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Lust For Life: Why Sex Is Better In Your 80s

Image Source: Georgie Pauwels on Flickr
Image Source: Georgie Pauwels on Flickr

We’ve got good news about aging: it’s possible you could enjoy a later-life sexual peak. People in their 80s who still get frisky are often looked at as a curiosity, but lately research has shown that some older folks enjoy an active sex life. It seems older people find the emotional side of sex more fulfilling and share more sexual compatibility with their partners than in their 50s, 60s and 70s, a time of middle-age when many experience a sexual drought.

While it’s true that the majority of older people don’t have a robust sex life, as researchers say, “Among those who were [sexually active], it was quite interesting that they seemed happy with their sexual lives.” These octogenarians are considered “the healthiest people in older ager,” and there’s even been several documentaries made about their swinging sexual lifestyles, including one featuring an 80-year-old burlesque dancer and another with a 82-year-old who loves Grindr and reportedly “had sex eight times in seven days!” If these frisky older folks are any indication, aging doesn’t need to mean slowing down in the bedroom!

Got a lust for life yourself? Come find fulfilling experiences right here!

Check out more about why sex is better in yours 80s: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/shortcuts/2017/feb/14/lust-for-life-why-sex-is-better-in-your-80s

Rube Goldberg Machine Made of Sex Toys Rings in the New Year 

RubeWhat better way to ring in the new year than with a Rube Goldberg machine made entirely of sex toys? The sound effects and mind-blowing climax was the perfect way for Super Deluxe to start off 2017 (watch video below). Send this to all your loved ones!

The ball from a ball-gag starts rolling, bouncing off a big black dildo and working its way down a shaft until it reaches a Fleshlight that continues the ball on its journey. It sets off a flying car around a winding track that says “Mmmm…” and knocks over a string of dominoes around a silicone breast, setting another ball down a chute to some silicone asses. By sheer physics, the asses get whipped, slapped and paddled, which sends a bowling bowl past several dildo-levers, inflating a plastic sex doll. The big climax comes when, after knocking over some sex tapes past a ball pit of inflatable boobs, a man squeezes a pair of plastic breasts, causing a vibrator to unroll a giant “Happy New Year 2017!” banner and to set off a fireworks spraying dildo!

Has your 2017 started off with a bang? We can help make sure of that! 

Check out the Rube Goldberg machine made of sex toys here.

21-Year-Old With Giant Footlong Dick Answered Questions On Reddit

measurement-1476913_640A 21-year-old generously answered dozens of questions about his giant 12-inch cock on Reddit! He claims to be 8 inches soft and 12 inches hard and, if you don’t believe the hype, he shared proof of his massive endowment (check out images on the Gaily Grind linked below). Here’s his most interesting responses to all your burning questions.

When asked if he’s ever tried to suck his own dick, which he’s nicknamed “Thor,” he responded that he has, but surprisingly, it was “not as great as it seems!” He said that he does have to masturbate with two hands, but generally tries not to because “I have enough sex and save it for that!” Believe it or not, he says girls are willing to have anal sex with him, and, “yes they survived.” Interestingly, women stare at his dick “all day every day in public.” His response: “my eyes are up here.”

Looking to have an intense experience yourself? Come try something new and exciting right here!

Check out more about the man with a giant footlong dick and see his pics by visiting Gaily Grind

5 Things They Teach You At Blowjob School 

woman-609252_640Have you ever been curious about what goes down at those blowjob workshops? Well, thanks to the sex educators and other experts from around the country who’ve generously shared their expertise, now you can find out! Here’s their best advice from BJ classes.

