Flirt Creates Women’s Empowerment Legal Center

We are always proud of the many talents of Flirts showcased on NiteFlirt. But nothing makes us prouder than hearing about all the good and giving back our Members do in the real world. This Giving Tuesday, we are shining a light on a very special organization created by one of our own beloved Flirts.

A fifteen-year successful veteran of NiteFlirt, B.D. (name changed to preserve anonymity) was inspired by working in the adult industry and observing the driving need to empower women. Setting her ambitious sights on becoming an attorney to advocate for her community and with the vision to one day be a voice for those in need, B.D. completed law school and passed the bar exam – all while still taking calls on NiteFlirt!

The Women’s Empowerment Legal Center (WELC) was founded to aid individuals and families affected by abuse and to meaningfully impact those in need of support after experiencing major life transitions. WELC is a non-profit based in Texas with the vision to provide free legal services and protective orders for survivors of domestic violence.

Since its inception earlier this year, WELC helps clients obtain stability by fostering a safe place to secure their independence and design an action plan focused on educational and financial literacy goals. WELC also collaborates with free, local counseling programs so that survivors can prioritize their mental health and forge their own path to empowerment. WELC’s newest initiative is a collaboration between the local women’s shelter to offer physical wellness classes structured around mobility, mindfulness, yoga, and self-defense-based jiu-jitsu classes. The program offers a physical outlet for survivors to process and conquer their trauma in a secure environment and a space where they can learn to love themselves and their bodies again. 

When asked about B.D’s past with sex work, she states, “I am proud of the nearly two decades I spent marketing fetish work. I crafted and honed business skills while working at NF Services which now lead to me being a successful attorney and non-profit director. There is no shame in my history with adult industry marketing. I value everything I learned on the phone and with my peers. I owe the life that I have to be on the phones with NF Services.”

In the spirit of the season, we encourage you to consider making a donation to this incredible organization and if you would like to learn more about the Women’s Empowerment Legal Center’s fundraising efforts, please visit their fundraising page on PayPal.

#NeverAloneWithNiteFlirt Twitter Photo Contest

California, where NiteFlirt’s corporate office is located, has extended their shelter-in-place order through the end of May. Now we need to figure out what to do with even more time at home — there are only so many loaves of bread one can bake! So, we are looking to you for some inspiration.  

Through the rest of May, we will be having the “Never Alone with NiteFlirt” Twitter contest. Tweet your sexiest quarantine picture and include the hashtag #NeverAloneWithNiteFlirt. Be sure to include a link to your NiteFlirt profile so people know how to find you. 

And there’s no better way to reward your sexiness than with some cold hard cash — something we all could use more of these days. Each week, the tweet with the most likes will win a $100 credit to their NiteFlirt account.  

Tweets between Monday, May 11 through Sunday, May 17 will be entered into week 1. Tweets between Monday, May 18 through Sunday, May 24 will be entered into week 2. Tweets between Monday, May 25 through Sunday, May 31 will be entered into week 3. 

Inspired us! Show us how you are keeping the quarantine sexy! 

Disclaimer: All NiteFlirt members are eligible for the “Never Alone with NiteFlirt” Twitter Photo Contest. To be eligible, tweets must include the hashtag #NeverAloneWithNiteFlirt and a photo. The tweet with the most likes during each contest period will win a $100 credit to their NiteFlirt account. There are three (3) contest periods are Monday, May 11, 2020 – Sunday May 17; Monday, May 18, 2020 – Sunday, May 24, 2020; and Monday, May 25, 2020 – Sunday, May 31, 2020. Prize money, in NiteFlirt Dollars, will be credited to the winning NiteFlirt account within 14 days of the end of each period. Active NiteFlirt Flirts can be paid out the NiteFlirt Dollars with their earnings; all other members must use the prize money on NiteFlirt. NiteFlirt considers any Flirt who has earned money on NiteFlirt in the last 30 days as active. Winners will be announced via the @NiteFlirt twitter account.

HUSTLER to Feature NiteFlirt’s Own Amberly

AmberlyThe March 2020 issue of HUSTLER Magazine will feature one of our very own Flirts Amberly, who has been a valuable member of the NiteFlirt community since her start with us in 2007. In the spread, John Blaylock examines the secret we already know to be true: despite the accessibility of video and cam, phone sex is thriving. It’s an interesting read made more interesting by Amberly (but we’re not biased!).

Pick up the issue to get more insight into Amberly, her humble beginnings, and how she started in the industry. If you are curious about how she does what she does, pick up a copy of her book, “How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator”(available on Amazon), where she hopes to help others be just as successful as she is.

Think you’re ready to earn some money too?  Check out How to Become a Flirt and start your own sexy NiteFlirt story.

Fireworks Goody Contest

Fireworks Goody Contest

In a few days, we’ll all sit back and watch fireworks brighten the night sky. But why should fireworks only happen once? Let’s ignite fireworks this month with hot, new Goody Bags and cool, extra cash. 

