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Nikita, the Gun-Shaped Dildo

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sideview001The Nikita is a gun-shaped dildo that, as its designer says, “shoots orgasms.” It’s a six-inch silicone sex toy with a vibrating sleeve that started as an art project and became a fully functioning dildo (and conversation piece!). While the dildo’s gun-shape may not be for everyone, the artist who created the Nikita is hoping to inspire people to explore their sexuality while engaging with the toy and its subject matter—both serious and playful—at the same time.

The dildo-gun is the perfect shape to hit all the right spots, and its trigger functions as a tickler to stimulate the clit and the prostate. The Nikita can also be used as a hands-free strap-on—simply insert the base of the toy into the pussy and fire away! And the handle allows you to have more control for hitting different angles and spots, alone or with a partner, since it’s much easier to grip than most dildos. Since the artist wanted to bring some levity and playfulness to a pretty heavy subject, she found that with the Nikita, she could spark important dialogue and help people to get off in fun new ways. Sounds like a win-win to us!

Looking for some dangerous fun yourself? Bring that big gun our way, cowboy!

Check out more about the Nikita here.

Sexxpot, the Aphrodisiac Weed

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5002299100_590525a1be_zA new company is producing an aphrodisiac weed that is supposed to help enhance sex called, appropriately, Sexxpot. The company’s founder said she smoked the strand of herb before getting it on and liked it so much that she asked her partner to label the weed so she’d know to smoke it again next time—and he labeled it “sex pot.” Sexxpot is derived from a low THC strain of bud that is specifically very helpful for women who want to relax and have extra sensations during sex.

Sexxpot works great for women because its lower than average THC levels help to put them in a sensual headspace without getting them too high to actually fuck (men usually need higher doses for the same effects). Although aphrodisiac weed is nothing new—people have long regarded pot as “nature’s viagra”—Sexxpot’s focus on women and their libidos is pretty novel since the weed game tends to be generally geared towards men. In fact, men are usually the ones to seek out weed to enhance sex and arousal, while women often still view it as taboo. While more science is needed to determine exactly why Sexxpot’s strain is so effective at helping women to have better, more intense sex, so far testimonies from multiple women show it just might be a game-changer for improving women’s sex lives.

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Check out more about Sexxpot here.

An Orgy For People With Disabilities

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1465053692_37e1d45f37_mOne thing you maybe never thought of when it comes to attending a massive sex party: is it wheel chair accessible? Well now a Toronto sex party calling itself the first accessible orgy for people with disabilities has that and much more. The event is called “Deliciously Disabled” and its aim is to both throw a great sex party and to create an empowering space for people with disabilities.

Deliciously Disabled is a masquerade ball that will include a sex toy workshop, a swinging orgy, and, of course, hydraulic lifts for wheelchairs. One of the event’s organizers explains it like this: “this event is about providing access to People living the experience of disability to be part of an experience they are so often denied. This event is about putting disability and agency over one’s body at the forefront.” The disabled-friendly orgy wants to show that people with disabilities are sexual beings who enjoy getting frisky and freaky: “Hey, we’re here and many of us enjoy sex just like everybody else…I think that it’s important that people realize that sexual expression is a human right,” another organizer said.

Want to have some group fun with us? We’re all about inclusive sexual experiences here!

Check out more about Deliciously Disabled here!

Meet the Porn Collector Keeping Vintage Mags Alive in the Internet Age

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6158989304_6606729f1e_mDave is a porn collector who started webuyanyporn.com to stock up on good ole fashioned smutty magazines that he hopes to sell in his vintage porn shop in London. Dave will literally buy any porn—the run of the mill kind people would just as soon recycle, to the supreme, grade-A collector’s kind (think mint condition Playboys from the ’50s). And as a vintage porn enthusiast in an internet age, he’s happy to take it where he can find it. So what does he consider really great porn?

The golden age of porn was in the 1950s, with photographers like Harrison Marks using great lighting to make the pics visually and technically superior. He says, “That’s where porn really started…it was used to get around the law. They sold it as art.” In fact, porn was illegal up until fairly recently, so Dave’s shop would be like walking into a sex shop in the 1980s! He caters to any kind of kink you might be hankering for (one magazine is entirely full of clits!), and what he likes about vintage mags opposed to internet porn is their allure and suggestiveness. He laments that with porn now “there’s no sense of imagination.” That’s why he’s keeping vintage porn alive—in all its nostalgic, titillating glory.

