A Canadian sex therapist and author of “A Happy Life in an Open Relationship: The Essential Guide to a Healthy and Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life” believes the secret to a happy, long-term relationship is being nonmonogamous. She argues millions of people would improve and strengthen their marriages and relationships if they accepted that “for many of us, one partner cannot meet all our needs.” She explains how being in an open relationship allowed her to finally explore her bisexuality and kinks.
“I knew I was interested in women because I always liked watching lesbian porn,” she says, describing her first “sensuous” sexual experience with a woman. Being in an open relationship also allowed her to explore BDSM, since her partner “tried kinky sex but doesn’t like it.” She enjoys spanking, dirty talk, handcuffs, hair pulling and mild, pleasurable pain with many partners, while her partner also has casual and longer-term sex partners. “What we do with other people does not matter,” she writes. “In fact, my joy is seeing him happy in other relationships.”
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Check out more about a sex therapist’s book on the benefits of nonmonogamous relationships: https://nypost.com/2020/03/09/
