Category: Insights

Women and Men Talk About Their Sex Lives For Four Hours Every Month

18501126518_249aa0ec57_zWhat happens in the bedroom doesn’t usually stay in the bedroom, according to a new study. As it turns out, 76 percent of Americans talk about their sex lives with another person at least once a month. In fact, the average person spends around four hours per month sharing intimate details about their sexual encounters with friends.

The survey of 2,000 adults in long-term relationships found that the most frequently discussed topics were related to how good the sex was, how long it lasted, the setting of the encounter, and, not surprisingly, dick size. It also found that 37 percent of respondents are honest about the sex, while around 30 percent exaggerate their stories, either to cause jealousy or because they’re actually bored with their sex lives. Respondents said they dished on the sex mainly as a way to catch up with friends—literally about the most intimate details of their lives.

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Check out more about the study that shows most Americans talk about their sex lives: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5093811/People-spend-FOUR-HOURS-month-discussing-sex-lives.html

7 Sex Horror Stories That Will Make You Say ‘OMG, Are They Okay?’

wtf-1780728_640BuzzFeed recently asked readers to share the most hilarious, horrific, and weird things that ever happened during an orgasm. And boy did they deliver! These hilarious sex horror stories will make you say “OMG” at the ridiculously unfortunate timing.

  1. Accidental threesome
    “One night, we were in missionary position with her legs up on my shoulders. Just as we were both in the throes of orgasm, her dog, who had apparently snuck up on the bed, jammed his cold little nose right up between my cheeks as I was finishing.” Bad boy!
  2. TIIIIMBEER
    “After a particularly intense session with my fiancé, I hopped off the bed to clean myself up and collapsed onto the floor. My legs were still shaky and not cooperating. He’s laughing, I’m laughing — then I pee myself.” Intense!
  3. Unexpected reaction
    “My boyfriend was going down on me for the first time and instead of having an orgasm, I had a full-blown panic attack. He had no idea what was going on and thought I was enjoying it, until I kicked him in the head.” When losing complete control goes wrong…
  4. Pleasure-pain
    “One time I had a VERY intense orgasm while using my vibrator, and ended up kneeing myself in the face which resulted in a very messy bloody nose. Still no regrets though.” I hope they teach kickboxing!
  5. The worst intruder
    “My girlfriend at the time was giving me a BJ. My dad opened the door and ended up staring me right in the eyes as I finished. Horrifying.” Just. The. Worst. Thing. Ever.
  6. After-O surprise
    “When my boyfriend and I were still in the early months of dating, we were doing it missionary style. Right after he came, he let out a huge fart.” Is it a compliment, like belching after a good meal?
  7. So good it makes you break into song
    “My then-boyfriend (current fiancé) made me orgasm so hard I started crying and singing “The Circle of Life” from Lion King. Still don’t know why a kid’s movie came to mind.” That was one powerful orgasm!

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Check out more sex horror stories: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/orgasm-horror-stories

You’ll Never Guess What the Most Dangerous Sex Position Is

sexy-scientistWe’re willing to bet you’ll never guess which sex positions are the most dangerous. A recent study revealed that it’s actually the most basic sex positions that are the riskiest. As it turns out, doggy style is the position that causes the most ER-related injuries—closely followed by missionary.

Researchers looked into the sex lives of 90 patients, aged 18 to 66, who suffered penile fracture, and found that vanilla sex positions were most often to blame. In 69 cases (!), doggy style caused 37 injuries, missionary caused 23, and woman-on-top caused nine. Researchers say that while it can be difficult in the heat of the moment to “go a bit easier,” men should remember to “take firm hold of their partner’s hips to ensure they stay in position.” They added: “You’re also safer doing this position on the floor rather than with something hard [like a bed or table] in front of you.”