To take part in our contest, just create a new Fourth of July or firework-themed Goody Bag. Every new Goody Bag (created on or after July 1, 2019 and priced at $1.99 or more) that has the word “fireworks” in the title or description and is sold between July 1, 2019 and July 15, 2019 will be counted towards the contest. Goody Bags containing Skype or other cam IDs are not eligible.

The 3 Flirts who sell the most fireworks bags will get a NiteFlirt t-shirt and cash bonus credited to their accounts!

 

1st Place:  $300

2nd Place: $200

3rd Place: $100

Disclaimer: All Flirts providing services on NiteFlirt are eligible for the Fireworks Goody Contest. All Flirts will automatically be entered unless they notify NiteFlirt that they do not want to participate. Each NiteFlirt account is considered its own entry, sales from accounts cannot be combined. Sales of Goodies that are found to be in violation of NiteFlirt’s policies, purchased by the seller, or otherwise deemed fraudulent by NiteFlirt in its sole discretion will not be included in the final sales total. Goody Bags that contain Skype IDs or other cam IDs are not eligible. The Fireworks Goody Contest is based on the total amount of new Goody Bags that are sold to unique customers. Multiple buys of the same Goody Bag from one customer will not count towards your total. Only Goody Bags priced at $1.99 or more and created after July 1, 2019 are eligible. The contest runs from midnight (UTC) July 1, 2019 to 11:59 p.m. (UTC) July 15, 2019. Winners will be announced in the NiteFlirt Community Forums by August 15, 2019. Prize money will be credited to the winning NiteFlirt accounts within 14 days of the end of the contest.

May Affiliate Contest

One of the best ways to make extra cash on NiteFlirt is by being an affiliate. Did you know that becoming an affiliate is free and that you could earn hundreds of extra dollars a month? There’s no reason not to join! When you send customers to NiteFlirt and they spend $50 or more, you’ll make $50! And if they spend that $50 on you, that’s even more money on top of the beginning of a new customer relationship.

If that’s not enough for you, how about this for added motivation:

  • The affiliate who has the most new qualified customers in May will get an extra $300,
  • For those of you who join the affiliate program in the month of May, $100 will go to the _new_ affiliate who brings in more new qualified customers in May over any other _new_ affiliate (ahem…if you’re not an affiliate, you should join now!).
  • We’ll throw in a NiteFlirt t-shirt for both winners too.

That’s just more money, more money, more money!

Disclaimer: All Flirts who have accepted the Affiliate Agreement on NiteFlirt are eligible for the May Affiliate Contest. All Flirts who have accepted the Affiliate Agreement will automatically be entered unless they notify NiteFlirt that they do not want to participate. Each NiteFlirt account is considered its own entry, referrals from accounts cannot be combined. Referrals that are found to be in violation of NiteFlirt’s policies or otherwise deemed fraudulent by NiteFlirt in its sole discretion will not be included in the final total. The May Affiliate Contest is based on the total amount of new qualified referrals that qualify during the contest. A new qualified referral is considered a new NiteFlirt member who spends $50.00 or more. A _new_ affiliate is any Affiliate the joined the program on or after May 1, 2019. The contest runs from midnight (UTC) May 1, 2019 to 11:59 p.m. (UTC) May 31, 2019. Winners will be announced in the NiteFlirt Community Forums before June 15, 2019. Winners will be contacted by June 30th for t-shirt shipping information. Prize money will be credited to the winning NiteFlirt accounts within 14 days of the end of the contest.

St. Patrick’s Day Chat Contest

Sexy St Patricks Day WomanDid you know that Flirts participating in chat saw an increase in earnings of a whopping 29.5%? Interestingly, 25.0% of this increase is due to chat, but the other 4.5% is an increase in call earnings. That’s right; chatting with your customers increases their call spend with you, too!

Is that not enough to convince you to try your luck at Chat? How about if we throw a little more St. Patrick’s Day green your way?

The Flirt who has the most new Chat customers from March 14th and March 21st will win $200! The Flirt who earns the most money from new Chat customers during that same time will also earn $200! That’s two ways to add a little extra to your pot of gold!

What is a new Chat customer? Someone with whom you have never chatted before and has 4 or more paid volleys with you between March 14th and March 21st.

Go ahead, jump in and start Chatting!

Disclaimer: All Flirts providing services on NiteFlirt are eligible for the St. Patrick’s Day Chat Contest. All Flirts will automatically be entered unless they notify NiteFlirt that they do not want to participate. Each NiteFlirt account is considered its own entry, sales from accounts cannot be combined. Chats that are found to be in violation of NiteFlirt’s policies, purchased by the seller, or otherwise deemed fraudulent by NiteFlirt in its sole discretion will not be included in the final sales total. The St. Patrick’s Day Chat Contest is based on the total amount of new Chat customers and the total amount earned from new Chat customers that are acquired during the contest. A new Chat customer is considered a NiteFlirt member who has never chatted with the Flirt prior to the contest and engages in at least 4 paid volleys. Volleys covered by NiteFlirt are not eligible. The contest runs from midnight (UTC) March 14, 2019 to 11:59 p.m. (UTC) March 21, 2019. Winners will be announced in the NiteFlirt Community Forums before March 27, 2019. Prize money will be credited to the winning NiteFlirt accounts within 14 days of the end of the contest.

