Category: Insights

Escort Reveals On TikTok Why Married Men Cheat

An escort went viral on TikTok after revealing the reasons why so many married men are paying her for sex. She captioned the video “What your husbands have taught me” before diving into all of the things she has learned from sleeping with other women’s husbands. “You can do better. He can do more for you, he is just doing it with other women,” she began.

“It’s the hunt that they want, not the catch, and they’ve already caught you. That’s why they’re hunting,” she continued, adding that many men seek time with her for “validation.” She said, “Sleeping with a younger, hotter woman is a way of validating themselves when they really could just go home to you and communicate.” Her video has since racked up a whopping 5.7 million views.

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Check out more about an escort’s TikTok on why men cheat: https://nypost.com/2022/09/23/escort-bianca-seirra-reveals-on-tiktok-why-married-men-are-paying-her-for-sex/

Intimacy Coordinator Reveals Questions Actors Ask When Filming Sex Scenes

An intimacy coordinator dished on TikTok about the questions Hollywood’s actors have asked her while filming a sex scene. The sex scene consultant regularly shares how the actors get down and dirty to her over 400,000 followers and reveals her trade secrets while keeping the performers anonymous. One video, which racked up over 5.5 million views, included questions like “can you make sure my butt looks good?”

She also revealed performers have asked her how much tongue to use, what to do if they get aroused or if their “modesty pouch fell off” (a garment that covers the penis, allowing actors to stay covered while appearing naked). In another video, she shares that actors have asked her if they need to shave and how many “thrusts” they have to do for the scene. TikTok users loved the content and many wondered how she dealt with men getting aroused, which she revealed was by just allowing the actors to “take a break.”

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Check out more about the questions an intimacy coordinator gets asked while filming sex scenes: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11073135/Hollywood-intimacy-coordinator-reveals-questions-actors-asked-filming-sex-scene.html

Shocking Amount Of People Watch Porn At Work, Study Finds

It seems a lot of workers are brazenly watching porn in their cubicles. A shocking number of people have admitted to consuming porn in the office—60% according to a recent survey. But researchers say it’s not because workers want to masturbate; mainly, they just want “a distraction.”

Researchers noted that watching porn could be “stress relief or a coping mechanism” while working: “[Porn] becomes a way of coping with how mundane and unpleasant the reality of their work is,” one researcher said. Others might watch porn as a way to “reward” their hard work: “They’ve just got a sale, had a win, they’ve just finished a piece of work online and it’s a treat,” the researcher told BBC. “We might have a cup of coffee and a cake . . . somebody else might watch pornography.”

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Check out more about a recent survey finding a shocking amount of people watching porn at work: https://nypost.com/2022/07/19/shocking-amount-of-people-watch-porn-at-work-heres-why/

This Kinkster Is Attracted To Inanimate Objects

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A fetishist on TikTok became famous for marrying the Eiffel tower in a documentary about her attraction to inanimate objects. But now she’s got a new beau: a fence. In a clip from the documentary, Erika is seen straddling a red fence and talking to the camera about her attraction.

Erika identifies as an “objectum sexual,” which is a person who can become romantically and sexually attracted to inanimate objects. In the viral TikTok clip, which has amassed over 1.4 million likes, Erika explains what attracts her to the fence as she touches and examines it. “Fences are such dangerous objects for me because they are so perfect in their geometry,” she says. “I mean, I have to say there is a lot of physical stuff going on right now.”

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Check out more about a woman who’s sexually attracted to inanimate objects: https://nypost.com/2022/06/24/i-am-sexually-attracted-to-a-fence-and-love-it-as-a-companion/

Study Reveals Women’s Sexual Desire Increases For Some Of Pregnancy

The second trimester of pregnancy is often referred to the “honeymoon period” because symptoms start to fade and the desire to have sex returns. But a new study suggests that the window of opportunity for sex during this trimester is shorter than previously thought. Researchers surveyed more than 200 US women about how often they had sex during each week of their pregnancy. 

Overall, the probability of getting it on increased only around 60 percent of the second trimester, which is something of a surprise because the whole of the second trimester has commonly been considered prime time for sex. “We hope the results will help clinicians provide beneficial information about the fluctuations of sexual behaviour during pregnancy, and spread awareness around potential sudden declines in sexual frequency, which can in turn prepare or reassure women and partners alike.” The NHS adds it’s “perfectly safe” for women to have sex during their pregnancy unless a doctor or midwife has told them not to. 

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Check out more about a study showing women’s sexual desire only increases for 60 percent of the second trimester: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-11116033/Pregnancy-honeymoon-period-shorter-previously-thought-study-says.html

The Sex Question Women Always Ask Male Strippers

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A male stripper with an uncanny resemblance to the “Magic Mike” star has gained millions of followers on social media.  With nearly 6 million followers on TikTok, the British-born performer is Australia’s most-requested male entertainer, revealing he makes between $700 and $1,000AUD per show, “depending on how long they want me to stay.” The Magic Men co-owner has been performing since 2015, and recently shared the sex question “every girl” asks male strippers: whether they get “excited” during a show.

