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Say Hello to “MistressCandice”…

Domination was born of sex. It’s always been all about sex. Women owning their sexuality and yours. Whether through the use of pain for sexual pleasure, controlled orgasm, tease and denial it’s all about sex. Giving or withholding. That doesn’t mean it’s about intercourse but it can be. For Domination in the modern age, Domination is determined by the practicing Dominatrix.

There was a time in our history where Dominatrixes came under scrutiny and for them to continue practicing their trade for pay they had to remove sex from Domination. With the invent of the internet we are now able to put sex back into PRO Domination. Giving it or withholding it, all of it is a part of Domination. Many Prohibition Dommes still prefer to keep sex removed from their interaction, I do not. However I myself am more than a pro Domme. I am and have been lifestyle for what seems forever, and we lifestyle Dommes never twisted the core of being a Dominatrix to suit the law. We didn’t have to. Being a Dominatrix has always been legal. We only had to worry about safe, sane, and consensual.

Erotic hypnosis is exactly what it implies. EROTIC is an adjective

Erotic: giving sexual pleasure or sexually arousing

Hypnosis: an artificially induced trance state resembling sleep, characterized by heightened susceptibility to suggestion.

So while I am both A dominatrix and Erotic hypnotist I am also a Hypno Domme. Sometimes I combine all three, sometimes I just play in one realm or the other. It depends on a couple of things. One is my mood and the other is yours!

Now that we are clear on what I do know there is nothing to fear for when we play there is no safe word on the internet during hypnosis only a safe space. You draw the lines of the box that I play within. So there are twists and turns and surprises but all within the space we create.

-Mistress Candice

NEWS: A one-night stand that lasts forever

Premarital sex is frowned upon by various cultures and religions, but in India if you play hide the sausage before you tie the knot, you’re considered married. A court in India has ruled that premarital sex equates to marriage! OMG if that was the case in the states I would be a modern day Liz Taylor, multiple marriages! 

The deal is if an unwed couple of legal age “indulge in sexual gratification,” this will equate to a legit marriage, and they could be deemed “husband and wife,” according to The Hindu. Wow, can you imagine!? One minute you’re stoked that you scored, next thing you know you’ve got a ball and chain. For the full story click here.

On a side note, I would absolutely love to travel to India one day, soak in the spirituality and beauty but this is another reason why I love the USA. Appreciate your freedoms, people!

NEWS: Great Expectations

As a 30 (closing in on 31 – yikes) year old single female, I often wonder what single men are looking for. If a guy is merely seeking out a Friday fuck fest, physical attraction might trump all, but if they are looking for someone to have and to hold, they for sure have greater expectations.

Dating sites are a topic that comes up among singles quite often, because lets face it, if you aren’t hitting the bars every weekend it seems hopeless you’ll have a serendipitous moment with your soulmate in Starbucks. The fantastic aspect of dating sites is you can peruse through people based on their profile and characteristics they put out there, the caveat, is it all bullshit!? Who friggin’ knows! So when I come across a survey on USA today that reveals “what singles want” I’m enchanted to read.

This data was compiled from a broad national survey that included about 5,500 single adults 21+ years and older. Here is a sneak peek of some of the results:

Top “must haves” in relationships for men:
63% Is someone I can trust and confide in.
57% Treats me with respect.
40% Is physically attractive to me.

Top “must haves” in relationships for women:
84% Treats me with respect.
77% Is someone I can trust and confide in.
58% Has sense of humor/makes me laugh.

What men judge women on the most:
58% Teeth
55% Grammar
51% Hair

What women judge men on the most:
71% Teeth
69% Grammar
58% Clothes

Least important to men:
4% Eager to marry.
6% Makes at least as much as I do.
7% Eat similar foods.

Least important to women:
6% Eager to marry.
9% Eat similar foods.
11% Wants to have children/Shares my political beliefs.

Woaaahh I need to whiten my grill! To read the entire survey check out USA Today

NEWS: What’s your lucky number?

Have you ever pondered how many people your partner has boinked? I think it’s safe to say it’s crossed everyone’s mind once or twice. If you do muster up the courage to ask the major buzz kill question, make sure to emphasize what ‘having sex’ means to you. The definition of sex is not universal amongst people, it comes in all shapes and sizes!

A study by the Kinsey Institute at the University of Indiana was published in the journal of the American Medical Association, and I have to say some of the information had me surprised. 600 students participated in the survey and more than 90% said penis-vagina intercourse counts as sex, while 81% said penis-anal intercourse meant “had sex”. 40% said oral-genital contact counts as “had sex.” If my boyfriend asked me how many men I’ve taken down I’d include all penis-vagina and penis-anal encounters I’ve had.

To make matters more confusing, a separate survey conducted by the Kinsey Institute with people between the ages of 18 and 96 found that there is no single generation or gender that agrees on a definition of “had sex.” I can understand why someone would want to know how many people his or her partner has bed but just keep in mind curiosity killed the cat!

Get to Know “Naughty Olivia”…

With Naughty Olivia

How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
One of my girlfriends was really having a great time with NiteFlirt and encouraged me to give it a try a couple months ago; I did and I haven’t looked back since! It is my new obsession.

What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you on one of your hot phone sex calls?
I have a very vocal cat that sometimes wants to compete with my callers for attention; one time I had to explain to my caller that “More than one pussy was clamoring for his attention!”

What is your favorite part of being a phone mistress?
I love to take calls while I’m on the clock for my day job; it can be so boring and dreary and every single caller I get is a way for me to take my mind off things and spice things up! I have a very high sex drive and it’s an excellent outlet for me.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and cam sex calls on NiteFlirt?
I consider myself to be rather outdoorsy; I love to experience the Colorado outdoors. I love to bike the roads and mountains out here. I also love to hike the Front Range on the weekends, occasionally with some camping. I also love to summon my subs a few times a week in the evenings to get some power play in; nothing makes me wetter!

