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‘Aftercare’ Helps Kinksters ‘Come Down’ After BDSM Sex

In the world of BDSM, aftercare is a post-play ritual in which partners exchange physical or emotional comfort following an intense sexual experience. Aftercare might involve cuddling, talking, or tending to any minor injuries sustained during the BDSM “scene.” This kind of nurturing helps both partners gently come down from the “high” of the BDSM scene, and avoid the low emotional state known as “drop” in kink circles.

“BDSM play is inherently risky, whether physically or emotionally,” a sex educator explains. “It involves a higher level of vulnerability and trust than normal sex.” This is why “Taking care of someone after this is an act of protection and care,” they explain. Aftercare is a way to help kinksters “ease back into normal consciousness.”

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Check out more about how aftercare helps kinksters after BDSM: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/aftercare-bdsm-vanilla-sex_l_61958a0de4b0ae9a429b1eba

The Most Underrated Sex Positions, According To Porn Stars

Porn stars have some advice for those looking to spice up their sex lives: try underrated sex positions. According to more than a dozen adult performers, some sex positions are simply overhyped—like reverse cowgirl—considering their limited potential for pleasure and high level of effort. As one porn star explains, “We do more acrobatic positions in scenes because they look wild on camera. And we don’t do a lot of things like missionary because they look boring.”

They claim that underrated sex positions—missionary and spooning—are actually really great, since they offer intimacy, deeper penetration, and better clitoral stimulation. “If you want to get good at sex, treat it like a science, not a primal instinct. Angle, depth, and speed are your units of measure. You can make adjustments to all of these factors with every position you try when you’re experimenting with them,” one porn star says. They say to experiment with what feels good, and to “Try not to judge yourself if things go wrong. It’s completely normal, and OK, to laugh during sex—to make fun of ourselves when we try new things and it doesn’t totally work.”

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Check out more about underrated sex positions, according to porn stars: https://mashable.com/article/sex-positions

Couples Are Erecting Xmas Trees In The Bedroom To Perk Up Their Sex Lives

Frisky couples are finding multiple purposes for their Xmas trees this year. In a recent survey conducted by a gardening company, one in six customers put trees in their bedroom to get them in the mood. Experts say the sight of its green prickles and smell of pine is the ultimate turn-on.

One female customer said, “My boyfriend was dead against a tree in the bedroom but I said we could stay in bed all day on Christmas and that won him over.” The gardening company’s director explained: “It connects us with nature and reminds us of our earliest ancestors who slept and made love in the outdoors.” As a male respondent said, “This is my favorite—as they say happy wife, happy life.”

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Check out more about horny couples putting Xmas trees in the bedroom: https://nypost.com/2021/12/06/couples-are-erecting-christmas-trees-in-the-bedroom-to-perk-up-their-love-lives/

The Height Of Your Heels Can Boost Your Orgasm, Study Finds

Achieving the “Big O” could be as simple as the shoes you wear. Experts in China have found that size matters—when it comes to your heel height. Wearing shoes that have at least a two-inch heel is said to stimulate the muscle that also helps a woman orgasm.

The experts at Shanghai’s Fudan University discovered the connection by chance after they conducted a study into the impact different shoe heights had on women’s pelvic floor muscles. After analyzing their results, the experts found that when a woman is wearing heels, their pelvis tilts enough so that the muscles repeatedly contract, helping to keep them in good shape. Researchers say that the biggest impact was seen in women who wore the shoes for at least eight hours a day.

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Check out more about a study finding that heel highs can boost a woman’s orgasm: https://nypost.com/2021/11/01/how-the-height-of-your-heels-can-boost-your-orgasm/

TikTok Doctor Explains How To Tell A Guy’s Dick Size

A doctor has let TikTokers in on an unconventional hack to gauge the size of a man’s cock without him dropping his trousers—simply by glancing at his hands. A TikTok clip of the member-measuring shortcut has topped 915,000 views on the video platform. “You can guess the size of a man’s cactus by how short his index finger is,” Dr. Karan Rajan — who goes by @dr.karanr on TikTok — said in the 27-second sexplainer.

The doctor cited a 2011 urological study in the Asian Journal of Andrology, which he said found that “a shorter index finger compared to ring finger correlates to a bigger ‘snozwaggler.’” “This is known as the second to fourth digit ratio, calculated by dividing the length of the index finger by the length of the ring finger,” Rajan continued. “The smaller the index finger, the lower the 2D 4D ratio. Think of it as the urological version of using one’s forearm to calculate foot size.”

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Check out more about a TikTok doctor explaining how to tell a guy’s dick size: https://nypost.com/2021/10/29/doctor-explains-how-to-tell-penis-size-without-a-ruler/

Men With High Testosterone Levels Are More Likely To Cheat, Study Says

Men with higher testosterone levels may be more sexually active and likely to cheat on their partners, a new study finds. Testosterone has long been linked with randy behavior among men, but the new data found those with more of the hormone really are more likely to have multiple partners at one time. Researchers took saliva samples from 1,599 men, and looked at their answers to a questionnaire on sexual behavior.

Men with higher testosterone were more likely to report having had more than one sexual partner at a time, and to have had sex recently. Men with higher testosterone were also more likely to report having had more than one sexual partner at a time. The results, published in The Journal of Sex Research, show that there is growing interest in using testosterone supplements to improve people’s libido, particularly for men who are low on the hormone.

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Check out more about a study showing men with more testosterone have sex and cheat more: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-10111045/Men-high-testosterone-levels-sexually-active-likely-CHEAT-study-finds.html

Goop Shows How To Have Full-Body Orgasms

A sex therapist on the new Goop Netflix series, “Sex, Love & Goop” explains how “energetic erotic blueprints” are the key to fully-clothed, touchless orgasms. “In the anticipation [of a kiss] there’s a lot of arousal and turn-on that happens,” said Jaiya. “And essentially, that’s what we’re playing with, not touching.”

She and her partner Ian demonstrate how understanding and connecting with your lover’s distinct sexual vibe can induce simultaneous, full-body orgasms. He swirls his hands over the sexologist’s body, as she breathes heavily, her body arching in rhythm with his movements until she has a full-body orgasm. The pair went for round 2 afterward—Jaiya wrapped her legs around her partner’s waist, they embraced and synchronized their breathing, which grew faster and more intense until both orgasmed together.

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Check out more about how to have full-body orgasms: https://nypost.com/2021/10/19/full-body-orgasms-without-touching-new-goop-show-explains-how/