Category: Empowering

‘Abrosexuals’ Discuss Their Sexual Preferences

There’s a new sexuality term many people identify with: abrosexual. It’s defined as someone who has changes in their sexual orientation over time. For example, a person who is abrosexual might be sexually attracted to men at one point, then sexually attracted to women weeks later, including periods of different intensities of attraction.

Their sexual preferences come under the ‘fluid’ umbrella of terms. DJ Diplo revealed recently he is abrosexual, saying he’s gotten blow jobs from guys, but does not consider himself gay or bisexual. The difference between bisexual and abrosexual is that people who are bi tend to be more fluid—they can get a crush on either of the sexes at any time, whereas abrosexual comes in phases.

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Ex-Cop Now Helps Men Have Better Sex

The guy who brought men down is now helping them get it up. An ex-Ohio police officer who spent 12 years on the force is now helping men improve their sex lives—by starting his own erectile dysfunction clinic. “We treat men with erectile dysfunction and a string of other conditions,” he said.

“Whether you’re a male or female seeking sexual enhancement, we have a safe, effective treatment option to suit your needs and stimulate your sex life again,” reads the about section for the health and wellness center. They specialize in using hormone therapy—increasing or reducing patients’ testosterone or estrogen levels—and other treatments to help a variety of ailments from weight loss to muscle growth, and of course, sexual performance. The clinic prescribes Cialis and Viagra for impotence and a PT-141 peptide to stimulate arousal, and a climax cream for women that allegedly enhances “clitoral stimulation and vaginal sensitivity to increase your ability to enjoy intercourse more and experience orgasms more easily.”

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Yoga Can Help Men Last Three Times Longer In Bed

Men who want to last longer during sex might want to take up yoga. A new scientific review published in Men’s Health looked at different techniques that could help men last longer—without using erectile-dysfunction medications. Researchers analyzed 54 studies that included 3,485 men, including one where 26 men took 12 weeks of yoga, and more than tripled the time they lasted during sex.

In another study, men who ran at least 30 minutes a day for five days a week went from lasting an average of 39 seconds during sex to more than 30 minutes, compared to the inactive men who lasted just 50 seconds by the end of the study. Overall, the authors concluded that physical activity could be a potential therapy to help improve men’s sexual performance. “Most men may not have performed as well as they wanted to at some point, and could benefit from lifestyle changes and techniques to help last longer,” the researchers said.

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Bride-To-Be Gets Kinky Tattoo Groom Won’t See Until Wedding Night

A kinky bride-to-be is blowing up on TikTok after revealing her secret tattoo intended for her wedding night. The woman has permanently branded her backside, tattooing it with the first initial of her groom’s name for him to discover during doggy-style sex on their first evening as husband and wife. “I’m getting a secret tattoo for my fiancé, and he doesn’t know about it … and he’s going to find out on the wedding day,” the woman said in her trending TikTok, filmed 11 days ahead of her nuptials. 

In the video, which has amassed over 464,000 views, the woman captures clips of herself grinning while getting a black cursive-style “G” inked onto her ass for the groom, Greg. “I definitely did have ‘doggy’ [style sex] in mind when I got this tattoo,” she explained. “It’s going to be amazing. It’s gonna be a nice little spicy secret surprise,” she said.

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Women Have Time For Sex But Not Always Orgasms

Women are less likely to pursue orgasms if they are under a time constraint or have a selfish partner, according to a Rutgers University-led study. “There are contextual, societal and personal factors that likely create barriers that prevent women from feeling able to actively pursue orgasm,” said a Rutgers social psychology doctoral student who advocates for “orgasm equality” on Instagram, where she has more than 21,000 followers. According to the study, published in the Journal of Sex Research, women use cues and adjust their pursuit of an orgasm in each sexual encounter.

In a series of experiments, researchers had heterosexual women imagine themselves in a sexual scenario and consider how much time they had or how selfish their partner seemed—afterward, the subjects reported their outcomes based on how strongly they would go after an orgasm and how likely they would be to have one. The study indicated women who pursue orgasm as a goal are more likely to reach climax. Researchers suggested that men should tell their female partners that they want their pleasure to be a priority, without putting pressure on their partners to orgasm.

