Katy Perry Admits Breakout Hit Was Inspired By Her Sexual Experiences

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_girls_eatingKaty Perry has finally decided to come clean about her erotic breakout song “I Kissed A Girl.” The pop singer, who was just 23-years-old when she recorded the hit, has long denied that it was based on her own sexual experiences in real life—until now. Finally, the former Christian pop star has revealed that the catchy tune was actually inspired by real events in her own sex life as a young woman.

Perry told an audience at the Human Rights Campaign recently that not only did she actually “kiss a girl and like it,” but “Truth be told, I did more than that.” She added that while the song is based on true events, it is a “fantasy” painted into a pop tune. As a gospel singer raised in “youth groups that were pro conversion camps” she struggled with her own sexual desires toward other women: “What I did know was that I was curious, and even then I knew that sexuality was not as black and white as this dress.” We say: do what you like, Katy Perry!

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Check out more about Katy Perry’s belated confession about actually kissing a girl here: https://www.thegailygrind.com/2017/03/19/katy-perrys-says-breakout-hit-inspired-sexual-experiences-just-kiss-girl/

Everything You Need To Know About Fat Sex Week 

iStock_000006247668SmallThe blogger behind “queer fat femme,” Bevin Branlandingham, wants to change the way we think of fat bodies and banging—and she’s now dedicating an entire week to doing just that. Fat Sex Week is an eight-day blog series exploring “fat sex” in all its varied and hot forms. As a self-identified fat, queer woman who performs burlesque and comedy, her aim with Fat Sex Week is to both empower and educate people about the joys of fat sex.

“For Fat Sex Week, I always aim it at other fat people who want to have better sex but it’s also helpful to show people who are not fat that fat people are sexual and deserve sex and all bodies are deserving of sex just as they are,” Branlandingham tells HuffPo. Her approach to fat sex, queer sex, or really any “good quality sex” is the same: “being open to adapting and creating in the way that creates the most pleasure for everyone involved.” She also wants to correct the misconception that fat people “are not fuckable”—like she says, “fat people are wildly fuckable.” Ultimately, she wants people to feel good in their bodies, and to have great sex!

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Check out more about Fat Sex Week: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/fat-sex-week-bevin-branlandingham_us_58d950eee4b03787d35adc9e

Coffee Shop With ‘Naked’ Waitresses Cover Nipples With Tiny Stickers 

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_pizzaA risque coffee shop in Washington is giving customers the jolt they’re after with its semi-nude baristas. The gimmick is simple: glamorous women serve up hot beverages in hardly any clothes at all. Baristas can opt to wear a skimpy bikini, but most cover their nipples with tiny stickers paired with some very revealing underwear.

Inevitably, the coffee shop’s alternative dress code has drawn criticism from Washington residents, despite its soaring ratings on Yelp. But the female owner maintains the sexy uniform is a way to “empower women” by helping them to “feel good about themselves.” She says, “Women everywhere have the right to vote, to be gay, to be successful community leaders and business owners, or even run for president.” Not surprisingly, the mostly male clientele agree with the owner, claiming it’s nothing but harmless fun.

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Check out more about the coffee shop with bikini-clad baristas: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/coffee-shop-backlash-naked-waitresses-10061506

East Asia Has a ‘Japanese Fetish’ 

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_japangirlResearchers believe that East Asia may have a “Japanese fetish.” According to PornMD, eight disparate East Asian countries all share the same kinky penchant for Japanese porn. Data shows that while people from a country will most often seek out porn of their own nationality (In the Philippines, they search for Filipinos, and so on), in these East Asian countries, they all search for “Japan.”

Even though South Koreans love them some American porn, “Japanese” remains one of the most popular search terms there and in every other East Asian country. This could have to do with the massiveness of Japan’s porn industry, which rakes in 20 billion dollars annually and popularized anime and hentai/tentacle porn. Or perhaps a different phenomenon is at play: the Guardian recently reported that many people in Japan have stopped having sex because it takes too much effort. If there’s one thing for sure it’s this: porn is what unites us!

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Check out more about East Asia’s ‘Japanese Fetish’: https://www.dailydot.com/news/east-asia-porn-md-data-japan-fetish/

Sex Makes You Better At Your Job, Study Says 

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sex9We all know sex is good for the mind, body, and soul, but new evidence suggests it can actually help you perform better at work, too. According to a psychology study at Oregon State University, fucking at home makes you do better at the office. Researchers surveyed 159 married couples, who largely reported a “morning positive effect” at work the next day after a night of good sex.

There was even a correlation between nightly banging and high job satisfaction, low stress levels, and marital satisfaction. While it’s unclear whether the people in the study were simply happier and therefore had more sex and more job satisfaction, or if having sex led them to do better at work, the study is further proof that there are undeniably positive benefits of getting laid. “This is a reminder that sex has social, emotional and physiological benefits, and it’s important to make it a priority,” the lead author of the study said. “Just make time for it.”

