Essential BDSM Toys For Beginners

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_heartbleedBDSM toys and equipment aren’t just for kinksters. Gear that’s used to restrain, bind, or sexually tease can be enjoyed by everyone. And if you’re new to the exciting world of BDSM, here’s the 4 must-have equipment and sex toys for your kinky treasure chest.

  1. Blindfold
    The blindfold is perhaps the most popular kinky item, and for good reason. The sensory deprivation it provides heightens erotic sensations. Blindfolds are also exciting because they add to the kinky power play between subs and doms—you literally don’t know what’s coming.
  2. Hitachi’s Magic Wand
    Not only is the Magic Wand one of the best vibrators around, it’s also great in bondage dom/sub play sessions. Wands can be tied and bound to a sub’s genitals, or used for edging and orgasm control, to name a few options.
  3. Bondage Tape
    Kink fans love bondage tape, and it’s especially good for beginners. It’s used to wrap together different parts of the body, but unlike duct tape, bondage tape only sticks to itself. It’s hard to break without scissors and it’s safe to use on the skin.
  4. Dildos
    A dildo is one of the most versatile sex toys, so it’s perfect for kinky play. Whether you use it for pegging or with a harness, the kinky options are literally endless!

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Check out more of the must-have BDSM toys for beginners: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/bdsm-toys/

Designer Reimagines Disney Princesses—In BDSM Gear

body-1095226_640In Philipp Plein’s latest collection, his muses are Disney princesses—gone wild. The collection plays with the idea of a princess who experiments with BDSM, and we’ll just say that the clothes are what you might expect to find in Christian Grey’s playhouse. These good girls turned very, very bad will definitely make you have dirty thoughts the next time you see a Disney princess (check out images below)!

Not surprisingly, leather chokers, harnesses, and body tattoos featured prominently in the show. And many of the models display a flower mouthpiece that resembles a ball-gag. If Rapunzel decided to become a dominatrix, the bull-whip inspired braid would be perfect (originally, the models were supposed to tie the braids around their wrists as pseudo cuffs). These sexy Disney princess-dominatrixes have gone to the dark side—and it’s super hot!

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Check out more about Disney princesses in BDSM gear: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/09/171718/philipp-plein-sex-hair-makeup-looks-fashion-week#slide-9

How To Enjoy Homemade Sex Toys

http---distractify-media-prod.cdn.bingo-2001097-980xIf you’re looking for something new to spice up your sex life, some of the most exciting toys can be found—and made—right at home. From electric toothbrushes to fresh produce, there’s plenty of things you can use at home for a new plaything. Here’s a handy guide to homemade sex toys.

  1. Electric toothbrushes and face brushes
    When you want to get your buzz on, there’s plenty of household gadgets that double as vibrators. Anything electric can deliver pleasurable sensations to all your sensitive parts!
  2. Cell phones
    Again, try your cell’s vibrating option—it’s perfect for solo or couple’s play.
  3. Produce and condoms
    There’s so many vegetables that make for excellent dildos—girthy eggplants, cucumbers, zucchinis. Just wrap them up in a condom and you’re good to go. Also, banana peels make a good masturbation sleeve. And if you don’t mind a sticky dick, you can cut a hole in a melon and fuck it.
  4. Ice dildo
    Take a condom, add water, and a cardboard tube, and make yourself an ice dildo! The texture and sensation are amazing.

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Check out more about homemade sex toys: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/homemade-sex-toys/

7 Kinky Sexual Fantasies

5624757405_1eebcbdd8c_zEveryone has a naughty sexual fantasy that gets them excited. And when it comes to exploring kink, using your imagination is always a good place to start. Here are 7 kinky sexual fantasies from real people who are turned on by BDSM.

  1. Submission
    “I just want to have some really wild, animalistic sex. Like shove me down and fuck me brutally. Call me a dirty bitch. Make me submit. Command me.” They like it rough!
  2. Sexually teased and orgasm control
    “A full BDSM scene: tied, restrained, in nipple clamps or sticks; being flogged, cropped, sexually teased and orgasm controlled.” Naughty naughty!
  3. Completely dominated
    “My fantasies always include choking/hard spankings/control/biting. I like it when I have no power.” We can see the appeal!
  4. Public sex
    “I want to have sex in a two-way mirror box in a busy public place, so that me and my partner can see outwards, but everybody else just sees a mirrored box.” Risque!
  5. Being forced into a locked room
    “I’ve always fantasized about a manager or security guard forcing me into the janitor closet and having their way with me. It really gets me going.” Sexy.
  6. Being submissive with a butt plug
    “I’m a very loud, dominant woman, and I like switching it in the bedroom.” If you can dream it, you can do it.
  7. Being submissive with a vibrator
    “I want to be on all fours while my mate ‘inspects’ me. Spreading, poking, investigating every crevasse of my body. Inserting things, vibrating when I’m not expecting it.” Kinky!

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Check out more kinky sexual fantasies: https://www.refinery29.com/sexual-fantasies#slide-42

This Is The Best Time Of Day To Have Sex

Image Credit: NASA
Image Credit: NASA

What if we told you there’s an optimum time of the day to have sex? Better start setting your clock, because according to a recent study, the best time to have sex is around 45 minutes after you wake up. The survey used data from 1,000 participants and found that 7:30am is the sweet spot for getting it on.