  1. Start slow
    A sex and kink coach says, “Just let them experience the warmth of your breath and wetness of your tongue then gently begin to suck. Anticipation will make your partner even hotter.” Ooh, the anticipation!
  2. Use lube
    People often think that their own saliva is enough to do the trick, but sexperts advise starting off with some lube to get things nice and wet. They also recommend sucking on hard, sugar-free candy to build up the saliva in your mouth, then “after a few minutes, you may build up enough of your own juices to keep the action going.”
  3. Get hands-on
    According to sex educators, this is the trick to a great blowjob: “Remember: A good blow job is 50 percent hands. https://www.niteflirt.com/goody/search?text=handjobUsing your hands, with even pressure and friction in concert with your mouth, does more than what your mouth can do on its own.”
  4. Know your curves to maximize deep-throating
    Deep throating is 10 percent inspiration and 90 percent working with the curve and angle of your partner’s dick. For example, if you’re working with a dick that’s curved or angled upward, “have them lie down on a bed, kneel next to them facing their feet, and lean down until you’re comfortable. From there, open your throat like you would for a yawn ― now your partner’s penis can slide down your throat at a more comfortable and natural angle.” Like a glove!
  5. Don’t forget “the boys”
    Seriously—don’t! At blowjob workshops, sexperts encourage you to get well acquainted with the balls if you want to give a good blowjob: “I encourage starting your blow job here, actually; spending a bit of time with ‘the boys’ helps boost his arousal before you start bobbing.”

Looking for a successful sexual experience? Come learn from the masters right here!

Check out more tips from blowjob school: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/blow-job-school-lessons_us_58894b3fe4b0737fd5cb8621

Portland’s Kinky Coffee Shop Is Spearheading Alternative Sexual Lifestyle

coffeeIf there’s two things Portland loves, it’s coffee and sex. And now the city which proudly boasts the most strip clubs per capita is combining its two loves—with a kinky new coffee shop! The MoonFrye Cafe is the nation’s second-ever sex-positive coffee shop where customers can meet, drink coffee, learn about sex, and get kinky. The dedicated spot for coffee enthusiasts who are also members of the kink and BDSM communities is spearheading the alternative sexual lifestyle.

While you can’t bring food or beverages into the dungeon, you can sit with a latte and watch an ex-military sergeant called “Puppy” bark like a dog in a Polyamory workshop. As Willamette Week says, “You can go to classes covering everything from ‘electrical play’ to the master/slave relationship to high protocol service to a monthly Fetish Night.” It also features handcrafted sex toys, leather items and paddles from local vendors, a play room to cater to blood and scalpel play and an after care room where you can heal. Kink University called Portland the “Kinkiest City in America,” and it sure seems to be living up to its reputation.

Feel like getting a nice pick me up yourself? Let NiteFlirt perk you up—before tying you up!

Check out more about Portland’s kinky new coffee shop here: https://www.wweek.com/culture/2017/02/07/at-long-last-portland-has-the-kinky-coffee-shop-its-needed/

Record Numbers of Couples Living In Sexless Marriages In Japan

PikachuSexA recent report found that nearly half of Japanese married couples have not had sex for more than a month, which is defined as a “sexless” marriage. The Guardian reports, “A record high 47.2% of married men and women said they were in sexless marriages, up 2.6 percentage points from the previous poll in 2014, and significantly higher than the 31.9% recorded when it conducted its first survey of the nation’s bedroom habits in 2004.”

So what could be to blame for the country’s tragic loss of libido? Since the highest rate of sexlessness was found among people in their mid-to-late 40s, a time when the demands of work can be at its highest, it’s clear that Japan needs to do more for its hard-working, sex-starved citizens. The report said, “This is the first time over 30% of men answered that they were too tired from work to have sex”—this shocking percentage highlights the need for a major overhaul in employment practices. Japan should remember this very important proverb: all work and no play makes couples very dull.

Looking for a little “play” yourself? We’re never too tired here at NiteFlirt!

Check out more about Japan’s record-high sexless marriages: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/feb/14/record-numbers-of-couples-living-in-sexless-marriages-in-japan-says-report

British Athletes Claim ‘Sex Ghost’ Haunted Their Reality Show 

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_orgasm8Two British athletes are scaring up publicity for their new reality show in a very spooky—or is it sexy?—way. The stars of “The Jump,” a show where celebrities compete in snow sports, claim that a sex ghost haunted their hotel rooms. During the episode, British paralympian Kadeena Cox reportedly asked for a new room after an alleged paranormal sexual encounter, which retired rugby star Gareth Thomas concurred.

