Category: Culture

Yoga Can Help Men Last Three Times Longer In Bed

Men who want to last longer during sex might want to take up yoga. A new scientific review published in Men’s Health looked at different techniques that could help men last longer—without using erectile-dysfunction medications. Researchers analyzed 54 studies that included 3,485 men, including one where 26 men took 12 weeks of yoga, and more than tripled the time they lasted during sex.

In another study, men who ran at least 30 minutes a day for five days a week went from lasting an average of 39 seconds during sex to more than 30 minutes, compared to the inactive men who lasted just 50 seconds by the end of the study. Overall, the authors concluded that physical activity could be a potential therapy to help improve men’s sexual performance. “Most men may not have performed as well as they wanted to at some point, and could benefit from lifestyle changes and techniques to help last longer,” the researchers said.

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Gay Porn Star Turned Professor Sues University Over Firing

A gay porn star turned professor just schooled his bigoted university. He won an unfair dismissal case against a university that fired him after discovering his previous XXX career. An Italian court ruled Rome’s Sapienza University should never have fired the man and ordered the university to pay him damages.

“I was forced to sue. And I won,” he told Italy’s La Repubblica newspaper. As an adult entertainer, he was employed by one of the most prolific U.S. gay porn studios and starred in classics such as Big ‘N’ Plenty and Man Country. “Some students reported the photo in a few sites and from there my former life as a porn actor emerged,” he said. “To be honest, it wasn’t exactly a secret.”

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Swingers Reveal This Piece Of Jewelry Is A Secret Signal

A black wedding ring signals naughtiness, swingers reveal. A kinky couple is spilling on the subtle signs that indicate others participate in their “lifestyle.” While pampas grass has been a plant prominently associated with swinging, the kinky couple says the two are keeping their eyes out for a naughty piece of jewelry.

“One sign is a black wedding ring on your right hand,” the man said. Pineapples also have now replaced pampas grass as the most popular item to indicate swinging. One of the swingers said she even wears a gold pineapple necklace so that people know about her bedroom antics. “Some people go dancing together, some people go to the gym together, and swinging is our little hobby,” she said, adding “We love the lifestyle.”

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Women Have Time For Sex But Not Always Orgasms

Women are less likely to pursue orgasms if they are under a time constraint or have a selfish partner, according to a Rutgers University-led study. “There are contextual, societal and personal factors that likely create barriers that prevent women from feeling able to actively pursue orgasm,” said a Rutgers social psychology doctoral student who advocates for “orgasm equality” on Instagram, where she has more than 21,000 followers. According to the study, published in the Journal of Sex Research, women use cues and adjust their pursuit of an orgasm in each sexual encounter.

In a series of experiments, researchers had heterosexual women imagine themselves in a sexual scenario and consider how much time they had or how selfish their partner seemed—afterward, the subjects reported their outcomes based on how strongly they would go after an orgasm and how likely they would be to have one. The study indicated women who pursue orgasm as a goal are more likely to reach climax. Researchers suggested that men should tell their female partners that they want their pleasure to be a priority, without putting pressure on their partners to orgasm.

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Spontaneous Sex Isn’t The Hottest Sex, Study Says

Good things come to those who wait, according to a new study. New research from York University published in the Journal of Sex Research found that planning ahead can be just as sexy and satisfying as spontaneous sex—despite popular beliefs otherwise. “But, despite these beliefs, across our two studies, we did not find strong support that people actually experience spontaneous sex as more satisfying than planned sex,” the study’s authors said.

“When we suggest that couples or other romantic configurations carve out that time, we’re not necessarily saying you put it into a calendar—like 7 p.m. on a Tuesday, after putting dinner in the oven and before folding the socks,” explained a registered psychotherapist specializing in romantic relationships. The study’s authors concluded that the key to planning sex ahead of time is “intention, versus expectation” and to plan to regularly spend quality time together with no distractions to keep hold of the spark and alleviate any pressure. “But the intentionality behind it can be transformative in the sense that we don’t wait around for the right moment, because sometimes the mood just never strikes, really, for some people, and that might deter them.”