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Check out more about the most dangerous sex positions: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/dangerous-sex-position-revealed-doggy-style_uk_59bfc92ae4b02da0e1437360

Gay Reddit Wants To Know How Straight People Have Sex

bieberOne cheeky Redditor turned the tables on nosy (and unimaginative) straight people with this sarcastic question: “How does straight sex work? I mean, who’s the guy and who’s the other guy?” The Redditor who goes by “pepporoni pizzazz” posted the question to the Ask Gay Bros thread, and not surprisingly, gay men had a grand time answering it. The tongue-in-cheek question drew even more tongue-in-cheek (and hilarious) responses.

“My straight friends tell me that they almost never have oral or anal sex. Some of them also dislike mutual masturbation. So I assume they are just masturbating from their side of the bed with some kisses maybe,” one person wrote. Another wrote, “They get in bed, pull covers over themselves, then start a dance ritual to get the woman pregnant. Such ferocious creatures.” Attention: straight people—just ask Google if you’re really curious.

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Check out more about a gay Redditor asking how straight sex works: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/10/175978/gay-reddit-question-how-straight-sex-works

6 Sex Facts Your History Teachers Never Told You

magicwandarthistoryKinksters have been around for a long, long time. From goat eyelash cock rings to stone dildos, our ancestors have been getting freaky since antiquity. Here are 6 historical sex facts you definitely never learned about in History class.

  1. The first cock rings were made from goat eyelashes
    Cock rings made from the eyelids of goats were commonly used in China around 1200. The eyelashes were left on to add a little bit of extra stimulation.
  2. The first dildos were made of stone
    The oldest stone dildo is around 28,000 years old. Later versions were covered in leather to make them softer and warmer.
  3. Hardcore porn took off in the 1920s
    Almost as soon as cameras were invented, people started taking sex photographs. Many showed penetrative sex as well as “non-standard” sexual practices like lesbianism.
  4. King Edward VII spent a lot of time in a French brothel
    In the 1880’s, King “Bertie” would regularly frequent one of Paris’ most exclusive brothels. He spent so much time there that an erotic chair was built just for him to use as he fucked a series of French courtesans (check out a picture below).
  5. Sex clubs were all the rage in the 1700s
    Notorious sex clubs were very popular, like “Beggar’s Bension” in Scotland. Members would meet to read scandalous banned books and have sex with willing girls.
  6. By 300AD, Rome had 45 brothels
    They were so popular that they wouldn’t open until the afternoon because otherwise no one would go to work in the morning. “Road signs” shaped like cocks pointed the way to the nearest pleasure house.

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Check out more historical sex facts: https://www.buzzfeed.com/hilarywardle/nsfw-historical-sex-facts-no-one-tells-you-about-at-school

This Disorder Causes You To Have Sex While You Sleep

Sex dreams are hot—especially if you wake up horny and have some good morning sex! But there’s a sleep disorder that causes some people to actually engage in sexual activity while they’re asleep: sexsomnia. Sexsomnia, AKA sleep sex, is similar to sleepwalking or sleep talking, and involves “inappropriate arousal” during the non-REM stage of sleep.

Screenshot 2016-05-11 09.33.19Someone with sexsomnia might grope, fondle, masturbate, or even fuck during this stage. While sleep sex might sound like fun, sexsomnia is actually a serious medical condition. Those with sexsomnia can’t remember the sex episodes, and it contributes to poorer sleep. So if you think you might actually be living out your erotic dream, go and talk to your doctor—you’ll rest easier.

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Check out more about sexsomnia: https://www.refinery29.com/what-is-sexsomnia-sleep-sex

This Is The Porn People In Russia Are Searching For

vladtrumpRussia has been in the news a lot lately, which is why Pornhub decided to change up reporting on the Mother Country to something a bit lighter: porn. The adult entertainment site did some research into the most popular porn in the country—just in case you’re curious. It seems the top ten search terms are: “Russian,” “overwatch,” “mom,” “hentai,” “step sister,” “Russian mature,” “spinner,” “teen,” “anal,” and “futanari.”