“She had a ghost going in and out of her. She had a sleep thing,” he said, according to the Sun. “She wishes it were a person…”. The feeling was apparently so real to her, she asked for a room change, as did Thomas. Ghost sex is actually not that new—just last year, Bobby Brown promoted his autobiography by a claiming he had sex with a ghost—and he also clarified, “I was not high.” Kesha also recently claimed to have had a randy romp with a male ghost. While there are people called “spectrophilliacs” who fantasize about spooky sexual encounters, the reality show sex ghost was probably a vivid sexual hallucination common to people going in and out of sleep…or was it?

Looking for an out-of-this-world experience? Let’s get spooky!

Check out more about a sex ghost haunting a reality show here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/kadeena-cox-gareth-thomas-sex-ghost_us_5898bee8e4b09bd304bca6b5

Porn Site Reroutes Utah Traffic To Sex Ed Videos

LetsTalkSexThe popular porn site xHamster has the perfect response to Utah lawmaker’s recent decision to reject a bill that would have offered parents the choice of opting their children into comprehensive sex ed as an alternative to abstinence-only education: it’s sending traffic to the site from Utah to sex ed videos! “Beginning immediately, we’re rerouting all xHamster traffic from Utah to our comprehensive sex ed series, The Box,” said xHamster. “We’ve been working on The Box since last year, producing videos based on questions submitted by porn viewers.”

Utahans are being served with a popup reading, “Can we turn the thirstiest state in the nation into the smartest?” (A 2009 report found that Utah ranked No. 1 in subscriptions to porn sites.) Visitors redirected to the not at all explicit The Box can find videos like “the secret to anal sex” and ask questions like “How do you have an orgasm” instead of getting an eyeful of porn. As the site explained, “While we love porn, we don’t think that it should be relied on for sex ed any more than Star Wars is a substitute for science class.” May the force be with you, xHamster.

Looking for something explicit yourself? We give the best hands-on sex education this side of Utah!

Check out more about xHamster redirecting Utah porn traffic to sex ed videos here: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/xhamster-reroutes-traffic-sex-ed-videos/

Miranda Kerr and Evan Spiegel Aren’t Fucking Until Marriage

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sex9It seems post-virginal chastity is all the rage among attractive, famous millennials. Miranda Kerr—confirmed non-virgin—and her finance, Snapchat founder, Evan Spiegel, are the two latest celebrities waiting until marriage to have sex…for some reason. In a recent interview with the Times of London, Kerr told a reporter that she doesn’t use contraception with her current partner: “Not until after we get married,” she said.

“[Spiegel] is very traditional. We can’t…I mean we’re just…waiting,” she said. Kerr and Spiegel are joining other high-profile straight couples like Ciara and Russell Wilson in going public with their sexless relationship, either for “traditional” reasons or because, as recent studies have shown, millennials just aren’t that interested in sex. It’s unclear whether Spiegel is a virgin, but if he and Kerr are any indication, it seems more young “born-again” virgins are sure to pop up in the gossip pages.

Feeling frisky? Why wait?—we say fucking is all the rage at NiteFlirt!

Check out more about Miranda Kerr and Evan Spiegel waiting until marriage to get it on: https://jezebel.com/miranda-kerr-and-evan-spiegel-arent-fucking-until-marri-1792181941

Kinky Pictures Explore the Gritty Underworld of BDSM

womandominatingmanNew York photographer Samir Abady’s new photo series, Kink, dives deep into the sultry world of BDSM. He tells BuzzFeed, “Kink examines the experiences of dominatrixes, their personal lives, their professional personae, and the blurry world in between.” From images of tools of the trade in dungeons to erotic moments between submissives and dominatrixes, these pictures explore the many kinky facets of BDSM.

In one photo, a dominatrix named Mistress Blunt completely mummifies her client in duct tape and binds his hands with rope so that he is able to fully enter “a world of fantasy.” In another, submissive Tiffany Minx rubs Madam Cureux’s assistant’s feet in an exercise in discipline, before being led around the basement on a leash. The last photo is of Mistress Bumpy tying up her ‘vanilla’ friends who want to experiment with BDSM. According to Abady, the many subjects he follows in the series represent “different aspects of the community,” which he hopes to showcase in a very kinky book.

Want to explore your kinky side? Come enter a world of fantasy right here!

Check out more about the photo series which explores the BDSM lifestyle: https://www.buzzfeed.com/gabrielsanchez/21-kinky-pictures-from-the-gritty-underworld-of-bdsm