Feel like having some alluring fun with us? We also cater to various kinds of kink right here!

Check out more about Dave’s vintage porn shop!

Fetishists Love to Buy Women’s Used Panties Online

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lingerieshoppingsmallYou probably heard about Japan’s used panties vending machines (those Japanese fetishists sure are kinky!), but did you know that selling women’s used panties is thriving online in the UK? It’s true. Sexy women model their lingerie in pictures on the internet and sell them off to eager fetishists. So what do the fetishists like the ladies to do with their panties before buying them?

The “dirty knickers” craze in the UK is all made to order, meaning fetishists can make requests for what types of, ahem, activities they’d like the ladies to do before sending their panties. The main one is for the women to wear the panties while masturbating, and one lady who sells her used panties online for $23 a pop says, “quite a lot want [the women] to wee in them.” She also says that most of the fetishists who buy used panties online do so to masturbate with them and smell them, although others like to wear them or simply put them in a drawer to admire longingly. One dominatrix likes to send her slaves her dirty knickers as a present: “I like to send some panties through the post and make someone’s day.” That is definitely a good gift…for a fetishist!

Want one of us to make your day? We love indulging your kinks!

Check out more about UK’s thriving used panties market here!

Why Women and Men Love Feminist Porn

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best_phone_sex_niteflirt_announcement2Explicit erotic film director Jennifer Lyon Bell recently sat down with BuzzFeed to discuss feminist porn and why many women and quite a few men prefer it over regular porn. Bell prefers the term “explicit erotic film” over feminist porn because she says the latter can sometimes be misconstrued as not hardcore. She explains, “People think that women don’t want to see explicit material and that couldn’t be less true. I think plenty of women, myself included, love seeing hot, explicit sex.” So here are some reasons why we should all be watching more feminist porn.

  1. Women’s porn offers more diversity, and is just as explicit
    Bell says, “A popular misconception with porn is that all women want the same thing. Women are really diverse and what appeals to me might not appeal to you, and I think that’s great. Women’s porn should be really diverse because women are really diverse.”
  2. Seeing people genuinely enjoying sex is seriously hot
    Women definitely want to see real, hot sex when they watch porn—and a lot of men do too. The sex seems more participatory between the two people, which makes it seem more fun, free, and authentic.
  3. Feminist porn is less commercial, and more creative
    Bell argues that because porn distributors need to make money, they are more reluctant to explore alternative types of porn that they fear may not be as marketable. This is why alternative porn producers like Bell make movies: “Sexuality – women’s, men’s, and everybody’ s sexuality – is really diverse in a way that we are only just now starting to explore further with alternative pornography.”
  4. The sex looks, sounds, and feels more real
    Bell says, “That’s the part of sex that I find most exciting – this cycle between two people of seeing what the other person is going through and responding to it.”
  5. The adult entertainers are more diverse
    The hottest sex you see in porn is from those people who are simply comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality, no matter their body type, sexual preference, etc.
  6. Women openly enjoying and exploring sex is a powerful, revolutionary act
    It ain’t called feminist porn for nothing! These women are empowered, sex-positive, and all about sexual liberation.

All that talk about real, hot sex definitely got us in the mood. Come celebrate sexual liberation with us!

Check out images and more about feminist porn here!

The Best/Worst Sexts Ever

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Sometimes, when you’re right in the middle of getting your sext on, foibles can happen that might, well, ruin the mood. Autocorrect failures, erotic messages lost in translation, and yes, even those dreaded, WTF, boner-killing come-ons. So here we present for your amusement and pleasure the most ridiculous, hilarious, and horrifying sexts ever:

  1. “I know I’m not the most handsome guy, but I bet I’d look a lot better with your pussy juice all over my face.”
    Did that one actually work? If so, bravo.
  2. “I want to massage every square part of your body.”
    Square parts? Nobody wants to see anyone else’s square parts, whatever those are.
  3. “I can’t wait to see you later and mash my crotch against your face.”
    That just sounds scary. And dangerous.
  4. Post-masturbation pic with caption: “Cloudy with a chance of rain.”
    Hello, this is your local weatherman bringing you the latest update: looks like cloudy with a chance of DEAR LORD MY BONER’S GONE.
  5. Her: “Does my pussy taste good? Is it the best you’ve ever tasted?”
    Him: “Tastes like chicken.”
    Colonel Sanders, is that you?
  6. “I just need it! It’s like I’m a diabetic and there’s insulin in your ass and I have to get it with my tongue!”
    Sexting red alert! This is a medical emergency!
  7. “Love to bend you over an airport bench and fuck your brains out.”
    Hm, never thought of that before when fantasizing about sex in public…
  8. Her: “Morning.”
    Him: “Is it bad sometimes I feel like I have a big dick to make up for how fucked up everything else is.”
    Well, at least he’s grateful for what he’s got?

