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Get to Know… “MistressKate”

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
I began several years ago with I-Friends, and discovered NiteFlirt. I am not really a Cam gal, so NiteFlirt works much better. I may be 54, but my voice is still young and smooth. Men love it. It has just a hint of the southern honey.

What is your favorite part of being a flirt on NiteFlirt?
Just as the men have their fantasy, I can meet men and have my fun with “acting”, although I never stray far from the truth. The best thing is they want you to be who you are. They enjoy reading my blog also, mundane as it is, gardening, submissive training (not the sexy stuff, mostly the real training things), and adventures with my roommates.

I put up a lot of pictures and they like that also. It makes me more real to them without giving away personal information

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and cam sex calls on NiteFlirt?
For fun I love to prowl around Little 5 Points, here in Atlanta and the Gypsy market. I also go to Various high school and college sports, mostly baseball and football. I love to cook and do needlework. I am also an accomplished musician and old movie buff.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
It would definitely be a wonderful homemade casserole of Macaroni and Cheese. Comfort food all the way.

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
With the right partner, it can be the most awesome thing that there is. I also say that the biggest sex organ is the brain. Stimulate it and the rest follows. I love lots of oral fun and foreplay.

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Get to Know… “Mistress Mayhem”

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
I began in adult entertainment behind the camera well over 10 years ago. From shooting porn to attending kinky events as a photographer and working with Mistresses as a photographer and web designer I learned about NiteFlirt. During a lull in my web design work I found myself with a listing I had created for me as a way to test art for the Mistresses I was working for on NF as a designer, with some prodding from two of them I turned my phone on for the first time two years ago.

What is your favorite part of being a flirt on NiteFlirt?
My favorite aspect is by far the variety of calls and callers I get. I love playing and story telling and I love helping people. I have the freedom to do what I love best, which is help people. Silly though it may sound, often I listen to the things my callers can’t tell anyone else. I am simply myself, no pretense and no script just kinky quirky me.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and cam sex calls on NiteFlirt?
For fun I am a fetish and BDSM event photographer, I make amateur porn, play with my two lovely submissives whenever I can. I smoke cigars on occasion, tie up people whenever possible, I’m learning to crack a bull whip, and I’m starting to teach classes on the things that I am passionate about, cuckolding, orgasm control, and denial.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
If I were a food I would be dark chocolate, it’s not for everyone but those who love it can’t live without it.

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
My favorite thing about sex is the fierce vulnerability that I feel right before an orgasm, that heart breaking moment when I am right on the edge and I don’t have control of anything. It’s the only time I don’t have to and don’t need to be in control. And when that orgasm can hover there painfully on the edge it is exquisite and delicious torture, when I can share that feeling with someone and help them achieve that too I feel as if I have accomplished something amazing. …….

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NEWS: Could Sex With A Friend Be Therapeutic?

If there were ever a time I’d be a skeptic it would be now! According to divorce life coach Cindy Holbrook the best person to fuck post divorce is a friend. WOW, I would almost think that would be the worst candidate, but Holbrook is the expert. He proclaims on Huffington Post Live: “I always recommend…to try to find a good friend that you can have a casual love affair with that you know is not going to go any place else.” Oh bologna, do casual love affairs really exist?

Post breakup is a vulnerable time for anyone, so the emotional aftermath of a divorce has to be catastrophic. I can understand where Holbrook thinks boning a friend is a genius idea, you feel safe with this person, trust is established, there might already be a underlying physical attraction so why not go for it!? Holbrook goes on to say that many things could ruin a friendship, sex definitely could be one of them but no one can predict the future so why not test out the waters, the possibility of something fabulous could come from the therapeutic hump. The lady does have a point!

Get to Know… “Kittys Korner Kouch”

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
Answered the  phone one day, and it was a wrong number!

What is your favorite part of being a flirt on NiteFlirt?
The large variety of guys I get to speak with.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and cam sex calls on NiteFlirt?
Fun? Adult fun or just entertainment?!  I like to go club hopping with my girlfriends, we hit the strip clubs at least once a week.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
Chocolate cake! Rich and sweet and you can only handle me in little bits!

