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Ocean Sounds Can Make You Cum Better, Audio Erotica Expert Claims

The founder of an erotic audio company claims listening to the sound of crashing waves can help train the brain to have better orgasms. The businesswoman recently gave a TED talk explaining why sound is intrinsic to sexual pleasure. She said listening to less obviously erotic noises can expand a person’s imagination, and sexual horizons.

“It is not a betrayal to use your imagination to bring you more pleasure,” she said. “Fantasy is a safe space, and it’s time we bust the myth that what you fantasize about and what you want to happen in reality are always the same thing.” She explained sounds—not words—can often be a gateway to fantasy. The sound of waves crashing against the shore, for instance, can induce listeners into a state of relaxation, which in turn produces better orgasms.

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Check out more about how ocean sounds can make you cum better: https://nypost.com/2022/04/21/ocean-sounds-can-make-orgasms-better-audio-erotica-expert/

More Couples Are In Open Relationships Because They’re ‘Bored With Each Other’

It seems couples are rearing to get out after so much time in lockdown—of their monogamous relationships. Romantic burnout caused by spending too much time together during the pandemic has caused lovers to seek out more exciting prospects. A sex therapist reported a 45 percent leap in inquiries about discussing the subject with partners in recent months.

She said: “Couples are now keener than ever to spice things up a bit. Many have started to outsource their needs in the shape of open relationships.” While men are usually the ones who suggest more sexual freedom, it is women who want it to continue. “Women are now much more in charge and much more demanding,” which according to the sex therapist, is why we’re seeing more open relationships these days.

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Check out more about couples seeking open relationships because they’re bored with each other: https://nypost.com/2022/04/13/more-couples-enjoying-open-relationships-because-theyre-bored-with-each-other/

Yoga Teacher Can Reach ‘Deep’ Orgasm With No Stimulation Thanks To Her Practice

An Estonian yoga teacher has learned how to orgasm “almost instantly” without any stimulation. The woman taught herself over the course of a decade how to achieve “deep sexual satisfaction” after traditional sex proved unsatisfying. Now, she claims she can orgasm for up to 10 minutes without stimulation due to “years of yoga and tantric training.”

“I learned to relax and let go, accepted body image and brought increased mindfulness also to daily life in general,” she told researchers in a study published in the journal Sexual Medicine. “In addition, I did pelvic floor exercises, breast massage practice and practices to release shame and guilt.” Researchers found that the orgasms she taught herself were nearly as pleasurable as her clitoral or anal ones—and she claims, “What I just did, I know every woman can do it.”

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Check out more about a woman teaching herself to orgasm without stimulation: https://nypost.com/2022/04/05/i-can-reach-deep-orgasm-with-no-stimulation-thanks-to-yoga/

British TV Show Tests How Ready Couples Are To Being In Open Relationship

A TV show in the UK is trying an astonishing sexual experiment that aims to introduce ordinary couples to the world of non-monogamous relationships. The series, called Open House: The Great Sex Experiment, tests how “ready” couples are to try an open relationship. Participants are given a series of escalating tasks, each pushing them slightly further than the last towards actually having sex with someone other than their partner.

According to the programmers, the show is an examination of an “increasingly popular lifestyle choice.” Producers of the show purposely selected total novices to non-monogamy—people who are “happily married” and have satisfying sex lives. Dr Lori—a psychologist who helps couples to achieve “a deeper level of sexual congruence”—assigns the couples tasks, ranging from flirting to playing “innocent” party games, right up to having a threesome while the cameras roll.

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Check out more about the British TV show, The Great Sex Experiment: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10669099/TV-experiment-proves-women-men-think-differently-sex-fidelity.html

Married Men Reveal Why They Cheat In New Book

The author of Cheatingland: The Secret Confessions of Men Who Stray interviewed 61 men over four years to get new insights into infidelity. The author says, “‘Cheatingland’ was a clandestine little country with its own customs—sort of Fantasy Island, where wedding vows were forgotten and normally mild-mannered people could morph into sexual beasts.” To some, “cheating means taking their sexual frustration into their own hands and resolving the problem so that they won’t poison the marriage with their dissatisfaction or resentment,” the author writes.

But in many cases, it has nothing to do with problems in the bedroom: “I just needed to do something I wanted to do, something for myself, and that is to give myself the gift of amazing, heart-pounding sex,” said one man. There is a “Russian roulette aspect to all of it,” writes the author, in that the risk of getting caught is always there—and for some, that’s part of the appeal. “The sex is absurd,” another man says. “It’s risk-your-life good.”