Valentine’s Goody Contest: And the winners are…

Who needs candy hearts to have a good Valentine’s? Certainly not our Flirts!

We would like to congratulate the winners of our Valentine’s Goody Contest:

1st: Lauren Rules
2nd: Virtual Bimbo
3rd: CallEnvy 

Collectively they sold over 300 Goody Bags! Wowie! Great job everyone!

It's been a cold winter. This Valentine's Day warm things up with NiteFlirt.
It’s been a cold winter. This Valentine’s Day warm things up with NiteFlirt.

How About a Little Podcast Stimulation?

We are big fans of Rebecca Love and Joclyn Stone’s podcasts, and we’re pretty sure you’ll get off on them too.

Jocyln talks about the fetish world and educates the public on alternative lifestyles in Sick Addictions with Joclyn Stone.
Her twisted mind fascinates you, and you simply can’t stop listening. For instance, have you ever wondered exactly what a cuckold is? Most people believe that it is a form of humiliation and is controlled by the dominant of the relationship. Joclyn and Rebecca explain that this could not be further from the truth in episode 146. And this is just one of the many subjects covered.

 

If learning more about the adult industry and getting amazing tips from industry pros is more your speed, the ladies have you covered too. Talking Dirty provides you with behind the scenes insights, tips for getting started in the industry, and how to add to your current success — all while sharing some great stories that come along with their advice. You won’t want to miss what they have to say about attending adult conventions!

So turn up the volume, kick back, and enjoy listening to some stimulating conversation.

Porn Star Builds Darth Vader Out of Sex Toys

Porn star Kayla-Jane Danger gave the Star Wars super villain the ultimate makeover with her latest project: a 7-foot Darth Vader made entirely out of sex toys! “It’s easily the most unique thing I’ve done in porn,” Danger said of her buzz-worthy creation. She’s calling her statue “Darth Vibrader,” which was brought to life with more than “$3,000 worth of sex toys, including 200 vibrators, 10 paddles, a whip, two rows of anal beads, a rubber fist and a pair of what Danger called ‘hooker boots,’ according to the Huffington Post.

Courtesy of woodrocket.com
Courtesy of woodrocket.com

Danger is a former student of Parsons School of Design and still needed around eight hours and the help of two others to construct Darth Vibrader. The statue will be displayed at the headquarters of Woodrocket.com, which the porn star believes doesn’t need to serve just a decorative purpose. “You could rub yourself on the light saber, or use the big strap-on in front,” she said. “There are five bullet vibrators in his hands — and those have more power than a Hitachi wand.” All hail, lord Vader!

Feel like having some out-of-this-world fun yourself? We’ve got more thrills than the Death Star right here!

Learn more about Kayla-Jane Danger’s Darth Vibrader here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/porn-star-kayla-jane-danger-builds-sex-toy-darth-vader-nsfw_55afdbc3e4b0a9b948535810?

What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Have an Orgasm

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_maleorgasmHave you ever been with someone who you weren’t sure came or not? Since so much pressure is put on having an orgasm during sex, it can sometimes be awkward to ask if they did get off or to know what to do if they didn’t. Here are some tips to help you the next time this happens and to help your partner have an orgasm:

  1. Show that you care about your partner’s pleasure
    The sexiest thing you can do in bed is to show your partner that you genuinely care about them having a good time. Simple questions like “does that feel good?” and “what turns you on?” show that you care about their pleasure. This will help encourage them to relax and have a good time.
  2. Spend some time focusing on what turns them on
    Try taking some time to just pleasure your partner: give them head, kiss them all over, etc. While focusing on them, let them know that you enjoy what you’re doing by saying things like “you taste amazing” or “I could do this for hours.” This relaxes them and lets them know that there’s no rush.
  3. Communicate about how close you are to The Big O
    If you’re getting close to reaching orgasm but you don’t think your partner’s there yet, take a breather and switch it up for a while. This is a great opportunity to give them some more head and to focus on their pleasure while you cool down. And if you do cum before your partner, ask if they’d like to cum, too—sex isn’t the only way to get off!
  4. Take the focus off of cumming
    Cumming is not the end-all-be-all of sex. Make every moment count and don’t just focus on the end-goal. It’ll take pressure off of having an orgasm and it’ll make the experience that much more enjoyable.

Feel like having some pleasurable experiences yourself? You can take all the time you need with us!

There are more helpful tips here: https://afterhours.lifehacker.com/orgasms-arent-everything-how-to-be-good-when-someone-d-1722292291