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
Foreplay! I love playing with the guys I date, and them playing with me!

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NEWS: Countries by C*ck Size!

If you’ve ever wondered where to find the biggest and/or the smallest penises look no further, we have the info! Recently I came across a study that revealed the average penis size (erect) for a ton of countries. I wasn’t seeking out this knowledge, I happened to stumble upon it, for the record. I have to say I’m a little upset, the USA is towards the bottom, looks like we fell short in this race!

The study was done by an Ulster University Professor who did receive some criticism because he gathered his information on the Internet, who know the internet lacked credibility?! LOL.  I do believe his research is fairly accurate based on my own personal findings, unfortunately I cannot vouch for every country, but the data seems to live up to stereotypes.   Here is a portion of the list:

Republic of Congo, 7.1
Ecuador, 7
Ghana, 6.8
Colombia, 6.7
Iceland, 6.5
Italy, 6.2
South Africa, 6
Sweden, 5.9
Greece, 5.8
Germany, 5.7
New Zealand, 5.5
UK, 5.5
Canada, 5.5
Spain, 5.5
France, 5.3
Australia, 5.2
Russia, 5.2
USA, 5.1
Ireland, 5
Romania, 5
China, 4.3
India, 4
Thailand, 4
South Korea, 3.8
North Korea, 3.8

I’d play it safe and stay between Italy and Ireland, nothing more nothing less! What about you?

NEWS: Go Topless Every Every Day That Ends In Y in the NYC!

Summer in the big apple is right around the corner, and it’s going to be the tits! As a female New Yorker I’m flabbergasted I was unaware that it’s perfectly legal for women to expose their tatas in New York City!  In February New York City police officers were given specific orders that topless women are not to be arrested.

This is no hoax, or booby trap to get someone arrested. J It seems Holly Van Voast a Bronx Photographer and Performance Artist is behind this topless movement. Van Voast has been known to reveal her tig ol’ bitties in many different areas of NYC including: the A train, and the Oyster Bar in Grand Central, both times ending in her arrest.  Clearly things have changed since then. 

According to the NY times Van Voast filed a federal lawsuit recently that clearly states: “that bare-breasted women should not be cited for public lewdness, indecent exposure or any other section of the penal law.” There you have it ladies, feel free to bare your boobs in NYC! I can understand how you’d want to let it all hang out in the hot humid city summers but not when there’s a nip in the air.

Femdom Fetish Phonesex

By Submissive Trainer Sarah

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Lots of men have secret submissive fantasies that they either don’t know how to act upon or are afraid to live out. There are actually several good reasons for a man not to jump in over his head when it comes to submitting to a Domme. That’s one reason I offer Femdom Fetish Phonesex via the Niteflirt billing platform. It’s a great way to explore your submissive side while still maintaining a safe “distance,” so to speak.

That’s why “Distance Domination” is such a good term for Femdom Fetish Phonesex. It can mean both domination from afar, via phone, and submission that is safely removed from the parts of your life that you don’t want it to extend to.

Femdom Fetish Phonesex is really an excellent way to explore your fantasies safely and discreetly. It allows you to talk about things you might not be able to talk about to your real-life friends, and it gives you the opportunity to experiment with fetishes that you aren’t quite sure about. It’s a lot less awkward to try these things out for the first time over the phone than face-to-face.

Finally, a lot of people find it easier to confess things about themselves to other people when they don’t have to look directly at them or feel eyes on them. So in that way, Femdom Fetish Phonesex offers some anonymity that many men find liberating.

There are a variety of submissive fantasies that I talk and train men on. Some of those fetishes are: Cock Control and Orgasm Control Phone Sex sessions where I give masturbation instructions and decide when/how/if the caller is going to orgasm. There is Cuckold Phonesex also, where a caller may get to hear how I enjoy having a cuckold servant to perform fluffing, primping, and possibly clean up duty. I also enjoy speaking with Sissy Girls, or Panty Boys who confess to me where they steal their panties from. We can even take our phone sex sessions to the point where I train them on how to be better girls in regards to grooming, dressing, demeanor, even cock sucking lessons.