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Check out more about a book exploring why men cheat on their wives: https://nypost.com/2022/03/16/61-married-men-reveal-why-they-cheat-heart-pounding-sex/

This Is How Dicks Measure Up Around The World

If you’ve ever wondered where in the world men have the largest cocks, we’ve got answers. In fact, there have even been color-coded interactive maps showing the different sizes of men’s manhood, depending on where they’re from. Taking first place, the African countries highlighted in red have the largest members while erect: Western African countries like Ghana, the Congo and Gabon grab the top spot, with averages of 16cms.

Also men from Australia, Italy, Norway, Mexico and South Africa are also on the well-endowed end—these countries go up to an average of 5.8-6.3 inches. Meanwhile, Asian countries like India, Thailand and South Korea got the short end of the stick with the smallest size on average, varying between 3.6 to 4.1 inches. Mexico is home to the man with the biggest penis in the world, measuring in at 18.9 inches!

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Check out more about the average penis sizes around the world: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647

Binging Porn Affects Men And Women Differently In Bed, Study Says

It seems men suffer—and women excel—by regularly indulging in adult entertainment. A new study has found frequent porn viewing can have disastrous effects on men’s sex lives, leaving them with low self-esteem, erectile dysfunction and an inability to satisfy their lovers. The research found that the more kinky videos a man watched over time, the more likely he was to report poor levels of sexual function.

Frequent male porn viewers had more problems maintaining erections and reaching ejaculation, and they reported lower levels of desire when it came time to have actual sex. Meanwhile, the study also surveyed thousands of women, and found the complete opposite: the more frequently a woman watched porn, the more likely she was to experience an increase in sexual self-competence, functioning and satisfaction. Researchers were unable to conclusively explain the reasons for this unexpected find but theorized it was due to the fact that women generally prefer softcore porn: “Men watch more hardcore/paraphilic porn and less softcore/mainstream porn than women . . . which may be associated with different sexual comparison processes and sexual outcomes.”

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Check out more about how frequent porn viewing affects men and women differently: https://nypost.com/2022/03/07/frequent-porn-viewing-makes-men-lousy-in-bed-study/

Here’s the study: https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/psychological-medicine/article/porn-use-and-mens-and-womens-sexual-performance-evidence-from-a-large-longitudinal-sample

Disabled Husband Dispels Myth That He Can’t Satisfy His Wife In Youtube Video

A couple have taken to YouTube to speak back to trolls who mock their sex life. The husband was born with spinal muscular atrophy and uses a wheelchair—which leads many to assume he cannot satisfy his wife in bed. The couple opened up about their sexuality on YouTube to prove to those who say that he can’t have sex that this is definitely not the case.

He said: “They perceive that I can’t have sex in their very limited, missionary man fucks woman. They think that is the be-all and end-all of sex.” He continued, “A non-disabled man might come up to Hannah and start rubbing her shoulders and I just say, ‘Hey, do you wanna go have sex?’” The wife explains that this open, comfortable communication works well for them: “I feel like I know his body and preferences as well as I know my own,” she says.

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Check out more about a disabled husband speaking out about his satisfying sex life: https://nypost.com/2022/01/27/trolls-say-my-disabled-husband-cant-satisfy-me-but-theyre-wrong/

Sexpert Advises Daily Masturbation To ‘Whet’ Your Dry January

A sexologist is campaigning to make Dry January much wetter. The sexpert is encouraging people to masturbate every single day this month, advising that dedicated self-gratification staves off seasonal depression during what studies show is the most miserable time of the year. Her kinky claims are backed by research that found women diagnosed with depression or anxiety found psychological relief with regular masturbation.

“It’s to focus on spending time with yourself and get to know your body,” she said, offering some tricks to prioritize pleasure. “Lots of women find audio porn very helpful, hearing the noises and imagining the situation to get them in the mood . . . but what’s really important is to focus your mind on the situation you’re in and allow yourself to truly switch off and concentrate on you.” Try it all, she said: “Some women are more sensitive if they lay on their front with their legs straight, while others may find the squatting positions better for accessing the G spot.”

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Check out more about a sexpert advising daily masturbation for the month of January: https://nypost.com/2021/12/31/expert-daily-masturbation-will-fight-january-depression/