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Are You Ready for a Thorough Bottom Blistering?

Hello boys, this is Sharon. Are you craving a thorough bottom blistering of a spanking? Oh I just know you are! Nothing gets that cock hard like me having you bend over my knee or the bed and having me raise my arm back and swat you over and over. Would you rather I use my bare hand? Maybe the back of a wooden hairbrush handle? The really bad boys of course get the doubled over leather belt. Or perhaps a paddle made just for smacking bad boys across the ass. I think that may be the ticket for you!

I am usually the one administering the spankings, and trust me no one spanks harder than I do, but I am also what they call a switch. So if YOU are feeling dominant, I just may be the one bending over your knee. You’d be surprised just how wet a good spanking from the right man can get me. Would you like me to be your good girl? Bending over and raising my skirt for you? If you are the right Master, I may just do it. And of course I know you will kiss my ass cheeks once you are done, won’t you, Sir?

Call me now for your spanking today, Sharon is waiting…

NEWS: Why Your First Date Should be Shag Free!

We’ve all heard that ‘going all the way’ on the first date can be detrimental to a potential flourishing relationship, but the majority of people these days have a YOLO mentality. People want to go for the gold straight out of the gates. You know how it goes, awkward dinner, too many drinks, sloppy fast sex! Sounds appetizing right!?

Relationship Expert Dr Wendy Walsh strongly advises against the first night coitus. According to her, having sex on the first date can really fuck things up. I have to agree that the anticipation for the first time mounting can be exciting, and allow for emotional bonding in the meantime. Everyone can vouch that sexual tension that is built up from resisting temptation is almost like foreplay.

Dr. Wendy Walsh offers up 9 solid reasons why you should stay PG during the beginning of a courtship on the Huffington Post.

Submissive Boredom and Finding the “One”

By CindyBell

One of the things I hear from a lot of Submissive callers is that they are bored/unhappy with their current Mistress, or that they haven’t found the “One” that really clicks all their buttons. Most often I get an email that reads like this “will you dominate me?”. Perhaps I want to, but I need more information than that. Everyone’s definition of Domination is not the same. I need to know what YOU want to experience and I will let you know if that fits my style of Femdom.
The same goes for other terms like humiliation, slave, etc… Your level of humiliation might be completely different than my last caller, so please be specific with your requests and instructions. I want to make the call something you will remember, but I will not alter my hard rules, or go against Niteflirt rules.

There are lots of ways to entertain your Submissive brain; you just have to have a little creative imagination, or a really good Mistress with one! I like to experiment with just how far I can push your buttons in your daily life. Not just when you’re horny and aching for my attention. I want you to think of me all day, every day, to crave for my acceptance of your existence. There are lots of ways to begin this process of course, depending on the type of Submissive you are.

This is a 7 day task that is not just about being a Sissy or Slave or Humiliation junkie (but does include elements of all 3), but is about giving up control of some pretty basic daily functions that will increase your awareness of the 24/7 presence of your Mistress Cindy. I call it “7 days of Service” (click below).

NEWS: TLC For The Clitoris All Week Long!

Well Hallelujah its International Clitoris Awareness Week! Paying homage to the Holy Grail of the female orgasm, which started yesterday May 6th, and runs until May 12th. It makes senses to celebrate the mysterious female sex organ this month considering May also is the month to recognize masturbating!

Clitoraid is a group dedicated to helping victims of female genital mutilation around the globe. The compassionate group decided to turn their efforts towards raising awareness about the clit so people can get cozy with the word, and understand how magical it really is.

Nadine Gary, Clitoraid’s spokesperson explained, “We’ve noticed that the clitoris has not gotten its spot in the limelight. It makes people feel uncomfortable,” she told The Huffington Post. “For this week, we don’t want to focus on genital mutilation.”

Gary said that the clitoris has sat the bench since the 19th century, clitoris orgasms have been deemed “immature” when compared to a vaginal orgasm. SHA RIGHT, if a guy knows how to click the mouse, all is right in the world! “The clitoris doesn’t have a reproductive function so it can be minimized,” Gary said. “It’s up to eight inches long — same as a penis — but it’s inside.” 8 inches, I had no idea…there is a lot to learn! Happy clitter week!

Erotic Hypnosis and Mind Control!

By Miss Kay Femdom Hypnosis

If you fall under my captivating spell you will never leave. I’m Miss Kay, a powerful Financial Domme and practitioner of Erotic Hypnosis and Mind Control.
Men have paid for many of my fine luxuries in life including a beautiful new house in California, a professional home recording studio to produce my Erotic
Hypnosis mp3 files and late last year, I took an exotic trip to Hawaii with my girlfriends…

Those are just a few of the spendier luxuries that I’ve been afforded here
on Niteflirt by my money slaves. Next up on my list? A brand new Camaro, which I totally covet and which money slaves again will provide. I have a specific
Tribute button for Camaro Contributions, so make sure you click it!