One of the best things about exploring your submissive side with a Fetish Femdom, is that you are able to be more passive, while your Mistress directs the conversation and what she would like for you to do. It does help when you share what fetishes, or fantasies you are curious about, and she can take things from there. I look forward to having a Femdom Fetish Phonesex session with you soon!

Submissive Trainer Sarah

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NEWS: A Blowjob A Day Will Keep The Gag Reflex Away!

Ok, I’ve heard it all now! Dr. J. Peter Zeggara, a Sacramento based doctor had an interesting mouthful of suggestions for an unnamed female patient.

This anonymous patient was discussing her angst with Dr. Zeggara about getting an upper gastrointestinal endoscopy, her fears stemming from a ‘very reactive gag reflex.’ Dr Zeggara eased her nerves about the procedure by telling her (in front of her husband); “She should be practicing twice a week on her husband by giving him (oral sex) to address her gagging reflex.” I’m sure after the appointment the husband gave the doc a happy high five!

For anyone unfamiliar with a gastrointestinal endoscopy, the procedure calls for the tip of an endoscope to be inserted into your mouth and moved down through your esophagus and stomach, you get the idea! So even if you’re not an avid deep throater this has to be uncomfortable. As you may have guessed a medical doctor proposing fellatio to a patient might be considered inappropriate.

According to Cassandra Hockenson, with the California Medical Board, Zegarra was really out of line:

“This constituted unprofessional conduct, and so this is a message that this probably wasn’t appropriate. A more appropriate response should have come with regards to dealing with her gag reflex issues.”

Do you think Dr. Zeggara overstepped his boundaries with his honky tonk remedies?

NEWS: Does Your Phone Plan Include Unlimited Sexting?

Don’t let us ladies fool ya, we aren’t has demure as you think! J Harlequin, the sensual romance novel publisher conducted a survey with women that revealed 43% of women engage in dirty talk over text.  Scandalous, but not shocking.

Within that 43% an astonishing two-thirds stated they would only send risqué texts while in an exclusive relationship, and 35% said they just need a few dates before they’re ready to pony up and move from text to sext! From personal experience I’d usually only get filthy with a serious partner but there is always an exception to the rule, trust and respect between two people will allow for some cock shots and boobie pics fo sho!

Let’s be honest getting caught sending a nudie isn’t the end of the world, every other week a celebrity is caught tweeting or taking a buck naked selfie and their stardom is usually taken to another height because of it.  I’m not encouraging sexting but use your head (the one on your shoulders), and have genuine trust in the receiving end.

 

 

Happy Friday!

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NEWS: Would You Sign On The Dotted Line For Lover?

How amazing is it to enter a relationship and have constant mind blowing sex, everywhere, and still crave more!? This is usually the case for the beginning of courtships, and it fucking rocks!

Unfortunately after a few months some couples experience a fuck rut, a period of time when one or both partners is less than amped to mess up the sheets, for whatever idiotic reason.  It’s an awkward phase to say the least and I’m sure the majority of couples have experienced it.  This is where a sex contract should come into play! Evidently sex contracts are all the rage according to The Daily Mail:

“Attorneys say that more and more married and unmarried couples are signing relationship contracts that detail how often they will have sex.

The so-called ‘lifestyle clauses’ can include how often the couple is intimate, how they spend their leisure time and spell out what defines cheating, among other things.”

I can understand how folks would think this is the most unromantic route to take but I actually believe being legally bound to slob the knob once a week or muff dive on Mondays would motivate spouses and lovers, and be a reminder that being pleased is important!

I think Dave Chapelle was on to something : https://www.comedycentral.com/video-clips/jwmvxd/chappelle-s-show-love-contract