With “Goddess Lycia“
What is your favorite part of being a phone mistress?
My favorite part of being a phone Mistress of my magnitude is that, on any given day, there are hundreds of men passionately lusting for me in desperate submission. I enjoy knowing that their purple, poofy-headed penises are pointed in MY direction, which is always UP, above them. I enjoy the phenomenon of horny boyz curiously stumbling toward my magnetic allure, then falling deeply into the depravity I condition them to crave with a need stronger than thirst.
I like that whenever my submissives are permitted to orgasm, they immediately fall more irrevocably under my control, becoming more achingly enslaved to me in all ways. I love to humiliate them, and how much they make me laugh with their eager performances. I love to tease and deny them, edging their horny penises over and over again, hearing them beg me for permission to release, and then bringing them close to tears when I still deny them. I love building them up, and then breaking them down. Making them fall in love with me, and reminding them they can never have me. Crushing their hearts over and over again, while addicting them to the point that they will never stop needing more. More of my attention, more of my control, more of my manipulation, rewiring, reprogramming, conditioning, brainwashing, entrancing. More of my velvet voice, which is so sweet and yet says the most cruel things. Turning their typically mundane worlds inside out, bringing them excitement and passion, pain and euphoria. Giving them feelings they never knew they could feel, and then hearing them praise me; showing their gratitude again and again through their continuing service.
With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
My favorite part of sex is most definitely the connection. Every set of people in the world has some kind of connection with each other. There’s some sort of dynamic, and a relationship forms around that dynamic, which can change and transform as time passes. My favorite part of life, in general, are the connections I make that are deep and meaningful; when it seems that I have met an individual for a reason, and that the time we spend together is helping us each in our personal growth. For sexual relations, we look for someone we feel a connection with. Maybe we feel physically attracted, or maybe emotionally or mentally; perhaps we feel some sort of spiritual connection, or any combination of those possibilities.
I know that when a submissive chooses to call me for a session, he senses we will have a connection, or he wouldn’t call me at my rate, which is usually set to $4.99 per minute. The submissive who passes up hundreds of other Mistresses and comes to me should already know from viewing my wide array of free content on the web that we will have a connection. And the fact that my first-time callers almost always become regulars, who call to session with me again and again, just reinforces the fact that the connection we have is legitimate. And it is very enjoyable for me to experience the growth and transformation of our connection, to see our dynamic shift and flourish with time.
Is there anything you do to get yourself in the mood for an erotic fantasy phone sex session?
Well, because I am never quite sure when the phone is going to ring, I basically set up my whole day or evening in a way that is most conducive to providing and enjoying exceptionally impassioned Femdom phone sessions. For one, I always have music playing. Music lifts my mood and inspires me, and so I always have it on if I am not in a call or recording. I also dress in lingerie when I am taking calls, because I have a huge collection (bought for me from slaves over the years), and because I just feel extra sexy wearing it. I love the way lingerie looks on my curvy body, but most importantly is the way all of those sensuous fabrics feel gliding against my skin whenever I move.
Another thing I do is apply some of my favorite perfume or scented oil. It still strikes me as a bit funny that I do that, even when I know I won’t be seeing anyone for the rest of the day or evening. I mean, I am the only one who will be smelling myself *giggles*. But fragrance, like sound, can have a very positive effect on my mood. The fragrances I enjoy most have a very seductive allure to them, which enhances my own state of arousal, and thus the quality of my sessions.
Also, in between calls, I am generally either working on something erotic or keeping entertained by something erotic. Whether I am writing a new Femdom erotic hypnosis script, or enjoying fetish photos on tumblr, I keep my mind in the right zone, so that when the phone does ring, I am quite ready to have some fun. 
Is there any kind of specific fetish sex that you yourself enjoy?
There are many types of fetish sex I enjoy. In fact, all of the fetishes I specialize in online are things I actually enjoy, which is one of the reasons I am successful. I always say, though, that if I had to choose just one D/s activity to engage in for the rest of my life, it would be tease and denial, or more specifically, “edging.” Edging means bringing someone to the brink of orgasm over and over again, without allowing release. Of course, release might eventually be permitted, but the process of sex is longer and more passionate when edging is involved. For me, neither sex or BDSM is about reaching an orgasm; they aren’t a means to an end. It’s all about the manifestation, manipulation, and exchange of energy during any intimate activity that intrigues and excites me. I love the sense of power I feel when I am in control over a man’s orgasm, and the emotions he goes through as I tease and deny him. I also love the body movements, facial expressions, and vocalizations made by a partner in bed during an intimate edging session. I guess “intimate” is the key word, here.
There is a deep degree of intimacy in BDSM play, and edging just happens to be one of my favorite methods; it’s just my style. Aside from tease and denial/edging, another favorite bedroom activity is bondage. Bondage has been such a common staple in my sex life over the years, that I often forget to list it as a favorite erotic activity. It’s almost as if bondage, in some form or another, is always just “part of it.” But there are absolutely varying forms and degrees of bondage that I’ve experimented with, and it can really be a very intense and intimate (there’s that word again) experience.
What erotic fantasy or phone domination would you like enacted on YOU?
I’ve been fortunate in that most of my fantasies have already become realities; I’ve been on-and-off a member of my local kink scenes ever since I was of age, and have often had very open-minded (if not equally kinky) partners. A fantasy I’ve had for a long time, in which I would actually be “enacting” upon others goes as follows: I am in charge of a large room in a building where I have somewhere between ten to twenty slaves who are naked and in bondage. I am dressed leather, wearing a corset that emphasizes my hourglass figure a great deal, and shoes with very high heels. I go around to each slave, teasing him, making him very horny and desperate to cum.
I know the fetishes and weaknesses of each slave, and use my knowledge to make them as horny, submissive, and obedient as possible. When I am working on a particular slave, the others are being brainwashed by my audio and video recordings. I go around to each boy, and basically just make him suffer in his dire need to ejaculate, but I end up denying him, which just makes him love me more. After I make three to five rounds, all the slaves are either in tears or close to being in tears. That is when I lock them up in their chastity devices and free them from their bondage just enough so that they can serve me and my friends at a party for the rest of the evening.
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