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Check out more about the study that shows sex can make you better at your job: https://gizmodo.com/sex-makes-life-better-study-says-1793017172

Vibrator Maker To Pay Millions For Secretly Tracking Users’ Sexual Activity

magicwandarthistoryWe-Vibe, a line of “smart” vibrators that can be paired with an app for remote-controlled use, is paying out big time after a class action settlement alleging it collected data on users’ sex lives. Though We-Vibe has not admitted to any wrongdoing, the makers have agreed to pay around $3.75 million for tracking customers’ sexual activity without their knowledge. The lawsuit claims that the app “was designed to collect information about how often, and with what settings, the vibrator was used,” according to NPR.

Allegedly, the company collected users’ email addresses and usage data, which they then linked to a partner company remotely. We-Vibe maintains that users “consented to” having their data collected, but the sex toy company is still refunding up to $199 to anyone who bought an app-enabled vibrator, and up to $10,000 to anyone who actually connected it to the app. According to court documents, it’s estimated that 300,000 people bought WeVibes, and about 100,000 of them used the app. Naughty, naughty, peeping sex toy!

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Check out more about We-Vibe paying out millions for tracking users’ sex lives: https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2017/mar/14/we-vibe-vibrator-tracking-users-sexual-habits

Sex Doll Brothel Opens In Barcelona

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A brothel that seems like it’s straight out of a Westworld fantasy recently opened in Barcelona. It’s the first known “sexstablishement” of its kind, offering erotic sessions with sex dolls only. Clients pay $127 an hour for a sex session with one of four big-breasted artificial “mates”: blonde, asian, ebony, and anime. Clients can request clothing and positions for sex sessions in a private room.

“They are totally realistic dolls both in their movements and in their ‘feel,’ and they will allow you to fulfill all your fantasies,” say the manufacturers of the ultra-lifelike dolls. A sex doll brothel allows people the opportunity to affordably fuck a silicone sex doll, since they are expensive to own (costing around $5,500). The brothel asks clients to wear a condom, and dolls are disinfected after use. Here’s another step towards the future of realistic, artificial sex partners!

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Check out more about the sex doll brothel in Barcelona: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/sex-doll-barcelona-brothel_us_58b8ad10e4b0d2821b4cddb8

Goop’s Guide To Anal Sex

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In the latest issue of Goop’s newsletter, The Sex Issue, Gwyneth Paltrow dishes on swinger’s parties, sex toys, BDSM, porn, and even anal sex. “If anal turns you on, you are definitely not alone,” Paltrow begins, citing a CDC report stating that 30 to 40 per cent of heterosexual men and women have tried it. Her article is meant to inform curious straight people about the joys and realities of butt-sex.

She says that while porn makes it look easy, you definitely need to be prepared before taking it in the butt. The sexpert she consults adds that lube is necessary, as are condoms to protect against STD’s. To make the experience enjoyable, it’s also important to warm up the area first with some ass-play and to find the right angle so that the dick doesn’t hit the rectal wall. The sexpert also warns against being inebriated or using numbing lube, so that you can be fully aware of every sensation and respond accordingly. The guide also includes a round-up of Goop’s favorite ass-play sex toys!

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Check out more about Goop’s guide to anal: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4343520/Gwyneth-Paltrow-s-Goop-publishes-anal-sex-guide.html

You Can Now Give Cunnilingus Long Distance By Licking Your Phone 

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The latest app in virtual sex lets users perform cunnilingus just by licking their phones. The “O-Cast” is a way for long distance lovers to upload simulated oral sex sessions that can be downloaded on to a vibrator via bluetooth. The product’s spokesperson is calling it the “iTunes for oral sex,” since the plan is to offer various tongue patterns for download at the website.

It works by a person downloading the app that records vibratory patterns made by licking the phone screen or using their fingers. The patterns can be anything from circles, straight lines, or even the alphabet, which are then connected to a remote control vibrator. It’s also a great way for cam girls to let fans “perform” oral sex on them during private shows. There are currently 12 sample “orgasms” available for download, which sell for $100 a pop.

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Check out more about the app that lets you give cunnilingus: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/ocast-oral-sex-phone-lick_us_58c07d18e4b0d1078ca3b6b1

Does ‘Gaydar’ Exist? Science Has the Answer

GayDar copyThink you may have ‘gaydar’? Well, a new study claims it has the long-awaited answer to whether it exists. Researchers at University of Wisconsin-Madison’s Department of Psychology conducted a study to determine if some people really are able to ‘detect’ another’s sexuality—which they’re confident will finally debunk the myth once and for all.

Participants were instructed to look at the social media profiles of different men and then asked to determine whether they were gay or straight. The profiles either had stereotypically gay or stereotypically straight interests, and interestingly, the participants who were told gaydar is real stereotyped much more than those who were told that gaydar is just another term for stereotyping. According to the researchers, “These patterns provided strong support for the idea that belief in gaydar encourages stereotyping by simply disguising it under a different label.” The study’s takeaway is simple: “Encouraging stereotyping under the guise of gaydar contributes—directly or indirectly—to stereotyping’s downstream consequences.” In other words, gaydar only perpetuates prejudice.

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Check out more about the study that debunks gaydar here: https://www.thegailygrind.com/2017/03/20/gaydar-actually-exist-science-finally-long-awaited-answer/