While it’s common for porn searches of a country to correlate to its nationality, Pornhub found that Russians were 1009% more likely to view the “Russian” category in comparison with the rest the world. Other interesting facts: “anal” is the most popular category for men and women, while “lesbian” is the second most popular category among women, and “hentai” the second most popular amongst men. “When it comes to relative popularity, women are 120% more likely to view ‘Gangbang’ compared to men, and 112% more for ‘Double Penetration,'” the insights said. “Men are proportionately 70% more likely to view ‘MILF’ and 59% more for ‘Mature.'” The more you know!

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Check out more about the porn people search for in Russia: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/08/167537/popular-russian-porn-videos

These Are The Strangest Things People Masturbated To

It’s probably true that there’s nothing you can think of that someone hasn’t masturbated to. Whether it’s a sexy cartoon character or an inanimate object, sometimes really weird stuff can turn you on. Here are the strangest things Redditors jerked off to.

  1. A clean apartmentbest_phone_sex_niteflirt_disneyprinces
    “I laid in bed looking at it and got off on how organized and clean my space was.” A clean home is a happy home—especially when you orgasm in it!
  2. A biology book
    “I humped a drawing of a vagina.” Next best thing?
  3. Watching my boyfriend sleep
    “Is that creepy?” Maybe it’s kinky!
  4. Mommy kink
    Not on NiteFlirt you don’t!
  5. Malcolm in the Middle
    “Don’t ask why. I don’t know.” Sitcoms—the new porn?
  6. Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives
    “Watching someone eat a seven-stack burger was honestly one of the most satisfying things I’ve ever watched. Also one of the best orgasms I’ve ever given myself.” Food porn, literally.
  7. Male Disney Characters
     “You know those oddly sexy drawings of male Disney characters? Yeah…those.” Let’s face it, cartoons are sexy!
  8. A tea set
    “I had a weird experience a few years back that whenever I was close I would visualize a tea set.” It does get all wet!

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Check out more of the strangest things people masturbated to: https://www.refinery29.com/hot-horny-masturbation-sexual-thoughts#slide-10

Women Reveal What Makes A Great Sex Partner

Image Source: Flickr - 434picsWhat do women want when it comes to sex? Glamour Magazine has an answer, thanks to their Summer Of Sex series that asks real women what they like in bed. Here’s what they said when it comes to the things the best sex partners have in common.

First things first, women like good head: “They’re good with their mouths.” Besides oral sex and attentiveness (I.e, “they put me first”), they also said they like clear communicators who aren’t shy about asking for what they want and listening to what their sexual partner wants, “even if it’s kinky.” Not surprisingly, they also wanted someone with “a nice size”—but in general, “just a penis” seemed to fit the bill.

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Check out more about what women want when it comes to a great lover: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/are-you-good-in-bed_us_59a49a04e4b050afa90c3dd4

5 Tips From Phone-Sex Operators To Up Your Dirty Talk

Phone sex is hot. Whether you’re in a long distance relationship or just want someone to talk dirty to you, phone sex is an extremely fun and erotic way to get off—after all, the brain is the biggest sexual organ in the body. Here are detailed tips from professional phone-sex operators to help you perfect your dirty-talk game.

  1. Indulge in your fantasies
    One of the best things about phone sex is that you can really explore your fantasies. Try to set the scene with sensory details—imagine you’re telling your partner a sexy story; you want it to be super vivid.
  2. Plan beforehand
    Setting a phone sex date lets you get your head in the game. “It opens up an opportunity to talk about what you might want to explore, what phrases or words turn you on, and how to signal that you’re ready for phone sex to be over.”
  3. Read an erotic story
    This will let you say dirty things without the pressure of having to actually come up with them yourself.
  4. Don’t rush it
    Phone sex is the ultimate tease. You’re describing every touch and movement, so take your time and let the pressure build. It will drive your partner wild!
  5. Make sure your language is action-oriented
    “Shove that, shake those, grab and hold and twist, push it in, push it in — way in,” says a phone-sex operator. “That purr in your voice will be even breathier and insistent when you ask if [they] want you to spread wider, or clamp down like a vise.” Hot!

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Check out more tips from phone-sex operators about how to talk dirty: https://www.refinery29.com/2016/07/116151/phone-sex-tips-how-to-talk-dirty#slide-13