“We always get this question. But it’s so different—when you’ve got the adrenaline and you’re nervous, and you’re obviously performing in front of sometimes up to 1,000, 2,000 girls in the crowd, it’s the last thing you’re thinking of,” he said. “Even though you’re doing sexual movements or you’re grinding on the girls, you’re not in that mind frame. You don’t think of it as sexual. Because it’s like, I guess, dancing on stage—so you’re just thinking about your choreography.” When asked whether women get handsy, he admitted that “they sometimes do,” explaining “Because I always go on at the end of the show, I always get the drunk girls, and they’re always the hardest to deal with.”

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Check out more about the sex question women always ask male strippers: https://nypost.com/2022/08/15/the-sex-question-women-always-ask-strippers/

Professional Sex Toy Tester Reveals Her Favorite Products

A professional sex toy tester and brand ambassador knows a thing or two about how to get off. She is regularly approached by fans who ask for sex toy suggestions and always takes the time to offer personalized recommendations. “Someone who gets off on clitoral stimulation may not enjoy a penetrative toy, or a g-spot massager. Some people who reach out to me have never orgasmed before at all, and I feel honored that they trust me enough to share their journey with me,” she says. 

She explains that empowering women to enjoy regular orgasms is something that she feels truly passionate about—and is a big believer of starting every day with a climax. She recommends her top five products: Kiss Bullet vibrator, Lelo Enigma, Satisfyer Pro 2, Glow Wand, and Lelo Soraya 2 Deluxe. “I’m proud to be part of something that’s breaking down barriers and empowering Australians to celebrate and explore their sex lives.”

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Check out more about a professional sex toy tester’s favorite adult products: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11055889/Professional-sex-toy-tester-Carly-Sophia-shares-five-buys-bedroom-Wild-Secrets.html

Cyclists Are More Prone To Erectile Dysfunction, Study Finds

Researchers from the New England Research Institutes found that male cyclists are at risk of erectile problems and possibly infertility. The problem is that riding a bike can put pressure on the Alcock canal (no pun intended?), a part of the male anatomy that contains nerves and arteries that feed the genital area, causing loss of sensation and other problems. The good news is the risks are only for cyclists who ride a lot, who are 70 percent more likely than non-cyclists to have moderate or severe erectile dysfunction.

Researchers also found that men who cycled for less than three hours a week not only didn’t have a problem, but that modest levels of cycling seemed to be positively good for their sex lives, with 40 percent less chance of suffering from erectile dysfunction than those who never cycle. Although erectile dysfunction is a common and distressing condition for men, cycling is not up there as a leading cause. Most cases of erectile dysfunction are actually caused by smoking (which doubles your risk), high blood pressure (which also doubles your risk), excessive drinking, being overweight and stress— all in some way affecting blood flow, nerve sensitivity and or hormones such as testosterone.

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Check out more about how avid cycling increases the risk of erectile dysfunction in men: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-10996015/DR-MICHAEL-MOSLEY-cycling-hayfever-pills-bad-news-mans-love-life.html

Top Doctor Claims ‘Blue Balls’ Is Real

A high-profile Australian GP claims “blue balls” is real and not simply an excuse men come up with when they want sex. “Blue balls” refers to physical discomfort in the testicles caused by prolonged sexual arousal without ejaculation. Dr Sam Hay says the phenomenon does in fact exist—and there is evidence to prove it.

He explained: “If you become aroused for a long time, you get lots of blood going down to the testicles and it increases the pressure. And if you don’t [ejaculate] then that pressure becomes achy… I’ve found out that there’s research out there to prove that it exists.” Dr Hay stressed that testicles don’t actually go “blue” but they can take on “a sort of blue hue” because of the color of blood. He added that the pain and color will “disappear shortly afterwards,” and that if a man feels significant, prolonged pain in the testicles then it’s “another problem.”

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Check out more about a doctor claiming “blue balls” is real: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-11051631/KIIS-FM-doctor-says-men-blue-balls-prolonged-arousal.html

Couples Are Experimenting With ‘Soft Swinging’

Some couples are finding clever ways to add spice to their sex lives: “soft swapping.” These kinksters cavort naked with other couples in hotel rooms and at sex parties without ever “going all the way.” “Soft-swapping”—or “soft-swinging”—is unusual enough that even noted sexperts weren’t overly familiar with the topic until a TikTok went viral and brought attention to the saucy lifestyle.

Experts say the practice can be a safer way for couples to get kinky: “It could be a risk-mitigation strategy in that it allows for some degree of sexual novelty without taking as much risk for STIs and/or unintended pregnancy,” one said. While fucking isn’t on the menu, threesomes, foursomes, making out, foreplay, mutual masturbation and oral sex are. “Another benefit of soft-swapping for women is that we have so many parts that feel good when touched, and realistically one person can’t get to all of them at once,” one “soft-swinger” explained about indulging her “feminist” fantasies.

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Check out more about “soft swingers”: https://nypost.com/2022/06/13/were-soft-swingers-and-our-marriage-has-never-been-better/