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Kinkster Who’s Sexually Attracted To Objects Is In A Relationship With Balloons

A man, who says he is sexually attracted to inanimate objects, has revealed that he is currently in a committed relationship with a bunch of balloons. The kinkster says his floating lovers communicate with him through telepathy and dreams, and they share “each and every thought, feeling and emotion.” He identifies as “objectum sexual”—meaning that he is sexually attracted to inanimate objects—revealing that his balloons share his bed and that they have a “physical” relationship.

“Every morning, I wake up by saying ‘good morning’ and giving a kiss to my balloons that sleep beside me, and vice versa,” he said, adding “I make out with my balloons.” The fetishist claims that he doesn’t go anywhere without his lovers. “[The balloons] should have the freedom and the chance to see the world, and that is the reason why I walk with them everywhere.”

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Swingers Swap Upside-Down Pineapples For Color-Coded Loofahs

Swingers are now using loofahs to signal they want to get down and dirty. A TikToker recently posted a video of swingers using multicolored shower scrubbers to hang on the roofs of their cars with the caption, “They are everywhere!” One commenter said this was the new “upside-down pineapple,” a sign for others that you’re into swinging.

Loofahs come in seven different colors, each with a different swinger meaning. White is for beginners and black is for those who want it all; other colors, including teal, are apparently reserved for those who identify as bisexual. Purple is for those who like to watch. As one commenter quipped, “rocking out with their loofahs out!”

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Thieves Steal $15K Worth of Gold-Plated Sex Toys

Some naughty thieves stole gold-covered sex toys worth more than £15,000 each from a factory in Spain. In addition to the 24-Karat gold vibrators, the masked men made off with nearly £23,000 in cash from a safe. The premises targeted belonged to erotic items wholesaler Dreamlove.

Local reports say seven gold and steel vibrators were taken in all, with the more expensive sex toys valued at up to $17,000 (£15,300) and the ones made with the cheaper material up to $3,000 (£2,600). A spokesman for the sex toy company said it would be difficult to sell them on the black market because they are “rare and easily identifiable products.” It’s not the first time naughty thieves made off with XXX goods: video footage released by cops showed another suspect walking in through an open door and walking away with a box of Satisfyer G-spot stimulators.

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Gillian Anderson Wants To Know Your Wildest Sex Fantasies

Gillian Anderson wants your seX-files. The actress is inviting people to write letters detailing their sexual fantasies for her new book on the female sexual experience. “I want women across the world, and all of you who identify intrinsically as women now…. to write to me and tell me what you think about when you think about sex,” Anderson said.

“Whether it’s when you’re having it by yourself or with a partner, or with more than one. Tell me.” She aims to document the sex lives of women around the globe to help shed light on “women’s sexuality and what it means to be a woman today.” This collection was inspired by Nancy Friday’s revolutionary 1973 best seller, “My Secret Garden,” which also compiled letters regarding the female sexual experience.

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Inside Notorious NYC Sex Club Plato’s Retreat

The owner of swank swingers’ lounge Plato’s Retreat, Larry Levenson, epitomized late 1970s hedonism in NYC—and even made partner-swapping mainstream.  The wild tale of his reign as the “King of Swing” is being revisited as part of Vice TV’s “Sex Before the Internet” series. “Plato’s Retreat is part of New York City’s history,” said Levenson’s son, adding, “It was where everyone wanted to be. It was an attraction that everyone wanted to see—even if they weren’t swingers.”

Celebrities such as Richard Dreyfuss, John Wayne, Sammy Davis Jr., Paul Newman, and Madonna were said to have dropped by—but mainly, it was porn stars, hordes of heterosexual couples, and single women who flocked to Plato’s for sexual exhibitionism. Once inside, they were welcome to enjoy the lounge, which featured an Olympic-sized pool, a 60-person jacuzzi, and the legendary “mat room”—where a sea of mattresses accommodated orgies. Levenson, who often donned a plush black bathrobe embroidered with the moniker “King of Swing,” would frequently sit perched atop a throne to better survey the XXX scene.

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