Category: Insights

7 Things Your Pussy Wants You To Know About Masturbation

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_vibrator1BuzzFeed wants to know: “Have you appreciated your clitoris lately?” The reason they ask is because masturbation is amazing, and so good for your mind and body! Here are 7 ways to do right by your pussy.

  1. Masturbation should never be treated as a “stand-in for sex”
    Masturbation is its own unique and important sexual outlet—as one sex therapist explains, it should be “regarded as first class” and not “relegated to a second-class citizenship.” She adds that it’s “a lifelong relationship you have with your body and with your own sexuality.”
  2. It ain’t all about the Big O
    The ultimate goal of masturbation shouldn’t be about having an orgasm—in fact, it could be giving you performance anxiety. She advises women to “just focus on pleasuring yourself without worrying about whether or not you get off.”
  3. Use your digits before graduating to toys
    Figuring out how to get yourself off first without a toy sets a good foundation before experimenting with different kinds of orgasms. “Learn your baseline, and then you can go wild,” she says.
  4. Use the clit!
    This is the main reason women have trouble orgasming. Get a vibrator and go get off!
  5. Plenty of people require simultaneous stimulation of various erogenous zones for the best orgasm, too
    If clitoral stimulation isn’t working for you, play around with penetrating yourself, or exploring other erogenous zones!
  6. Besides being super fun and feeling great, there are health benefits to masturbation
    “It relieves stress, it helps you feel more relaxed, and it boosts endorphins and testosterone levels, which can improve your mood,” according to the sexpert.
  7. Masturbating can help you enjoy sex with other people more
    As the sexperts explain, if you don’t know what feels good to you, how will you be able to guide a partner? Your pleasure starts with knowing your body, exploring your body, and embracing your sexual health.

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Check out more female masturbation tips here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/the-clit-is-it?utm_term=.xlxyb7R9G5#.lcd5MYZAzb

Tennis Match Gets Interrupted By Sounds Of Loud Sex Nearby

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexybucketlistWhat is it about tennis that is just so damn sexy? Maybe it’s all the grunting, the sweating, the excitement? Well, during a recent tennis match between Frances Tiafoe and Mitchell Krueger at the Sarasota Open in Florida, the unmistakable sounds of two people going at it brought the already smokin’ hot sport to the next level (check out the video below)!

“Well that is … the most bizarre situation,” the announcer said when the excited screams could be heard loud and clear. Even Tiafoe, mid-game, when he could no longer ignore the loud sex moans coming from across the lake, shouted out, “It can’t be that good!” Then the announcer added, “At least somebody’s having a good night,” to the orgasmic commotion. Later, Tiafoe tweeted that the sex noises were definitely real and that “I couldn’t be happier when I heard that.” All that hot sexual energy must have had a positive effect on Tiafoe—he won the match!

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Check out the video of loud sex noises interrupting a tennis match here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tennis-match-gets-interrupted-by-sounds-of-loud-sex-nearby_us_58f77a05e4b05b9d613f0084

Fox News Host Cracks Oral Sex Joke About Ivanka Trump

ivankaIt seems Fox News just can’t stay away from controversy lately. Jesse Watters, the new co-host of Fox’s The Five, cracked an inappropriate sex joke about Ivanka Trump in the middle of a news segment. After discussing the first daughter getting booed at a women’s conference, Watters ended his commentary by saying he “really liked how she was speaking into that microphone.”

Watters then smirked slyly into the camera before his co-host abruptly changed the subject away from the remark. As Daily Dot explains, “Watter’s pause and expression, along with the closeness with which Ivanka held the microphone to her mouth, made it clear to most of the internet that the Fox host was making an oral sex joke at Ivanka’s expense.” The internet either agreed with Watters or called him out for being a “full blown creeper of women,” as one Twitter user put it. Watters has denied that he made a dirty joke, claiming he was referring to how her voice was “low and steady and resonates like a smooth-jazz radio DJ.” Hmm—yeah, that sounds totally innocent.

