Category: Insights

Kink Educator’s BDSM Workshops Boomed During Lockdown

A kink educator helped thousands of people around the world live out their sexual fantasies during lockdown. One of her most popular workshops is her spanking class, which has up to 100 people at a time and up to 50 participants in real-life sessions. “My business boomed in lockdown. The pandemic gave people time to think about what they want in bed and explore their desires in the comfort of their home.”

“It’s not all about flogging, spanking and tying each other up,” she explains. “It can be a very sensual experience.” She talks about pouring hot wax all over your partner’s naked body “like a work of art,” letting your partner “control” when you orgasm, and experimenting with sensory deprivation. “There really is something for everyone so don’t be afraid to try.”

Want to explore your desires from the comfort of your home? At NiteFlirt, there really is something for everyone!

Check out more about a kink educator’s BDSM workshops booming during lockdown: https://nypost.com/2022/01/13/sex-educator-reveals-the-surprising-items-all-her-clients-love/

Average Penis Length Is Much Shorter Than Most Think, TikTok Doc Claims

A doctor on TikTok is claiming studies on penis size are guilty of erectile exaggeration. A video of his “manhood myth-busting” currently has more than 430,000 views on TikTok. “Studies show that the average length of a man’s erect junk is 5.15 inches,” explained the TikTok doc, who has over 7.3 million followers on the platform.

“But the real length is probably less than that because most men with small wieners probably wouldn’t consent to being involved in those studies.” “Omg… please say ‘erect junk’ more … that caught me off guard. I wheeze laughed,” wrote one fan in the comments. Another added, “I feel better about myself now thank you,” to which the doctor replied, “You’re welcome.”

Looking for the real deal? NiteFlirt never lies!

Check out more about a TikTok doctor explaining why the average penis length is much shorter than reported:https://nypost.com/2021/12/15/average-penis-length-is-probably-much-shorter-than-you-think/

Pornhub Reveals 2021’s Most Popular Searches In America

Another year, another Pornhub review revealing America’s X-rated viewing habits. The most popular search term across the United States was “hentai”—a type of Japanese anime. Fantasy was a theme: “The Suicide Squad” anti-hero Harley Quinn was the most-searched movie franchise or character, followed by Wonder Woman, Harry Potter, “Star Wars” and Black Widow.

Lara Rhoades was the most popular porn star internationally, followed by Abella Danger, Eva Elfie, Riley Reid and Mia Malkova. The adult site further revealed that Americans were the biggest porn consumers on the planet—Brits made up the second-largest share of Pornhub users, the Japanese placed in third, the frisky French came in fourth, while Italians rounded out the top 5. “Ebony” remained the most-viewed category of video for the second year running, ahead of “lesbian” and “MILF.”

Want to ring in the new year right? Come live out your fantasies with us on NiteFlirt!

Check out more about Pornhub’s 2021 year in review: https://nypost.com/2021/12/15/pornhub-reveals-2021s-most-popular-searches-in-america/

Porn Star Maitland Ward Reveals ‘Steamy’ New Memoir, ‘Rated X’

Image Source: Flickr.com | MattysFlicks

Maitland Ward is revealing all her sexy secrets in a new memoir that details how she went from G-rated to X-rated. The former “Boy Meets World” star, who now has a successful career in adult films, has revealed the title of her forthcoming memoir, “Rated X: How Porn Liberated Me from Hollywood.” “I can’t wait for everyone to read my fun and juicy stories in my career,” the sexy redhead said recently.

Her openness and sex-positive attitudes led her to high-end pornography, for which she’s earned several Adult Video News (AVN) awards, otherwise known as the Oscars of porn. The book divulges Hollywood secrets from a person who has truly seen it all—no topic is too taboo or off-limits, including confessions about what really happens behind the scenes working on an adult film set. “‘Rated X’ is a sharp and provocative look at a former Disney princess who found her fairy tale in porn,” book publisher Simon & Schuster said.

Looking for something fun and juicy? We are all about sexual liberation on NiteFlirt!

Check out more about Maitland Ward’s new memoir, Rated X: https://nypost.com/2021/12/06/ex-boy-meets-world-star-maitland-ward-reveals-rated-x-book-cover/

Inside the Jobs Of ‘Consent Monitors’ Who Police Sex Clubs

Image Source: MyLIfetime.com – VIVICA’S BLACK MAGIC

The security guards at sex parties are there to enforce a different set of rules. A consent monitor is a trained member of staff whose job is separate from standard security roles—their main aim is to monitor the welfare of guests at sex clubs. Speaking to VICE, a group of monitors revealed how they ensure everyone is sticking to pre-designated rules and “having fun.”

Policing sex has included interrupting BDSM scenes to check if everyone is happy to kicking out men for staring at groups of lesbians. One consent monitor revealed that the most common violation is people overstepping boundaries and going too far—citing one example where he threw a guy out for trying to initiate sex when only oral sex had been agreed to. On another occasion, he had to throw a man out because he grabbed a woman’s hair while she was “playing with another woman.”

Feeling frisky? Let’s party on NiteFlirt!

