Gay Men Ask Lesbians Questions About Sex

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In a new Buzzfeed video, gay men are all about getting their strap-ons and clitoris questions answered by real lesbians. And as you can probably imagine, things got really real when the answers got personal. Here are some highlights (watch the video below).

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The first question got right down to the brass tacks: “How do you even have sex?!” One lesbian laid it out like this: “Fingers are all you need, like, workin’ that clit.” How informative! Another woman explained how the G-spot works, using “a finger or two or five,” curved upward, to demonstrate where it is located. Next, on to the very important topic of scissoring. “Scissoring is not real,” said one lesbian. To prove this point, she tried to show her skeptical gay pupil why it doesn’t work by attempting to scissor him! The ladies also brought strap-ons to show the gay guys, and even strapped them on a few to really bring the lesson home. “Why do lesbians like strap-ons?” a woman asked. “Because strap-ons are fucking cool!” Well said!

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Get to Know SeductiveRed

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SeductiveRed02With SeductiveRed (@MamaRedHot)
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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
I had a 25 year long career in the Hospitality Industry. I was in upper level management working close to 70 hours a week leaving little time for myself. I decided to take a break from it to explore my sexuality and the sexuality of others. I’d always had fantasies about lying in my bed talking on the phone with my lover exchanging the most erotic of conversations. I loved the freedom and inhibition we both felt to explore our deepest and darkest fantasies. That’s when I decided to make that fantasy a reality and I’ve never felt more fulfilled and satisfied.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt?
I enjoy being near or in the water more than anything else in life. Living in Florida I spend my spare time at the beaches, rivers, and lakes that surround me. Lying on the beach listening to the waves roll in is my zen. Snorkeling and exploring the beautiful spring fed rivers rejuvenates me. I am also an accomplished chef and enjoy cooking and dining out. Food is fuel but it is also comforting, nourishing, and even erotic at times. I think dining should be an experience of all ones’ senses. I also enjoy a good story and story tellers. I spend my luxury time devouring books of all styles and themes from history to erotica and everything in between.

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
The Mind Fuck! Our mind is our most erogenous organ. When there is that spark of electricity in your brain when you make that connection with someone. When it travels through your body electrifying your endorphins. When there is that building of sexual tension between two minds. Uggh….I’m getting tingles just thinking about it!

Is there anything you do to get yourself in the mood for an erotic fantasy phone sex session?
Getting into a proper headspace is essential for enjoying what I do. I start my day out by showering and grooming. You may not always see me, but I enjoy the process of making myself look pretty not just for my clients but for myself. I put on some slow and sensual music while I dress, put on my make up, and prepare. Just before I log in I enjoy a little visual stimulation as well. My favorite is tumblr. The blogs I follow there give me life and electrify my senses and get my creative juices flowing. Phone sex is “theatre of the mind” therefore having a creative mind and being an excellent story teller is essential. I enjoy porn as well but it leaves little to the imagination sometimes. All I need is an image to get me going…and let my own imagination create something better and more powerful than porn.

What erotic fantasy would you like enacted on YOU?
The fantasy I enjoy most is similiar to what I enjoy doing to others. Being restrained. I love to take a lover and put him/her in a very vulnerable position…naked…exposed…and restrained. There’s an extreme level of heightened anxiety when one agrees to be made helpless in the trust of another. Fighting that initial anxiety brings about a sexual tension and struggle that only one’s mind can overcome and is a beautiful thing. Taking their vulnerability a step further by blindfolding them once again raises that anxiety by removing the sense of sight and amplifying every other sensation. I love to watch how their body responds. From the beads of sweat on their lip, the tiny hairs on their skin at full attention, the pace of their breath,the contraction of muscles from the slightest touch of my fingertip on their sensitive skin, to the spine tingling sensation engulfing them from my whispered words in their ear. Delicious!

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New Art Condoms Make Your Dick the Canvas

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565cb84021000065005abdc4Have you ever thought that a piece of art was so amazing, so utterly captivating that you wanted to live inside it? Or, if it was something really special, perhaps a touch erotic, maybe you wanted it to live inside you. Well, thanks to some colorful new condoms, you can now literally have art inside you.

A French start-up called Made in Love has created the world’s first art condom. Now you can have two amazing views while getting your freak on: the hot body of the person in front of you and your colorful dick! Yes, you can transform your sex life into an inspiring work of art. So far, some hip French artists have created exciting love gloves in abstract, brightly psychedelic designs. The condoms are still in the crowd-sourcing stages for now, but they’re promising to bring new meaning to the phrase “art lover.”