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Gillian Anderson Wants To Know Your Wildest Sex Fantasies

Gillian Anderson wants your seX-files. The actress is inviting people to write letters detailing their sexual fantasies for her new book on the female sexual experience. “I want women across the world, and all of you who identify intrinsically as women now…. to write to me and tell me what you think about when you think about sex,” Anderson said.

“Whether it’s when you’re having it by yourself or with a partner, or with more than one. Tell me.” She aims to document the sex lives of women around the globe to help shed light on “women’s sexuality and what it means to be a woman today.” This collection was inspired by Nancy Friday’s revolutionary 1973 best seller, “My Secret Garden,” which also compiled letters regarding the female sexual experience.

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Manifesting Orgasms Using Sex Magic

Kinksters are spicing up their sex lives through “sex magic,” a type of sexual “manifestation” that utilizes “energy within.” While sex magic is often used for self-pleasure, it’s traditionally much more involved than simple “manifesting.” In 2020, Vice writer Helen Meriel Thomas detailed her dabbles into the kinky craft, claiming it was a multi-step ritual that involved setting intentions, breathing exercises, and, of course, masturbating.

For some, the intention might be as simple as a climax, but for others, they can “channel all of the electric energy of your orgasm into” the visualization of any goal. Some sex magic proponents also charge their sex toys in the moonlight or carve sigils on candles to burn. “There are some immediate effects because you are charged and aware of what you just did, but as the afterglow of an orgasm surfaces, so does the energy created and released into the universe,” one woman enthused.

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Sex Cures Work Stress

Having sex is one of the best ways to recover from the pressures of the office, researchers have found. And women benefit from it even more than men, according to findings published in the Journal of Sex Research. One in five adults confess to regularly feeling stressed about work and numerous studies have found that pressure can crush a healthy sex drive.

Psychologists at Portland State University quizzed 1,100 men and women in full-time employment on how often they had had sex with their partner in the previous month. The findings revealed that, among those reporting high levels of work-related stress, more frequent sex led to better scores for both job and life satisfaction, especially for women. The researchers said: “We would encourage employees to dedicate uninterrupted leisure time to sexual activity to promote stress reduction, well-being, and positive work outcomes.”

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Texas Listing Goes Viral For Its Sex Room

A wholesome home in Texas has a dirty little secret—and the internet is here for it. The otherwise average-appearing abode listed for $604,000 has five bedrooms, four bathrooms, a fireplace in the living room—and a sex room. Indeed, listing images show a tricked-out primary suite full of sex toys and equipment. 

Adjacent to the bed is what looks to be a sex swing, hung from above, as well as a dance pole. Attached to the wall are a pair of handcuffs and a whip, and there’s also an X-shaped St. Andrew’s Cross and a stretch chaise lounge, both of which may also be familiar to viewers of Netflix’s “How To Build a Sex Room.” Happy hunting!

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Check out more about a Texas listing going viral for its sex room: https://nypost.com/2022/12/23/texas-listing-goes-viral-for-its-surprise-sex-room/

Keke Palmer Shared The Best Sex Advice She Ever Got From Whoopi Goldberg

Keke Palmer has Whoopi Goldberg to thank for revolutionizing her sex life. On a recent episode of her podcast, Keke recalled, “I’ll never forget, I was on The View one time, and they were having a conversation about sex, a really great conversation, and Whoopi Goldberg said, ‘Please just—start with pleasing yourself.’ And I was like, ‘That rings true.'” The star said that pleasing her partners had always been her main priority in the bedroom. 

“My identity with sex—it was always based upon, ‘Oh, I just gotta do this service,'” she said. “And my enjoyment, any enjoyment that I had at that era, in that point, in that time, came from, ‘I’m glad they’re happy.'” Keke also revealed that porn-style sex just doesn’t do it for her: “There was one time in my life where I thought porn simulation sex—because that’s what it sounds like to me, porn: simulated-esque sex—was something that could be interesting or fun,” she said, adding, “But I never actually had a happy ending from it, if I’m being, you know, lightly frank.”

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Check out more about the life-changing sex advice Keke Palmer got from Whoopi Goldberg: https://www.buzzfeed.com/morgansloss1/keke-palmer-sex-advice-whoopi-goldberg