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Check out more about the Fox News lewd sex joke about Ivanka Trump here: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/jesse-watters-oral-sex-ivanka-trump/

People Who Believe in a Sexual ‘Soulmate’ Have Worse Sex, Study Finds

oldsexA recent study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that a person’s sexual satisfaction has a lot to do with their beliefs. The study’s researchers focused on two pervasive beliefs: that good sex comes from working at it with their partner (sexual growth) or that it’s the result of natural compatibility (sexual destiny). To figure out which perspective leads to better sex, the researchers first measured where participants fell on the spectrum of sexual beliefs, and then asked them questions like “Sexual relationships often fail because people do not try hard enough” and “If a relationship is meant to be, sex is easy and wonderful.”

Ultimately, researchers found that “individuals reported more positive sexual experiences and higher relationship quality when they more strongly endorsed the notion that sexual satisfaction requires work.” They also found that those who believed in a so-called “sexual soulmate,” or someone who can magically fulfill them sexually without any effort or work, had much more frustrating, disappointing sex. Interestingly, men tended to believe in sexual destiny much more than women—probably because women often have to work harder than men to achieve sexual satisfaction. The study shows that it’s important to put romantic myths aside and focus on what actually creates a long-term, sexually fulfilling sex life: effort and hard work!

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Check out more about the study that shows that those who believe in sexual soulmates have worse sex:https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/people-who-believe-in-a-sexual-soulmate-have-worse-sex-study-says

A Handy Brief Guide For Having Casual Sex In India

IMG_7259A smart, sex-positive 24-year-old on Twitter started a thread to help Indian people learn the rules for having casual sex. She learned that many people in India–especially women–have no idea about many important rules for safe, casual sex. Her goal is to educate those who want to have some no strings attached fun, because as she says, “the rules for fucking people casually are very different from dating.” Here’s her handy guide for having casual sex in India, but is useful for anyone who wants to keep it casual (check out the complete thread below).

  1. Always use condoms
    Her message is simple: “It doesn’t matter if you know the person or not. If you’re fucking them make sure the guy is wearing a condom.”
  2. Use condoms for oral sex, too
    STD’s can be spread by giving head, so always make sure to stay protected when having oral sex as well as PIV sex.
  3. Have safe words when getting kinky
    If you’re looking to get into some kinkier stuff like BDSM, both parties should make sure they articulate what they want so everyone’s on the same page.
  4. If you’re heading for the backdoor, make sure you get cleaned up before having vaginal sex
    Gotta protect the pussy from infection, people!
  5. Talk it out!
    You want to make sure you’re comfortable, communicating, and that everything is fully consensual. This is the best way to have great, casual sex!

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Check out more about the rules for having casual sex in India (and the rest of the world) on Buzzfeed! 

Meghan Trainor’s New Bae Is All About Her bASS

set1143011You may remember Meghan Trainor from her ridiculously popular hit, “All About That Bass.” In case you were too caught up in the catchy rhythm to get what the song is about, it’s an anthem celebrating the singer’s thick, voluptuous ass! As Trainor told Billboard, “You know how the bass guitar in a song is like its ‘thickness,’ the ‘bottom’? I kind of related a body to that.” Well, now she’s got another fan of her sweet, juicy bASS—her hot new boyfriend, actor Daryl Sabara from Spy Kids.

In the upcoming issue of Cosmopolitan, Trainor opens up about their relationship—and the really amazing, super hot sex they’re having! “I never really felt sexy with guys before. No one expressed how they liked my body out loud in the bedroom until I met Daryl,” she said. “He is obsessed with it —every inch. And that has improved my confidence more than even “Bass” did. He’s a champion, so we’re in heaven.” Loud bedroom sex while enjoying every inch of the “boom boom that all the boys chase”?—get it, girl!

