NEWS: The straight-laced folk want sex too!

Have you ever noticed that conservative people are risqué and scandalous on the sly? It’s pretty much like your token friend who grew up going to Catholic school that is the wild child out of the crew. According to a recent survey conducted by the British Journal of Health Psychology conservative men are more influenced by an erotic picture than a guy that isn’t shy about his enthusiasm for sex.

The study shows that men who have no interest or willingness to partake in casual sex are more apt to get freaky after seeing a sensual photo of a babe in a bikini. The study goes on to reveal that because there aren’t initial intentions to do the nasty from the get-go it can lead to unprotected sex.

“Think of this as similar to young teenagers drinking,” study researcher Megan Roberts, a psychologist at Brown University explained. “Most don’t go out explicitly intending to get drunk, but are willing if they are offered alcohol at a party. Likewise, many adults do not intend to have casual sex, but would be willing to do so if presented with the opportunity.”

This study doesn’t surprise me one bit, all of my gal pals that come off as demure and conservative are the friends that reallyyyy let their hair down when we’re partying and enjoying the fruits of the single life. I believe the findings in this survey are spot on, it makes sense that if you deny primal urges such as sex when you’re exposed to a sultry picture or subliminal sex images you’re going to want to quench that urge 10x more than someone that is always down for the cause.

Want To Understand How It Really Works?

By MissReaghan

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Hello, gents. Look, normally I would give you the big, eloquent speech about how I am a British-born Goddess, and all of you should bow before me and offer your money as a sacrifice, and blah, blah, blah, yadda, yadda, yadda. Not today, though.

Here is the real meat of the matter that needs to be choked down before we can have the sweet pudding of our fantasy time: You are a loser who needs to pay women to talk to you and act like they give any shred of a damn about you or to have phone sex with you if you are lucky. It is especially hard to get attractive women such as me because, well, we are hot and our time is more valuable. Sorry to tell you this, but I have had a little champagne tonight and did not quite feel up to the charade that all of us often feed you.

The truth is, well, none of us care about you in the slightest. Half the time, if we remember anything about you, it’s because you gave us a bucket of money or you are a frequent caller. But let’s face it, if number two is true, then that means number two is, too. Also, even if you do give us a bucket full of money, most financial domination Mistresses will still sound completely uninterested in you because now they just want to go online and buy shoes with the money you just gave them and your fantasies are impeding that process.

I feel bad for all of you, I really do. Well, kind of. So I tell you what, even though it might take you giving me money in the double digits, or even triple digits for some of you, to be worth my time, when you do make it worth it, I will act super-interested in what you have to say! Deal?

Good. Call me.

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NEWS: Humping For a Healthy Heart!

I was totally bummed after learning that James Gandolfini passed away this week because of a heart attack at the age of 51. I was a loyal ‘Sopranos’ fan, and honestly in my opinion there was something really sexy and charming about him. RIP, Mr. Gandolfini.

Heart Disease is something that should not be taken lightly, and everyone (men and women) should know their family’s health history, and take the proper initiatives to get their hearts checked out. Knowledge is power. Obviously eating healthy, exercising regularly, and living a life sans extreme cigs and excessive booze is going to help too!

Did you know that sex could reduce your chances of heart disease as well? According to the Daily Telegraph men that have sex at least twice a week can almost cut their chances of heart disease in half. This study included over 1,000 men and showed that “men who indulge in regular lovemaking are up to 45% less likely to develop life-threatening heart conditions than men who have sex once a month or less.” I’ve written articles in the past providing tons of other benefits of love making, you really can’t go wrong with this glorious activity, it’s a win-win situation.

So do yourself a favor, become familiar with your family health history and your own body, put forth effort to be healthful and kind to your body, and last but not least, fuck til your heart’s content! Happy Weekend.

Say Hello to “MistressCandice”…

By MistressCandice

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Domination was born of sex. It’s always been all about sex. Women owning their sexuality and yours. Whether through the use of pain for sexual pleasure, controlled orgasm, tease and denial it’s all about sex. Giving or withholding. That doesn’t mean it’s about intercourse but it can be. For Domination in the modern age, Domination is determined by the practicing Dominatrix.

There was a time in our history where Dominatrixes came under scrutiny and for them to continue practicing their trade for pay they had to remove sex from Domination. With the invent of the internet we are now able to put sex back into PRO Domination. Giving it or withholding it, all of it is a part of Domination. Many Prohibition Dommes still prefer to keep sex removed from their interaction, I do not. However I myself am more than a pro Domme.  I am and have been lifestyle for what seems forever, and we lifestyle Dommes never twisted the core of being a Dominatrix to suit the law. We didn’t have to.  Being a Dominatrix has always been legal. We only had to worry about safe, sane, and consensual.

Erotic hypnosis is exactly what it implies.  EROTIC is an adjective

Erotic: giving sexual pleasure or sexually arousing

Hypnosis:  an artificially induced trance state resembling sleep, characterized by heightened susceptibility to suggestion.

So while I am both A dominatrix and Erotic hypnotist I am also a Hypno Domme. Sometimes I combine all three, sometimes I just play in one realm or the other.  It depends on a couple of things.  One is my mood and the other is yours!

Now that we are clear on what I do know there is nothing to fear for when we play there is no safe word on the internet during hypnosis only a safe space. You draw the lines of the box that I play within. So there are twists and turns and surprises but all within the space we create.

-Mistress Candice

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NEWS: A one-night stand that lasts forever

Premarital sex is frowned upon by various cultures and religions, but in India if you play hide the sausage before you tie the knot, you’re considered married. A court in India has ruled that premarital sex equates to marriage! OMG if that was the case in the states I would be a modern day Liz Taylor, multiple marriages!

