze.
“Use a doughnut during sex.”
This guy’s friend had successfully incorporated a donut into oral sex: “He put his penis through the hole and she gave him oral while eating it. Apparently, it went well for them. But when I tried it with my wife, powdered sugar got everywhere and things got sticky. I didn’t like having to wash my junk off before we had sex.”
“Stick a finger in her ass.”
A college friend promised that surprising a girl with a finger in the butt during doggy style will definitely make her pant, but when he tried it with a woman, she “shot across the bed and turned around, horrified.” The lesson here, guys: ask before you enter!
“Ask her dirty questions.”
When this guy’s friends told him that women love to be asked dirty questions during sex—things like ‘Yeah, you like that, don’t you?’—he thought he’d take a stab at it himself. But when he asked his girl if she liked his dick mid-thrust, she only responded with confusion.

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Here’s more guys sharing the worst sex advice they’ve ever gotten: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/sex-advice-fails?slide=6