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Check out more about all the hot sex Meghan Trainor and her new guy are having: https://www.buzzfeed.com/christianzamora/meghan-trainor-and-the-spy-dick?utm_term=.emGMjKw4md#.egGZ7N5dBY

Janelle Monáe Thinks Women Should Consider a Sex Strike

rondaJanelle Monáe is making waves this week for her radical approach to women’s rights: a sex strike! The hot young artist recently told Marie Claire that she supports the idea of withholding sex as a form of protest. Under the tag line “The Future Is Female,” Monáe, who performed at the Women’s March in January, explains that she’d be okay with women having a sex strike, also known as the “Lysistratic non-action” approach.

“People have to start respecting the vagina,” Monáe says. “Until every man is fighting for our rights, we should consider stopping having sex.” Though she admits that she “loves men,” she says that she will not tolerate a man who doesn’t “realize our power and our magic”—and by “power,” she’s talking about “pussy power,” of course. Many have rightfully responded that such an extreme act would be punishment for women, too. After all, how can a pussy use its magic if it can’t cast any spells?

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Check out more about Janelle Monáe’s proposed sex strike: https://jezebel.com/janelle-monae-thinks-women-should-consider-a-sex-strike-1794171500

Those Good Vibes You Feel After Sex Can Last For 48 Hours, Study Finds

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_havingsexYou’ve probably noticed how your mood improves after sex, thanks to a flood of endorphins and other feel-good chemicals in your body. But what if we told you those post-sex good vibes can actually last days? It’s true: a new study suggests that the positive effects of getting laid can last for up to two days—not to mention the relationship benefits, which can last months.

A team of researchers at Florida State University examined data from hundreds of newlywed couples, who were asked to report how satisfied they were with three things: their sex life, their partner and their relationship as a whole. Unsurprisingly, when the couples had sex, they felt increased sexual and relationship satisfaction—but what’s interesting is that the “afterglow” effect lasted up to 48 hours. Not only that, but they were also happy with their relationships for months afterward! So, there you have it: science says get it on!

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Check out more about how the benefits of sex can last 48 hours: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/those-good-vibes-you-feel-after-sex-can-last-for-48-hours-study-finds_us_58d3f3b2e4b0b22b0d1aa255

Pregnant Sex Worker Fully Embraces Pregnancy Fetish


Pregnant sex worker Summer Sebastian will not be taking any time off from her job at the Bunny Ranch, the infamous legal brothel in the state of Nevada. The 30-year-old, who’s in her second trimester, plans to “publicly, regularly and most of all proudly” blog about her experience as a “prego-working girl”—right up until she gives birth. For Sebastian, keeping her job is not only a personal decision, but also a political one: “I want to make a statement that supports the right of a woman to choose…to work as a prostitute while pregnant!”

Sebastian makes the point that, contrary to myths, sex during pregnancy is safe—and even beneficial—as long as condoms are used, which is a requirement at the Bunny Ranch. And she’s fully embracing the clients who get to live out their fantasy of being with a pregnant woman: she says, “[A]dding this creative component to my parties with my clients has just made sex that much more exciting, and interesting!” She adds, “I know being with a pregnant girl sexually is a HUGE sex fetish for a lot of people, and I sure hope to accommodate you over the next six months!”

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Check out more about the pregnant sex worker fully embracing pregnancy fetish: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/pregnant-sex-worker/

Stunned Passer-by Catches Two Couples Having Public Sex Side-By-Side

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexybucketlistYou’ve heard of couples getting caught having sex in public—but how about two couples at the same time? A shocked passer-by caught footage of the scandalous scene outside a large UK superstore. In the video, two couples can be seen having shameless, hot sex side-by-side.

“The footage shows two men with their female partners up against a wall in a flowerbed next to the superstore in Huddersfield’s town centre,” reports UK Daily Mail. The eight-second clip was posted on Facebook and viewed more than 52,000 times and commented on more than 600 times before finally being removed. The cameraman has chosen to remain anonymous, but it’s not clear why the horny couples allowed him to film them having sex. “I’m shocked that people are doing this in 2017. They didn’t say anything when I filmed them, I think they were embarrassed. I told them to get home,” the man said.

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Check out more about the couples having public sex side-by-side: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4356302/Passer-catches-TWO-couples-having-sex-side.html