The deal is if an unwed couple of legal age “indulge in sexual gratification,” this will equate to a legit marriage, and they could be deemed “husband and wife,” according to The Hindu. Wow, can you imagine!? One minute you’re stoked that you scored, next thing you know you’ve got a ball and chain. For the full story click here.

On a side note, I would absolutely love to travel to India one day, soak in the spirituality and beauty but this is another reason why I love the USA. Appreciate your freedoms, people!

NEWS: Great Expectations

As a 30 (closing in on 31 – yikes) year old single female, I often wonder what single men are looking for. If a guy is merely seeking out a Friday fuck fest, physical attraction might trump all, but if they are looking for someone to have and to hold, they for sure have greater expectations.

Dating sites are a topic that comes up among singles quite often, because lets face it, if you aren’t hitting the bars every weekend it seems hopeless you’ll have a serendipitous moment with your soulmate in Starbucks. The fantastic aspect of dating sites is you can peruse through people based on their profile and characteristics they put out there, the caveat, is it all bullshit!? Who friggin’ knows! So when I come across a survey on USA today that reveals “what singles want” I’m enchanted to read.

This data was compiled from a broad national survey that included about 5,500 single adults 21+ years and older. Here is a sneak peek of some of the results:

 

 


Top “must haves” in relationships for men:

63% Is someone I can trust and confide in.
57% Treats me with respect.
40% Is physically attractive to me.

Top “must haves” in relationships for women:
84% Treats me with respect.
77% Is someone I can trust and confide in.
58% Has sense of humor/makes me laugh.

What men judge women on the most:
58% Teeth
55% Grammar
51% Hair

What women judge men on the most:
71% Teeth
69% Grammar
58% Clothes

Least important to men:
4% Eager to marry.
6% Makes at least as much as I do.
7% Eat similar foods.

Least important to women:
6% Eager to marry.
9% Eat similar foods.
11% Wants to have children/Shares my political beliefs.

Woaaahh I need to whiten my grill! To read the entire survey check out USA Today

NEWS: What’s your lucky number?

Have you ever pondered how many people your partner has boinked? I think it’s safe to say it’s crossed everyone’s mind once or twice.   If you do muster up the courage to ask the major buzz kill question, make sure to emphasize what ‘having sex’ means to you.   The definition of sex is not universal amongst people, it comes in all shapes and sizes!

A study by the Kinsey Institute at the University of Indiana was published in the journal of the American Medical Association, and I have to say some of the information had me surprised. 600 students participated in the survey and more than 90% said penis-vagina intercourse counts as sex, while 81% said penis-anal intercourse meant “had sex”. 40% said oral-genital contact counts as “had sex.” If my boyfriend asked me how many men I’ve taken down I’d include all penis-vagina and penis-anal encounters I’ve had.

To make matters more confusing, a separate survey conducted by the Kinsey Institute with people between the ages of 18 and 96 found that there is no single generation or gender that agrees on a definition of “had sex.” I can understand why someone would want to know how many people his or her partner has bed but just keep in mind curiosity killed the cat!

Get to Know “Naughty Olivia”…

With Naughty Olivia

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
One of my girlfriends was really having a great time with NiteFlirt and encouraged me to give it a try a couple months ago; I did and I haven’t looked back since!  It is my new obsession.

What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you on one of your hot phone sex calls?
I have a very vocal cat that sometimes wants to compete with my callers for attention; one time I had to explain to my caller that “More than one pussy was clamoring for his attention!”

What is your favorite part of being a phone mistress?
I love to take calls while I’m on the clock for my day job; it can be so boring and dreary and every single caller I get is a way for me to take my mind off things and spice things up!  I have a very high sex drive and it’s an excellent outlet for me.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and cam sex calls on NiteFlirt?
I consider myself to be rather outdoorsy; I love to experience the Colorado outdoors.  I love to bike the roads and mountains out here.  I also love to hike the Front Range on the weekends, occasionally with some camping.  I also love to summon my subs a few times a week in the evenings to get some power play in; nothing makes me wetter!

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I would be a warm hot fudge, slowly flowing down your body, sweet and warm at first, but before you know it, you’re drowning and dominated by chocolate-y goodness and cannot get out, no matter how hard you try.

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NEWS: Eyes On The Prize

If you’re a sexually seasoned individual you may have been involved in a Ménage à trios, perhaps you’ve dabbled with anal beads, but have you partaken in eyeball licking? It’s what all the cool kids in Japan are doing, ooof totally gives an eye for an eye a new meaning.

Eyeball licking is called oculolinctus or “worming”… wow that just upped the ante on the shock factor.  The sex craze exploded on the Internet last week after Chinese news site “Shanghaiist” dished the deets. This fetish is not a safe sexual practice, and it has caused outbreaks of pink eye, and even a few cases of eye Chlamydia!! Word on the street is that eyeball licking is considered second base among Japanese teens. I’m all about taking it slow but I’d rather just steal third base and bypass worming.

Will you and your partner indulge and try out eyeball licking?

NEWS: South Carolina Couple Really Rocks The Boat!

Gloria Sawyer and James Russell Nichols an Aynor, South Carolina couple were arrested for doing the dirty on a docked boat, and slapped with an indecent exposure charge. According to the Huff Post nearby patrons complained that Sawyer and Nichols were knocking boots in plain sight for all to see! I guess Nichols should of thought twice before he dropped his anchor!

Obviously Nichols denied that he and Sawyer engaged in any sort of sexual activities, stating he was merely rubbing Sawyers leg because they were “sore from a medical condition”. Ahhh yes the old rubbing the leg excuse, nothing wrong with a little motion in the ocean you just need to be discreet, people!

 

I couldn’t resist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o8T095mFdW8