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Survey Reveals Ideal Dick Size To Make Women Cum

According to a new survey, bigger is better—except when it’s not. The findings revealed by dating site Big One—a large penis dating site—show that 8 inches is the optimal dick size when it comes to making women orgasm. The same survey showed that climax-inducing capabilities drop off dramatically in anything bigger than 9 inches.

Big One explains, “Size does matter, but bigger is not always better.” The randy research found that 8-inch penises induced orgasms at a 44% success rate; coming in second was 9 inches with a 42% success rate. Big One adds, “If he doesn’t measure up, he can still deliver, and equally, if he’s massive, he can still disappoint!”

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Check out more about a survey revealing the ideal dick size to make women cum: https://nypost.com/2020/07/02/this-is-the-ideal-penis-size-to-make-women-climax-survey/

Sex Coach Leads Virtual Sexual Pleasure Workshops

A sex coach whose former student includes Gwyneth Paltrow has put her popular classes online during the lockdown—and claims it’s the perfect time to work on your orgasms. Betty Dodson, 90, a bestselling author dubbed the “godmother of masturbation,” runs the New York-based Bodysex course, which was booked until 2021 with a wait list in the thousands. Betty, who has been teaching women since the 1970s, argued self-love is now more important than ever, saying “Pleasure is healing.”

She adds, “With modern life people go on retreats to slow down their brain… They say meditate, I say masturbate, which is a form of meditation.” She also spoke of the positive health benefits to having more orgasms, claiming they help boost the immune system and encourage better sleep by releasing oxytocin and endorphins. “I’m not a doctor or an essential worker but I felt like I had to do something for women during lockdown,” she says.

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Check out more about a sex coach putting her sexual pleasure workshops online: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8304813/Sex-coach-students-include-Gwyneth-Paltrow-leading-500-virtual-workshops-attic.html

Ron Jeremy Gives Quarantine Sex Advice

Ron Jeremy is doing a public service for people bored sexually in quarantine. The 67-year-old porn star is doling out advice to spice up sex lives while in lockdown. He suggests using sex dolls, which feel “very lifelike”: he adds, “You add that to virtual reality, and then you’re actually having sex with what feels like a real woman.”

More importantly, Jeremy advises, people can “prepare” for “the real whopper” that will occur when they reunite in person and have sex. “Do a little dialogue … a little phone sex,” he suggests. “FaceTime where you can look at each other … while you’re actually having sex with yourself.” He suggests masturbating and using music as foreplay — specifically Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9, because “Even Beethoven had sex, too,” Jeremy says.

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Check out more of Ron Jeremy’s quarantine sex advice: 
https://pagesix.com/2020/05/18/here-are-ron-jeremys-tips-for-your-sex-life-while-in-quarantine/

Coronavirus Is Not Transmitted Sexually, Study Finds

There is some good news during these bad times: the coronavirus cannot be sexually transmitted. While coronavirus can be transmitted from a simple cough, it does not appear to transmit through cum, according to new research. An international group of scientists in the US and China found no evidence of COVID-19 in the semen of 34 adult Chinese men who had tested positive for the deadly virus a month prior.

“If a disease like COVID-19 were sexually transmittable that would have major implications for disease prevention and could have serious consequences for a man’s long-term reproductive health,” the study’s co-author says. The new findings also set COVID-19 apart from diseases including Ebola and Zika, which can be sexually transmitted. While sex as an isolated action likely can’t pass along the virus, other intimate acts including kissing can, so the scientists still recommend practicing safe sex.

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Check out more about a study showing coronavirus cannot be sexually transmitted: https://nypost.com/2020/04/23/the-coronavirus-is-not-transmitted-sexually-study-finds/

App-Controlled Vibrators Are The Best Long-Distance Sex Toys

There’s a silver lining to social distancing recommendations from the CDC—app-controlled vibrators! Unlike Bluetooth vibrators that have a smaller range of accessibility (only viable within 33 feet away), app-controlled vibrators can be used remotely from almost any place in the world as long as you have a strong enough WiFi. In other words, it is possible to have sex while following social isolation parameters and quarantine protocols—you just have to get creative with it.

Looking for someone to play with (safely)? Try searching r/ToyControl—you can make a quick post similar to what someone would share on Craigslist Personals (RIP), a brief description of what you’re looking for (M4M, F4M, F4A, etc.) and the brand of toy you have. Some Redditors even use this page to solicit long-term play partners, offering to buy them new toys among other things. You or your partner can control the toy from your smartphone or any iOS or Android device loaded with the correct app (including your smartwatch–which is great during quarantine).

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Check out more about app-controlled vibrators: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/app-controlled-vibrator-long-distance-bluetooth-teledildonics/

Dr. Ruth Has Some Good Cyber Sex Advice

Dr. Ruth has good sex advice for singles wanting company during the coronavirus lockdown. “Make sure you do something that is pleasurable and if you are alone, make sure that you decide when this is over you are going to find a partner,” the iconic sex therapist says. She suggests when it comes to using the internet to get off, it’s best to turn to “fantasy” privately instead of having online cyber sex with video. But, “if you do feel sexual, by all means bring yourself to sexual satisfaction,” Dr. Ruth wisely says.