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How 3 of Hollywood’s Most Realistic Sex Scenes Were Created

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Have you ever wondered how Hollywood’s most famous sex scenes were created to seem so realistic? In films like Lars Von Trier’s Nymphomaniac Vol. I and II, the actors appear to be actually fucking—as in, we see shots of up-close, seemingly unsimulated penetrative sex. So how did the director achieve this level of realism without asking his actors to have actual sex? And how do other films pull off realistic looking sex scenes? To find out, let’s go behind the scenes of 3 famous ones.

  1. Nymphomaniac Vol. IHow did Lars Von Trier create such realistic sex scenes as the one that shows Shia LaBeouf’s cock repeatedly penetrating an actress? His method is three-tiered. His team first shot the actors simulating sex, then shot porn-stars actually having sex, and later digitally-imposed the two images together. “So above the waist it will be the star and below the waist it will be the doubles,” explains the film’s producer. They also used a prosthetic cock for a very realistic looking blowjob scene.
  2. Blue is the Warmest ColorIf you’ve seen this film, you must have wondered how they pulled off the epic seven-minute sex scene that includes scissoring, slapping, writhing, and manual and oral stimulation. During the intense 10 day sex scene shoot, the actors were asked to get naked and wear prosthetic vaginas. “We had fake pussies that were molds of our real pussies,” said one of the actors. “It was weird to have a fake mold of your pussy and then put it over your real one.” But it sure looked good!
  3. Monster’s BallArguably one of the best sex scenes in film history has a butt-naked Halle Berry famously shouting “Make me feel good!” So how’d they pull off the realistic looking sex? The answer’s simple: excellent acting. “I would only do it if Billy Bob agreed to be as naked as I was,” said Berry. Billy Bob Thornton later claimed that the notorious sex scene was the reason his relationship ended with then girlfriend Angelina Jolie.

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Check out more about how Hollywood’s most famous sex scenes were created here: https://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/03/24/how-hollywood-s-most-realistic-sex-scenes-were-made-don-t-look-now-to-.html

Miss Universe Dumps Tim Tebow Because He Won’t Fuck

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CulpoTebowOlivia Culpo, former winner of Miss USA and Miss Universe pageants, reportedly dumped Tim Tebow because he refused to fuck her. Tebow is committed to a chastity pledge that requires him to abstain from any sort of hanky-panky until marriage. Sources say that Tebow was completely smitten with Culpo, and would send her “love letters and cute notes professing his love for her.” But unfortunately, a cute note does not an orgasm make, and eventually, Culpo got tired of all the cold showers and long runs.

Once Culpo realized Tebow was not going to budge from his strict no fucking pledge, she had to bail because, as an anonymous source explained in The New York Daily Mail, “she just couldn’t handle it.” Culpo probably thought she could change Tebow’s mind because she was successful in taking the V-card of another well-known purity pledger: Nick Jonas. Her ex wore a purity ring when they first started dating, but after a year, the ring was off and his virginity was a thing of the past. He was even upfront about boning Culpo: when Wendy Williams asked him about it, he responded, “As I said, I’m an adult in all ways.”

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Gay Actor Promises ‘The Most Intense Sex Scene’ in ‘Looking’ Finale

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For a show that’s about gay men and sex, there’s no better way to go out than with a literal bang. Jonathan Groff, star of HBO’s acclaimed show “Looking,” just revealed that the finale of the show’s wrap-up movie is going to feature a very steamy sex scene. “There’s a lot of sex,” Groff said in an interview. “I don’t want to say who it was with, but I just shot the most intense sex scene I’ve ever done.”

Groff also talked about how the show is groundbreaking for the way it opened people’s minds, especially when it came to gay sex. He was shocked at how a lot of the liberals he knew, including artists in LA and NYC, didn’t know that gay men could have sex while facing each other. “The show illuminated intimacy in sex [between men] without being porny or salacious. Those scenes felt very real and true to life. I was excited to do them,” he said. Despite rave reviews by critics, the show was canceled after only two seasons. But thankfully, you can see the wrap-up movie—with its hot sex scene—early next year.

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Here’s more about the hot gay sex scene in the “Looking” finale here.

Hilarious Tweets That Prove Grindr Was At Its Worst in 2015

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Grindr is supposed to be a magical erotic wonderland where gay men can cruise hot guys looking for action in the flick of a finger. But sometimes, as these hilarious tweets show, it’s an awkward place where just trying to get a nut proves more unpleasant than it’s worth. Check out some favorites.

  1. When a guy is looking for compassion for a dead pet instead of getting laid“I’m having a funeral for my fish.”“I have a really huge dick bron [sic] I love showing it off.”

    Tweet: “Grindr in a nutshell.”

