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How to (Safely) Fuck in the Shower

showerIf you’ve ever gotten wet and wild in the shower, you know how hot shower sex can be. Getting sudsy and clean while getting down and dirty is definitely a great way to add some fun to your sex life.
But if you and your partner are different heights, or if you’re worried about slipping and falling or getting soap in unfortunate places, we’ve got some tips to make getting frisky in the shower go more smoothly.
  1. Sportsheets help with slipperiness
    Sportsheets has a line of shower sex products that will help with the slipperiness, like single or dual suction locking handles or foot rests for leverage. They even have suction handcuffs for a little BDSM action!
  2. Don’t use condoms
    Condoms aren’t meant for shower sex. They can slip off and degrade in the water.
  3. Definitely use lube
    Even though you’re in the water, counter-intuitively water does not keep things nice and wet! This is because it actually dries up the pussy’s natural wetness. So use a silicon-based lube, which can sustain contact with water for long periods of time.
  4. Fuck standing up
    The best way to safely fuck in the shower is to do it facing one another, with the shorter person propping their leg up (again, a foot suction cup helps here). Try not to use your partner for leverage, which can lead to slipping; instead, use the wall for support.
  5. Shower head is the best head
    If penetrative sex is just too slippery and difficult, try some head! A cushy shower mat is great for blowjobs. Also try pushing your lady against the wall and fingering her from behind, or using water-proof sex toys. And of course, anal play is great in the shower for getting all squeaky clean before getting dirty.
In the mood for getting wet and wild with us? We are always down for an exciting adventure!

The Ultimate Cougar Fetish

If Harold and Maude was about a young guy with a serious fetish for much, much older women, then it would be a lot like Kyle and Majorie’s relationship. Kyle is a young man who has what one might call a cougar fetish—if one defines “cougar” as a woman old enough to be his grandmother! His girlfriend, Majorie, is—wait for it—91 years old! And their relationship is pretty much entirely about having hot sex. Now that’s a real cougar!

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexy_cougarShe’s three times his age, is a great grandmother, and finds her streamy affair with a much younger, much kinkier partner thrilling, especially at her age. Kyle has a fetish for untraditional sex with much older women, and is especially turned on by his mature girlfriends’ wrinkles, platinum hair, and naturally hanging neck skin. He says that he offers older women a more adventurous, fun type of experience than they’re used to. And for Majorie, having hot sex with a young fetishist makes her feel alive again: “The physical side of the relationship is wonderful. I amaze myself and he amazes me, and I like it,” she says.

We hope we’re having such hot sex at that age! Want to have a steamy affair with us? We’re always up for an adventurous, fun experience!

 

 

The Pros of Phone Sex

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Maybe we’re a little biased, but with all the benefits of phone sex, we thought we’d take a minute to point some of them out. While it’s true that phone sex can’t replace the pleasure of touching, licking, sucking—we could go on—it can be a hot, fun way to add some spice to your sex life. Talking dirty during phone sex lets you get intimate (while getting off!) with someone without having to be in the room with them, not to mention the erotic thrill of whispering your fantasies to another person! So here we’ve put together 6 phone sex pros:

  1. The aural stimulation during phone sex can be very titillating
    The sensual excitement of listening to someone moaning, breathing heavily, and gasping as they pleasure themselves during phone sex is undeniably hot!
  2. Phone sex lets you explore your fantasies
    For many people, it’s easier to explore their fantasies during phone sex than it would be in person.
  3. Phone sex adds another layer of eroticism
    Talking dirty during phone sex lets you describe your desires in full, graphic detail. It can be a way to get to know your sexuality (and someone else’s) on a deeper level than maybe you thought possible.
  4. Phone sex is (hot) guided masturbation
    Giving your phone sex partner a play-by-play of what you’re doing to yourself and to them is a really sexy way of fucking while paying close attention to each naughty and amazing part of it.
  5. After you cum, you can go to sleep
    Let’s face it, phone sex is great for those times when you’d really just prefer to roll over and go to sleep after fucking.
  6. Phone sex means no awkwardness afterward
    Phone sex means no awkward goodbyes, promises to call later, etc. You just hang up.

Want to have some fun on the phone with us? We definitely know a thing or two about the pros of phone sex!