Wow, those were truly awful—and also completely amazing! Want to have some naughty fun with us? We promise not to mash anything against your face or ask you to massage our square parts!

Check out more hilarious sexts here or share with us your worst sexts by joining our conversation @NiteFlirt on Twitter!

According to Science, Sleep More and Watch More Porn For a Better Sex Life

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best_phone_sex_niteflirt_positionsWe have good news for anyone who wants to be at the top of their sexual A-game but doesn’t want to make drastic changes to their routine. According to two new studies that looked at factors affecting those with sexual dysfunction problems, sleeping more and watching more porn might just be what the doctor ordered. For women, a little more time in between the sheets—sleeping, that is—could help them to want to get it on more; and for men, watching more porn could help to jump start their libidos.

One study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that for every extra hour a woman slept, she increased her chances of wanting to have sex by 14 percent. And for men, the study found that watching porn may increase “…desire and arousal in normal, real-life sexual situations with their partners.” So, despite the myth that porn desensitizes men and decreases their need for the real thing, the opposite may actually be true: “Viewing more sex films was associated with a stronger sex drive, including the desire to have sex with a partner, so sex films may be able to ‘stoke the fire,’” said one researcher. If anything these studies show that porn (and a good night’s rest!) can definitely have a place in a healthy sexual relationship.

Looking for an arousing real-life situation yourself? We have just what the doctor ordered right here!

Check out more about the studies here.

Cuckold Inside a London Swingers Club

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Club 487 is one of London’s last remaining porn cinemas for cuckolds and swingers. So Vice went inside to make polite conversation with one cuckold—while his wife got fucked by three men—to find out what it’s like for him to watch the action from the sidelines. After she gave head to three men and fucked another, one of the men complimented the cuckold on what a great fuck his wife is. The cuckold’s reply? “Melissa’s a great fuck…She’s a good girl. Thank you, mate.”

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Using online forums, the two swingers advertise their sexual preference for cuckolding, and have been active in the swinging lifestyle for 15 years (married for 22). The cuckold gets off to watching his wife enjoy multiple partners on any given night, and even shouts words of encouragement at his wife’s lovers during her various fuck-fests. So how does he feel about being a cuckold? Well, it’s a turn on, obviously. He said, “We’ve been doing it 15 years now so we must like it, mustn’t we?” He explained that he doesn’t get jealous, since he’s the one who’ll be taking her home at the end of the night, and that his wife “loves sex. She’s a good girl.”

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Women Holding a Coke Between Their Tits Is the Hottest New Thing on the Internet

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Doing outlandish things on the internet to raise money for various worthwhile causes is nothing new (ALS ice bucket challenge, anyone?). So even though the latest internet craze that’s meant to raise money for breast cancer isn’t original, its methods are definitely shrewd…and sexy! Women across the globe are uniting to get in on the challenge: hold a can or bottle of your choice between your tits to raise money for breast cancer—because let’s face it, boobs will get attention on the internet.

The #HoldACokeWithYourBoobsChallenge has propelled women and celebrities far and wide to grab a sugary bevie, slip it in nature’s pocket, and snap a photo to share on social media. The challenge was created by an adult entertainment talent-scouting agency called Elite Talent Referral, and it’s gotten so popular that even Kate Upton got in on the fun (see her hot photo below). Even dudes are taking the challenge! Exactly how this challenge raises money is unclear, and why people think they’d need to “raise awareness” for a disease as widely known as breast cancer is just baffling. But, when women are willing to show their lovely lady lumps for a good cause, we say just go with it.

Want to have some fun with us? We’ve got the sugar; you bring the challenge!

Check out photos of #HoldACokeWithYourBoobsChallenge here!