She also says “bravo!” to the NY Department of Health who released guidelines last week, “for being so forthcoming and explicit that even I was surprised that they are talking not only about kissing but about some very explicit sexual provisions.” She says she was pleasantly surprised to read about “rimming” in the guidelines: “It shows us that things have progressed, that we are willing to speak about these things.” The NY DOH also suggested limiting the number of sexual partners and washing hands and sex toys for at least 20 seconds after sex.

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Check out more about Dr. Ruth’s advice for having safe cyber sex: https://pagesix.com/2020/03/26/dr-ruth-warns-quarantined-singles-should-be-careful-with-cyber-sex/?_ga=2.41554338.1439512273.1585968977-654912625.1556249361

Twitter Thread Offers Good Sex Advice

#SexAdviceForYourPartner started trending on Twitter, but people used the hashtag to give general sex advice. From foreplay to the proper way to love on the clit, Twitter had many wise things to say about good sex. Here are the best pieces of sex advice on Twitter:

  1. “Ask for what you want. Ask for what they want. Consent and communication are the best foreplay.” Yes!
  2. “Guys, don’t be rough on a woman’s clit. Unless she tells you to, treat the clit with a gentle hand, fingers, or your tongue. Give the clit respect.” Love = respect
  3. “It’s not a test. Tell them what they need to know.” Sex isn’t a midterm, people!
  4. “Take off your damn socks.” That’s just good manners.
  5. “It’s okay to laugh sometimes. This is supposed to be fun.” Good sex is always fun!
  6. “Stay hydrated.” Good advice for those fuck fests!
  7. “If I say ‘don’t stop’…it means just that. Don’t slow down. Don’t speed up.” Please and thank you!
  8. “if u wanna keep him/her, u need to try new things. spice up the sex life, incorporate toys, tease each other, change locations, take sexcations, etc!” Who doesn’t love keeping things spicy in the bedroom?

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Check out more about Twitter’s sex advice: https://www.buzzfeed.com/ryanschocket2/people-are-tweeting-sex-advice-for-their-partner

Men Can Smell When A Woman Is Horny, Study Says

Men can smell when a woman is turned on by the aroma of her sweat — and they like it, according to a new study. Researchers asked men to rate women’s aromas during various states of arousal to determine the sexiest scent. During experiments they had the women work out then watch porn or read “Fifty Shades of Grey” before swabbing their sweat for testing.

The results — published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior — found that men were definitely more attracted to the aroused women in all three trials. “This research suggests that these signals released along with corresponding visual and auditory expressions of sexual interest can produce a stronger overall signal that increases sexual motivation,” one of the researchers said. “Sexual interest may entail more than meets the eye and we hope that the current findings encourage further research to examine the role of sexual olfactory signals in human communication.”

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Check out more about a study showing men can smell when a woman is horny: https://nypost.com/2020/03/03/men-can-smell-when-a-woman-is-turned-on-study-says/

Sex Therapist Says You Should Be In An Open Relationship

A Canadian sex therapist and author of “A Happy Life in an Open Relationship: The Essential Guide to a Healthy and Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life” believes the secret to a happy, long-term relationship is being nonmonogamous. She argues millions of people would improve and strengthen their marriages and relationships if they accepted that “for many of us, one partner cannot meet all our needs.” She explains how being in an open relationship allowed her to finally explore her bisexuality and kinks.

“I knew I was interested in women because I always liked watching lesbian porn,” she says, describing her first “sensuous” sexual experience with a woman. Being in an open relationship also allowed her to explore BDSM, since her partner “tried kinky sex but doesn’t like it.” She enjoys spanking, dirty talk, handcuffs, hair pulling and mild, pleasurable pain with many partners, while her partner also has casual and longer-term sex partners. “What we do with other people does not matter,” she writes. “In fact, my joy is seeing him happy in other relationships.”

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Check out more about a sex therapist’s book on the benefits of nonmonogamous relationships: https://nypost.com/2020/03/09/why-this-sex-therapist-says-you-should-be-in-an-open-marriage/

The Precise Amount Of Time It Takes A Woman To Orgasm, According To Science

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sex9A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine used a stopwatch to measure the time it took women to climax—and found the magic number is 13:46 minutes. For eight weeks, a group of 645 women from 20 countries set their sexy-time stopwatches each time they got it on. Researchers found that only 31.4 percent of participants climaxed through penetrative sex, while 68.6 percent of the ladies needed some other form of action, including kissing, “light biting” or touching other body parts.

Some positions were more effective than others, with woman on top as the most popular for cumming— 42.2 percent of ladies said this was the most optimal for them. Relationship status didn’t matter either, since it took about the same time for both married and unmarried women to finish. Another interesting finding: women who wear socks during fucking can increase their pleasure.

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Check out more about a study measuring the precise time it takes women to reach orgasm: https://nypost.com/2020/02/12/heres-precisely-how-long-it-takes-to-make-a-woman-orgasm/