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I would be a warm hot fudge, slowly flowing down your body, sweet and warm at first, but before you know it, you’re drowning and dominated by chocolate-y goodness and cannot get out, no matter how hard you try.

NEWS: Eyes On The Prize

If you’re a sexually seasoned individual you may have been involved in a Ménage à trios, perhaps you’ve dabbled with anal beads, but have you partaken in eyeball licking? It’s what all the cool kids in Japan are doing, ooof totally gives an eye for an eye a new meaning.

Eyeball licking is called oculolinctus or “worming”… wow that just upped the ante on the shock factor. The sex craze exploded on the Internet last week after Chinese news site “Shanghaiist” dished the deets. This fetish is not a safe sexual practice, and it has caused outbreaks of pink eye, and even a few cases of eye Chlamydia!! Word on the street is that eyeball licking is considered second base among Japanese teens. I’m all about taking it slow but I’d rather just steal third base and bypass worming.

Will you and your partner indulge and try out eyeball licking?

NEWS: South Carolina Couple Really Rocks The Boat!

Gloria Sawyer and James Russell Nichols an Aynor, South Carolina couple were arrested for doing the dirty on a docked boat, and slapped with an indecent exposure charge. According to the Huff Post nearby patrons complained that Sawyer and Nichols were knocking boots in plain sight for all to see! I guess Nichols should of thought twice before he dropped his anchor!

Obviously Nichols denied that he and Sawyer engaged in any sort of sexual activities, stating he was merely rubbing Sawyers leg because they were “sore from a medical condition”. Ahhh yes the old rubbing the leg excuse, nothing wrong with a little motion in the ocean you just need to be discreet, people!

I couldn’t resist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o8T095mFdW8

Get to Know… “Kiwi Candy”

With Kiwi Candy

How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
Phone sex as a job was suggested to me by the boyfriend I was with at the time. After a few months of him not being able to keep up with my need for hard kinky sex, he thought being a phone girl would give me the attention I needed. So he introduced me to NiteFlirt, and my sex drive has only sped up since. I don’t see myself doing anything else but being a good submissive phone girl.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and cam sex calls on NiteFlirt?
Doing photo shoots is one of my favorite things to do when I’m not indulging in naughty phone play. I also really enjoy spending time at the beach. I will never turn down a chance to go shopping, or to go to a movie. I relax watching my many TV shows that I am addicted to when I can.

Is there any kind of specific fetish sex that you yourself enjoy?
BDSM is probably my biggest fetish. The way I feel when I enter subspace…gets me wet every time. There is an added intensity to an orgasm when I’m tied up and helpless, that I crave all the time. The way the paddle feels when it stings my ass, sends waves of pleasure through me. Add it all up, and you can see why I’m so willing to be a submissive slut.

What erotic fantasy or phone domination would you like enacted on YOU?
I really love the fantasy of being a naughty girl next door. It makes me really hot to know I’m causing a man to cheat on his wife with me, seducing him away from the woman he is with. To push it further, I want him to get me pregnant. I like seeing how much risk a man will take to get his hands on my body.

NEWS: Sexy Time Benefits!

Sex truly is a sacred pastime and for the most part we all thoroughly enjoy it, and when we aren’t getting nookie, we crave it. Just from personal experience when I’m back in the saddle, I sleep better, I’m calmer, and I find that I get very creative. My creative juices start flowing, so to speak.

I came across an article in Playboy that provides an astounding list of benefits that stem from sexual intercourse. Sex is such a natural, primitive pleasure that can happen between two people, it only makes sense that good can come from it. Check Playboy’s list out, you may want rethink that phony headache excuse tonight: • Sex not only lowers stress levels, it also assists in lowering blood pressure!

• Having more sex boosts levels of the hormone Oxycotin, which helps build and strengthen the bond between partners.

• Research shows that having sex once or twice a week can boost your immune system.

• One study proved that having sex on a regular basis increases your lifespan. (What a hell of a panty dropper!!)

• The more sexually active you are the more attractive you are to the opposite sex. (Oh dear god, I must be a fugly Josie Grossy right now.)

• Orgasms release so many endorphins they’ve been proven to alleviate pain. (Hooray for the O face!)

• If you’ve had an anger streak, fear not… sex relieves tension! (No need for anger management classes)

• Sex releases sleep – inducing endorphins that help you sleep more soundly. (It’s clear to me why I’m an insomniac now, awesome…)

• Sex sharpens your sense of smell.

If this list hasn’t totally sold you on why you should be buying a one-way ticket to pleasure town I don’t know what will! Get your freak on!

NEWS: Men Have Wrinkle Woes Too!

Okay, so you’ve heard of lip plumping, botox, and the famous anal bleaching, but have you heard of “ball ironing”? Oh yes, you read that right! Apparently in 2008 George Clooney had an interview with Esquire, Clooney stated he had never had any eye work done but he went on to say,

“I did get my balls done…I got them unwrinkled. It’s the new thing in Hollywood—ball ironing.” One would think that Clooney was just joshin’ the Esquire interviewer but turns out tightening and toning the testes is a real thing. Talk about ironing out the fine details, this is nuts! A Santa Monica spa offers the procedure, which is titled as a “male laser lift”. The process involves, “Using the Pixel laser this procedure evens out skin tone, removes discoloration from ingrown hairs, removes skin tags and provides overall tightening to the external skin. You know where…”

If you want to look hawt in the sack, or shall I say have a hawt sack you’ll need to drop $575 on the treatment. I don’t know guys, this little operation sounds a bit hairy! 