 

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Inside the Wet and Messy World of Food Fetishists

Wet and Messy (WAM) is a type of sploshing fetish that involves really playing with your food. If incorporating cake batter, whipped cream, pudding or other goopey food items into your sex life sounds like a sloppy good time, then WAM might just be the fetish for you. Liquid food fetishists not only enjoy getting messy and naughty with food, but with any other wet concoction that they can smear or rub all over their bodies, including things like mud or slime. best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sploshing

People in the food fetish community go way beyond just incorporating some whipped cream and chocolate sauce into foreplay. One couple makes x-rated food fetish videos where Mary, aka “Mud Bunny,” sits on multi-colored cake batter, or gets doused in buckets of cream and custard. Her partner, Tyler, says: “I really enjoy seeing it dripping on a girl, pouring it over her body. It’s a very sexy look, very smooth, the textures are awesome, and they taste good. It stimulates all the senses, which is really interesting from a sexual point of view.” Interestingly, there’s also a BDSM aspect to food fetish play—there’s humiliation, as well as dominance/submission.

Want to have some messy fun with us? We love getting wet and wild!

 

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13 Thoughts Every Dude Has Had During Sex

 The internet’s favorite celebrity, George Takei, re-posted a list from Distractify called “13 Thoughts Every Guy Has Had During Sex,” and as you can imagine, it is pretty amazing. The list is in gif form and narrated from the point of view of a dude while getting his freak on. Here are some highlights from this hilarious and spot-on list (check it out in gif form below):best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sex9
  1. “Cramp! Cramp! OMG, my leg!”
    What dude cannot relate to getting a cramp in his leg right in the middle of getting some action? It’s the sidelines for you, champ.
  2. “Okay, I need to last but not for TOO long.”
    You know you have to wait for her to cum (ladies first!) but you don’t want to go on and on and on either. The million dollar question: how to strike the perfect balance that will make her want to fuck you again?
  3. “Is she faking it?”
    “Was that sound real or fake? Is she faking because she likes me and wants me to keep going or because it’s awful and she wants to get it over with?”
  4. “Oh no. She’s silent. Why is she silent?”
    The gif for this: Mark Wahlberg’s confused, panicked eyes darting around helplessly.
  5. “Omg I slightly changed positions and she straight up moaned. I’m basically the lord of sex now.”
    Elvis, smirking.
  6. “So. Hungry. Right. Now.”
    “Is it weird that I can’t stop thinking about the leftovers in my fridge?”
  7. “T-minus 2 minutes till I cum!”
    Time for TURBO-TIME!!!
  8. “Mmmmm, I came.”
    (30 seconds later). Nite nite.
It’s funny cause it’s true. Stay tuned for the next installment—from the lady’s point of view! Or you can find out what women really want right here with us. We can make you feel like the lord of sex!
Check out Distractify’s list here!

Shoe Smelling Fetish – oh ya!

On TLC’s “Strange Sex,” viewers were introduced to a man with a pretty unusual fetish—a stinky shoe fetish! It’s true that when it comes to fetishes, nothing is really that unusual, but even for foot fetishists, a stinky shoe fetish is a bit out there. While every foot fetishist has very specific preferences for what turns them on (high heels, red nail polish, one toe longer than the other), a stinky pair of shoes is not often one of them.

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But then there’s Mark, a foot fetishist who spends around 40 percent of his day smelling women’s stinky shoes. He gets most of his fetish items from his female friends (he could just try dumpster diving?), and he had this to say about the type of shoe he’s looking for to satisfy his fetish: “The ideal pair would be really worn or a couple years old.” He explained, “What I like the most is a real sweat smell.”

To each their own, right? What turns you on? We’ve got everything you need right here to satisfy your kink!