Check out more about consent monitors who police sex clubs: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10245901/What-REALLY-like-work-sex-club.html

The Very Raunchy History Of Sex In The Middle Ages

Katherine Harvey’s illuminating novel The Fires of Lust: Sex in the Middle Ages offers a peek into the sexual beliefs and bedrooms of ordinary medieval men and women living in western Europe. Erections were believed to be the result of a “windy spirit,” meaning those suffering with impotence were advised to eat foods which caused wind and bloating like chickpeas. Too much sex was said to be very dangerous because it could cause the body to dry out, leading to hair loss, heart and lung problems, and kidney failure.  

German Dominican friar Albertus Magnus recounted the story of one unfortunate monk who died because he lusted over a woman so much his “brain had shrunk to the size of a pomegranate, and his eyes had been destroyed.” Medieval doctors believed, however, that there was a connection between sexual pleasure and reproduction: it was thought that both men and women had to have an orgasm simultaneously for conception to occur. With this in mind, foreplay was encouraged by medieval doctors—with some even suggesting men apply chewed peppers to his penis to cause his wife “incredible delectation.”

In the mood for some action? Come take a peek into NiteFlirt’s raunchy bedroom!

Check out more about the history of sex in the middle ages: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10268783/The-raunchy-history-sex-Middle-Ages-revealed-new-book.html

People With Anxiety And Depression More Likely To Use ‘Sextech,’ Study Finds

People struggling with their mental health are more likely to explore digital sexual technologies, a study finds. Kinsey Institute experts say sextech helps these individuals find temporary relief. Examples of sextech include erotic webcam sites, virtual reality porn, or even just the capacity to share sexually explicit images or videos.

“It’s likely that many users in these spaces do have social support and adequate social networks, but they’re turning to online sexual technologies for a unique boost to their psychological mindset,” researchers say. “As the global need for innovative mental health resources and interventions increases, emerging sexual technologies may provide relief for people with mental health struggles.” The authors point out that sextech is not used by lonely people who can’t find sex in face-to-face relationships, but instead as an “important pathway for mental health intervention.”

Looking for a sexual boost? Come explore NiteFlirt!

Check out more about how sextech helps people with anxiety and depression: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-10235101/Mental-health-People-anxiety-depression-likely-use-sextech-study-finds.html

A Common Mistake Men Make In Bed

A sexpert who shares sexy pics and advice with her 4.5 million Instagram followers says she knows exactly what you can do to guarantee your partner has a good time, every single time. She says that the one mistake men make is believing that “sex just happens, like roll over, take it, and done.” “It’s about conversation, connection, making time for each other, listening, laughing, and being sexy with each other,” she explains.

She advises men to “make her desires your priority,” in other words “You need to be vigilant of her, take care of her, watch out for her and be solicitous of her needs.” She advises couples to make time for intimacy, flattery, experimentation with sex toys and foreplay. “Most importantly it’s about being healthy, happy and serving each other’s interests as well as your own,” she says.

Looking to experiment? We guarantee a good time, every time, at NiteFlirt!

Check out more about a common mistake men make in bed: https://nypost.com/2021/11/12/a-common-mistake-men-always-make-in-bed-plus-tips-to-guarantee-orgasm/

How To Not Catch Feelings For A One Night Stand

Sometimes the joys of casual sex can be outweighed by pesky “feelings.” Thankfully, a psychotherapist says these hookups can be easy ways to satisfy carnal desires with no strings attached. During sex, the body releases oxytocin, commonly called the “love hormone,” so it’s natural to feel a deep connection during and after the act, even if it only happens once, explained a Sydney-based psychotherapist.

She explained that when people catch serious feelings for a casual hookup, they may be ignoring the reality of the situation, perhaps to get more out of it: “It’s possible that that person is not responding to what’s available at this moment, and trying to fulfill deeper needs…” She added that people who find themselves with feelings for a one night stand should take time to gauge the gravity of those feelings, and reflect to see if the feelings align with what they really want. People who found themselves getting emotional would do well to acknowledge those feelings honestly, allow them to exist, then let them go: “We can catch feelings, but we don’t actually have to hold onto them. It’s possible to let them come, stay for a while, and pass.”

Looking for no strings attached fun? Come satisfy your desires right here at NiteFlirt!

Check out more about how not to catch feelings for a one night stand: https://www.vice.com/en/article/wxd835/how-to-sex-one-night-stand-hookup-emotions

Size Matters According To Gen Z And Millennials

Millennials and members of Generation Z are hung up on penis size, a new survey has found. A medical website quizzed 1,003 American adults of all ages about their penis preferences, and discovered younger respondents are more likely to say size matters in the bedroom. While 61% of Baby Boomers and 60% of Gen X’ers believed penis size was crucial to sexual pleasure, the numbers were noticeably higher among those in their 20s and 30s.

Almost three-quarters (74%) of Millennials said size is important between the sheets, while the number increased to a whopping 85% among members of Gen Z. Researchers believe porn is to blame for younger generations’ penis-prejudices: almost one in five straight men surveyed said porn was the biggest reason for body insecurity during sexual interactions. 41% of men and women believed a penis between 6 and 8 inches is best, while 31% said a smaller–sized dick—between 4 and 6 inches—was optimal.

Looking for the ideal sexual experience? Whatever you’re packing, we don’t discriminate on NiteFlirt!

Check out more about Millennials and Gen Z getting hung up on dick size: https://nypost.com/2021/11/19/gen-z-millennials-hung-up-on-penis-size-during-sex-study/