  2. When gay sex just gets too complicatedTweet: “Someone on Grindr is listed as ‘Mega Bottom’ – I wonder if that comes before or after Power Bottom in the evolutionary series.”
  3. When even sacred, religious festivals are used as pick-up linesTweet: “Someone on Grindr asked me if I wanted to put the D in their Diwali.”
  4. When straight guys feel like sexually exploring“Can I jerk u off into orgasm? Can u jerk off and orgasm on my face? I’m straight but kinda wanna try it. Can I taste your nut?”Tweet: “I hate Grindr.”
  5. When it gets a little too close (and stalker-y) to homeTweet: “Grindr is all fun and games until someone with no picture messages u saying ‘I’ve seen you on [street name] so many times.'”
  6. When work gets awkwardTweet: “That awkward moment you see your manager on Grindr & his profile says ‘kinky only.'”
  7. And things get “hot for teacher”…in a bad wayTweet: “My teacher just messaged me on Grindr. I’m crying.”
  8. When dude’s get right to the point“Door open, dark, I’m face down, ass lubed, just come in, fuck me, unload.”“Is that the standard greeting now?”

    Tweet: “I must’ve missed the memo…”

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7 Women Confess Their True Feelings About Their Pussies

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Some women recently took to Whisper to confess their deepest feelings about their pussies. Though you’d think having a pussy would be amazing, these women’s confessions show there’s a range of emotions when it comes to vajayjay’s. Here’s what they said.

  1. “Confession: I like to just sit and look at my vagina. I have major vagina confidence.”
    Well, vagina’s are pretty magical!
  2. “My husband wants to give me oral sex so bad but I won’t let him because I’m afraid of my vagina.”
    You have nothing to fear but fear itself! By all means, let your husband do his thang!
  3. “I told a guy my vagina had teeth so he wouldn’t date me. No regrets.”
    Yes, and if he actually believed you, then indeed, no regrets.
  4. “I rug burned my vagina and I have no idea how to explain this to a doctor.”
    Wow. It’s probably a pretty great story though!
  5. “My boyfriend just told me that my vagina smells like fried chicken. I’m taking that as a compliment.”
    Mmm, Finger lickin’ good!
  6. “My vagina is constantly wet…Is it possible to be TOO wet?”
    This is a good problem to have. And no it isn’t.
  7. “I’m scared to lose my virginity because my vagina doesn’t look like the girls I have seen in pornos…”
    Pussies come in all shapes, colors, and sizes. That’s what makes them beautiful!

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Here’s How Much Sex Happy Couples Have

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just4pleasureEven though as a society we think that sex is the secret sauce to a lasting relationship, more sex isn’t always better for couples in a long term relationship. So what is the magical number that a couple should have sex to keep their relationship happy and healthy? A new study has the answer, and the number is probably less than you might think. As it turns out, sex once a week is the sweet spot for established couples.

The study looked at data from 25,510 Americans aged 18 to 89 and found that while having sex definitely means more satisfaction and well-being in a relationship, happiness maxes out at sex about once a week. “This showed a linear association between sex and happiness up to a frequency of once a week, but at higher frequencies there is no longer an association,” said a psychologist on the study. “Therefore it is not necessary, on average, for couples to aim to engage in sex as frequently as possible.” In another interesting finding, the study found that having sex once a week makes couples happier than if they had more money! The takeaway message is that having sex regularly is important for maintaining happiness in a relationship, but that it’s also okay for couples to have realistic expectations for their sex life.

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Here’s more about how often happy couples have sex here.

10 Confessions From People Who’ve Heard Some Strange Things After Sex

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Image Source: Flickr | 93963757@N05 (Richard Foster)Let’s face it, we’ve all had a one-nighter that turned out a little, um, weird. While casual sex is great for no-strings-attached fun, the aftermath is not always so hot—especially if you find out that the person you just fucked is not quite what they seemed in that dark bar after you’d had a few drinks. Here are 10 confessions from people who’ve heard some very strange things after sex.

  1. “She reintroduced herself using her real name…lol.”
    Oh, hello. Nice to meet you, stranger I just had sex with!
  2. “Hey, can you give me a ride to my boyfriend’s house?”
    Um, I wish that you’d given me this information before deciding to ride me.
  3. “He told me after we did it that his dead rabbit was under his bed! WTF?!”
    Things just got Fatal Attraction creepy!
  4. “I always had a thing for your mother so now I know what it’s like to have sex with her.”
    The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, or something?!
  5. “Someone needs to do cardio.”
    Thanks for the inspiration?
  6. “You have the hottest vagina I’ve been in, literally, the temperature is unreal.”
    This line’s like a badly written sex scene.
  7. “I wish the condom would’ve broke so I could keep you in my life.”
    One word: RUN!
  8. “He jumped up, did “touchdown” arms and yelled, “that was the best sex I’ve ever had!”
    Score!
  9. “‘My God, that was so consensual!’ I think she meant ‘sensual,’ but it was a good laugh either way.” 
    Consensual sex is always sexy!
  10. “‘Now you are part of me forever.’ Which would be romantic, but…we had just met.”
    Again, things are getting a little too much like Fatal Attraction up in here…

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