 

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NEWS: Five BDSM Movies Better Than Fifty Shades of Grey

If you’re into BDSM (or if you’re a human who hasn’t been living under a rock recently), you’ve probably heard about/read/seen Fifty Shades of Grey. The movie grossed a record $94.4 million at the box office in its opening weekend, and there are 2 more sequels in the works. But despite the franchise’s massive success, for many BDSM enthusiasts, Fifty Shadesis really BDSM-lite. Here are 5 movies with way hotter, better BDSM:

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  1. Secretary
    It stars Maggie Gyllenhaal as James Spader’s kinky secretary. Their relationship quickly escalates from her boss spanking her as punishment for typos, to an all-out BDSM dom-sub affair!
  2. Belle Du Jour
    This one features the luscious Catherine Deneuve, who decides to secretly work at a brothel to satiate her intense BDSM fantasies. “Do as you wish with me,” says naughty Belle De Jour.
  3. A Dangerous Method
    Here, Keira Knightly’s character gets off to getting spanked and tied up by her famous therapist, Carl Jung. Her BDSM fetish is definitely Freudian!
  4. Maitresse
    This hot, French BDSM film was so racy it was banned for 6 years in the UK because“the actual scenes of fetishism are miles in excess of anything we have ever passed in this field.” We’ll just say that the hot dominatrix has a torture chamber in her basement, and gets off on making her subs suffer.
  5. 9 ½ Weeks
    This 80’s classic has some of the most erotic BDSM sex of any movie. Who can forget the blindfolded food sex-scene, their out-in-public fuck fests, or when Kim Basinger is forced to masturbate at work by her sexy dominant boyfriend, Mickey Rourke?

All those movies really got us in the mood for some kinky fun! Lights, camera, action!

 

The Best BDSM Sex Toys For Beginners

Have you been wanting to add some kink into your sex life? Maybe you’re curious about dipping your toe into the (wild) water that is BDSM? Well, we have just the thing for you! Here are the perfect BDSM sex toys to start your kinky journey off to a mind-blowing start:

  1. Classic Handcuffs: If you’re nervous about bringing BDSM into your bedroom, this is the perfect item to add something new, unexpected, and naughty to your sex life.
  2. Handblown Glass Whip: What’s key here is getting one that has soft leather tresses for beginner BDSM play but is still sturdy enough to deliver a firm whack. Not to mention that the glass handle doubles as a dildo!
  3. Pinwheel: This BDSM toy can be sharp, but if used correctly can deliver the perfect amount of pain.
  4. Feather Crop: This is great for tickle-torture BDSM play and a good smack!
  5. Blindfold: A blindfold’s essential to heightening the senses during BDSM. All the sensations and surprises will be that much more intense with this classic item.
  6. Nipple Clamps: What BDSM enthusiast could live without nipple clamps? Be sure to get a good pair that’s adjustable and comfortable to wear.
  7. Bondage Ropes: The sensual nature of rope against the skin adds a new level to the amazing sensory experiences of BDSM.
  8. Bar Spreader: Both ankles and wrists can fit into the movement-reducing straps.
  9. Ball Mouth Gag: This iconic BDSM toy is essential for any beginner. Be sure to get one with holes for easy breathing.

Come discover the kinky world of BDSM with us! We promise to be gentle (but only if you say your safe word!).

Check out more BDSM sex toys for beginners here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/laurenzaser/bondage-gifts-for-beginners

March Badness; Championship

It’s time to crown NiteFlirt’s 2015 March Badness BDSM & Fetish Champion!

Then there were two left standing!

Only two fetishes remain in our entire bracket as we are now down to the championship match. Both took different paths to get here and it seems there is a clear favorite, but we still need to count your votes to determine the most popular fetish of 2015!

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Strap-On vs. Goddess Worship
Strap-On again dominated the competition taking almost 75% of the total vote in it’s battle with Tease & Denial. Clearly Strap-On has to be our favorite moving on into the championship match. They’ve dominated the entire tournament and it’s pretty tough to pick against them now.
Goddess Worship just barely eked out a win against Ass Worship in their own Frisky Four matchup, winning only 52%-48%. It was incredible that Goddess Worship was able to pull off the victory by just the slimmest of margins. We predicted a walk-through for it, but that’s not how it played out. Perhaps the Goddess Worship lovers aren’t quite up to the task as we thought they were?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. We see no reason that the domination won’t continue in this, our final, matchup of the tournament. Strap-On has roared through this competition with ferocity and power and we just don’t see it ending now.

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This is it! Get those votes in so we can crown a champion for 2015! You can vote until this Wednesday. We’ll crown the champion that day!

Vote early and vote often!

 

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