I demand that money slaves worship me in various ways including in live Financial Domination phone sex calls, via Niteflirt Tributes and by buying my Pay to Views
including games and assignments and, of course, my Femdom Erotic Hypnosis mp3 recordings. I also produce custom Femdom Erotic Hypnosis recordings
for sale through Niteflirt only. If you have a specific fantasy or fetish, please be in touch via Niteflirt mail to discuss the details and I will quote a produced price to you.
I have multi-track recording capabilities so that my erotic hypno audio files can be embedded with music tracks or whisper tracks. FYI: I’m one of the only erotic hypnotists
on Niteflirt who will produce custom erotic hypno audio files, so if you have a desire for your own hypnosis mp3 instead of buying something pre-produced, you should definitely
be in touch with me. I have many fans of my live Erotic Hypnosis and my hypno recordings. Once you buy one of my recordings, it is yours, you own it, meaning it isn’t one of the recordings here on Niteflirt that you call and pay per minute to listen to.

I look forward to meeting many new submissives or hypnosis aficionados who may not already be aware of me. You can also follow my exploits on my Twitter.

NEWS: Masturbation Station All Month Long!

Did you know that nationally we celebrate self-diddling?! The lovely liberal city of Philadelphia held their first Masturbate-a-Thon on Wednesday to kick off National Masturbation month. Everyone is extremely excited and ready to blow their loads! The Philadelphian’s spank-a-thon will run until May 27th. The sponsors can donate for every hour participant’s pleasure themselves, all in the name of charity!
So ladies dust off your rabbits, and guys get ready to stroke all month long! Proceeds will go to local sex education groups, ScrewSmart and PleasureRush. The event hopes to raise awareness around the importance of sexual health, pleasure, and squash the stigma surrounding sexual expression (get your rocks off).

If you’re looking to cum together and get involved, go to crowdrise and join the fundraising efforts! Don’t hate, masturbate!

Intelligent Guidance

By Masturbate With Mary Ellen

Do you enjoy longer calls? Do you seek an intelligent, understanding woman to talk to as you masturbate? I know some men just seek an understanding woman to talk to, as well as one to masturbate with. I love to listen to your problems and concerns, and once you’ve let all that out, I can drain your balls like no one else!

My voice has a powerful effect on men, go ahead and listen to the voice greeting on my page. It soothes and comforts, and leaves you totally sexually satisfied. I can give you sound and sage advice and listen to you for as long as you need and want me to. I am happy to be your phone sex confidante. I think you need to call Mary Ellen right now.

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NEWS: Humping To Cure a Headache!

If you’re ever had the unfortunate experience of having a migraine you understand how dreadfully painful and frustrating they can be. I experience them from time to time myself and the last thing I want to do is engage in any sort of hanky panky. Migraines can cripple you to a dark bedroom, only to pray that you can get comfortable enough to fall asleep and wake up to zero pain, migraine free.

I’ve heard through the grapevine for years that shaggin’ will alleviate severe headaches and migraines, but I seriously thought it was a valiant effort (lie) from boyfriends to get a pickle tickle. I was wrong!

Cephalalgia, a medical journal dedicated to headache research released some vital information for the headache prone peeps. “There’s a [portion] of patients with migraines, about one-third, who experience relief from a migraine attack by sexual activity,” said study researcher Stefan Evers, a neurologist and headache specialist at the University of Münster in Germany. {Men all over the world rejoicing}

The researchers aren’t quite sure about why this happens, but they theorize that the explosion of endorphins during sex may reduce migraine pain.

Oh how ironic, men will start to use headache as an excuse to fuck, while women have been using them as an excuse for years not to. Epic backfire, ladies!

“Our Beds Are Crowded”

By Wicked Barbie

As the noted psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud famously said, “Our beds are crowded,” and indeed they are. What Freud meant is that quite simply, our current sexual interactions are the sum total of past relationships, fantasies, and to some extent, current fetishes or sexual conflicts. I have never been more acutely aware of this than during my time as a Niteflirt Phone Sex Mistress. When a new submissive calls me, and a connection is made, that is I take him on as my submissive, and he chooses me as his dominatrix, I am not only dealing with the submissive and his or her fetishes; rather, I am dealing with the psychosexual layers of his past mistresses. It is akin to a sexual archeological dig, and one must be careful when dealing with cherished relics of the past.

It has been my experience that a past Mistress may have been a positive experience for the submissive who has now made his way to me, or perhaps she has left some emotional debris that must be dealt with in order to move on in the sub’s sexual odyssey. Whatever the case may be, regardless of her impact, she is to some extent a component of the relationship I am now establishing with the submissive, and when dealing with a submissive who has been engaged in a fetish lifestyle for a number of years, we are dealing with a bed that is overflowing with people!

It is interesting how we are in some sense all interconnected, though in actuality, our paths may never cross. As I am a fairly new dominatrix, I would submit that I not only learn about this lifestyle via the submissive callers I have had the pleasure of knowing, but also from what their Mistresses have taught them. I in turn, use what I have learned in conjunction with my own methodology, and the process of sharing information carries on in a continuum of sorts.

In any case, I would submit that Freud was correct; “Our beds are Crowded,” but do give me a call. There’s always room for one more.

-Ze Wicked Barbie