Researchers note that “energy levels are at their highest after a good night’s rest which means both sexes have more stamina.” Interestingly, sex is like exercise in that “the rush of endorphins sparked by sex lowers blood pressure and stress levels and makes us feel more upbeat for the rest of the day.” The survey adds that since male testosterone levels peak in the morning, guys last longer in bed—so be sure to start penciling in some good morning sex!

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Check out more about the best time of day to have sex: https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2017/08/10/best-time-of-day-sex_a_23073490/

Here’s How People Orgasm Around The World

cup-1010916_1920Ever wonder how people orgasm in different parts of the world? Thanks to a new survey from adult toy retailer Lelo you can find out what countries have the best, loudest, and most frequent orgasms. Here are the juicy results from 2,200 people polled across 21 countries.

  1. Norwegians have the most orgasms
    35% of Norwegian respondents claim they orgasm at least once a day—the global average is only two to three times a week.
  2. Brazilians are screamers
    Brazilians are easily the loudest in bed, with 65% of respondents saying they scream during sex.
  3. Italians, Spaniards, and Chileans cum the hardest
    Not surprisingly, these three “Romance” countries report the most intense orgasms.
  4. Brits cum a lot
    The stereotype that Brits are boring in bed has been laid to rest (pun intended): 11% of UK respondents claim they orgasm at least once a day, and 53% said their orgasms were sometimes loud, the highest in that category.
  5. Australians are some of the quietest cummers
    Over a third of respondents say they’re usually quiet in bed. What happened to the Thunder Down Under?
  6. Canadians need to start having better orgasms
    Sadly, 15% of Canadians have never even experienced an orgasm, and another 15% rate their orgasm intensity just a 1 out of 10. As BuzzFeed says, “Stop being so polite, Canada!”

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Check out more about how different countries orgasm: https://www.buzzfeed.com/tomvellner/heres-how-people-orgasm-around-the-world

Mother-Of-Two Tries To Transform Into Real Life Sex Doll

Image Source: The Daily Mail

Cindy Moore has spent tens of thousands of dollars on a makeover to transform herself into a real life “sex doll.” The mother-of-two has had a boob job, lip fillers three times a month, and much more to realize her dream. “I’ve always liked the bimbo blow-up doll look, ever since I was younger so I just started taking it to the next level,” she said.

Moore was on a television show that takes women and men with extreme looks and encourages them to go natural—which only made her inspired to go even more extreme. With her double F boobs and platinum blonde hair extensions, she now has hoards of followers online, who she sells raunchy photos to each month. This real life sex doll wants to go even further with her looks, continuing to give Real Dolls a run for their money!

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Check out more about the woman who wants to transform into a sex doll: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4806656/Mother-two-wants-transform-real-life-SEX-DOLL.html

Women Reveal What Makes A Great Sex Partner

Image Source: Flickr - 434picsWhat do women want when it comes to sex? Glamour Magazine has an answer, thanks to their Summer Of Sex series that asks real women what they like in bed. Here’s what they said when it comes to the things the best sex partners have in common.

First things first, women like good head: “They’re good with their mouths.” Besides oral sex and attentiveness (I.e, “they put me first”), they also said they like clear communicators who aren’t shy about asking for what they want and listening to what their sexual partner wants, “even if it’s kinky.” Not surprisingly, they also wanted someone with “a nice size”—but in general, “just a penis” seemed to fit the bill.

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Check out more about what women want when it comes to a great lover: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/are-you-good-in-bed_us_59a49a04e4b050afa90c3dd4

Man Wanted To Make a Baby During the Eclipse

One man had very specific plans for how he’d like to experience the total solar eclipse in Oregon: make a baby. He posted an ad on Craigslist to find a game partner willing to go on a “cosmic orgasmic” adventure with him. “If we have chemistry, I would like for us to make love while the eclipse is happening,” he writes.

Image Credit: NASA
Image Credit: NASA

But the real magic happens when totality occurs: “we will have simultaneous orgasms and we will conceive a child that will be on the next level of human evolution.” In order for this to happen, the man’s cock will need to be directed towards the sun, because “both of our cosmic orgasmic energy will be aligned with the planets.” So, ladies, if you’re down for some metaphysical fucking, you can experience a “brief moment of ecstasy”—but only if you like cats.

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Check out the man’s craigslist ad to make a baby during the eclipse here: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/08/167779/craigslist-ad-totality-eclipse-pregnancy

New Video Game Lets You Cruise For Gay Sex In Public Bathrooms

bieberA new video game allows users to pick up guys at urinals to get it on. According to the game’s designer, players cruising for simulated sex in public restrooms is both an erotic and a political act. He says he ultimately decided to make the game not only for the naughty sex but also because he’s “interested in the politics of sex ― who is allowed to have it, where, when, how, why.”

In the past, the platform which hosts his projects banned his work from the site for featuring male genitalia. As a result, the artist has replaced the dicks of the men in the game with giant guns—mainly as a way to give the middle finger to the site’s censorship rules. He wants those who play his game to enjoy the voyeurism of cruising for sex in public and to remember how central sex has always been to the idea of gay liberation.

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Check out more about the game where you can cruise for simulated sex in public bathrooms: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/video-game-the-tearoom_us_59663b3ce4b09b587d63fa44